Two4Hotfun 15 Posted December 9, 2003 I'm an adventurous woman that craves being gangbanged in front of my hubby. I just dream of having many men...and women....using me for their pleasure as he watches. Am I alone in this nasty fantasy? Anyone else interested? Em Quote Share this post Link to post
mrbandsatl 18 Posted December 9, 2003 ummmmm... let's see... NOPE! LOL - you are definately not alone. Last year I had the pleasure of living this fantasy and while I may not do it again, i certainly remember the day with much excitement! Sandy (and Bob) Quote Share this post Link to post
Michcouple 15 Posted December 9, 2003 Don't worry about it.... Many couples have that same fantasy, and other couples have experienced it. Quote Share this post Link to post
TomF_22033 17 Posted December 17, 2003 I'd love to participate in something like that but it's hard enough to meet a couple let alone a woman that wants to have a gangbang. Quote Share this post Link to post
jcbicouple 24 Posted December 17, 2003 You are definitely not alone in this fantasy. We've tried this twice, once with 3 guys and once with 4 guys, but hubby was an active participant. All of the guys we invited were bi, and we all played together. It was a lot of fun, and something that we'll probably do again. However, next time we'll invite more guys than we really want to have there, as our experience has been that at least half will not show. Seems that this is something that sounds exciting to a lot of guys, but as the reality sets in, it sounds less appealing. Our only fear is that if we invite 20, that will be the time they all show! Quote Share this post Link to post
BradAndJanet 70 Posted December 17, 2003 Originally posted by jcbicouple ...Our only fear is that if we invite 20, that will be the time they all show! Well, just drop us a note if you end up with extras It's one of our fantasies too. -B Quote Share this post Link to post
BettyAnnMBSC 24 Posted December 17, 2003 There is a boiler-plate way to make this fantasy happen... It does have dangers though.... Find a cheap pool hall and visit at about 10:30PM -- it works best if you go alone (or at least appear to be alone). Dress for sex (not sexy but sleazy) ie: no bra - no panties - short skirt. Find the table with the four or five young (18-25 yo) guys who have had just a little too much to drink. Ask if you can play too... One of the guys will say "you can play with me anytime baby" (they learn that in the guy book) -- you have to reply with a come on or they'll back off... say "I like to play with everybody" While playing around show your bare bottom as often as possible without flashing the bar maid (she'll think you're a hooker and toss you)... Make sure that you tease everyone equally or one of the guys will take it as you're interested in him... Let the guys take it from there.... :fun: Don't screw in the club (unless the owner is involved) and take your own rubbers (at least 8) Quote Share this post Link to post
VegasLee 1,486 Posted December 17, 2003 Sounds like maybe BettyAnnMBSC has been to a few of our barmeets in Vegas. Quote Share this post Link to post
jcbicouple 24 Posted December 18, 2003 Originally posted by BradAndJanet Well, just drop us a note if you end up with extras It's one of our fantasies too. -B Well, Maybe you should just join us then! Central Ohio isn't THAT far from Northern Indiana! Quote Share this post Link to post
Brit_Pair 62 Posted December 18, 2003 Originally posted by BettyAnnMBSC There is a boiler-plate way to make this fantasy happen... It does have dangers though.... Find a cheap pool hall and visit at about 10:30PM -- it works best if you go alone (or at least appear to be alone). Dress for sex (not sexy but sleazy) ie: no bra - no panties - short skirt. Find the table with the four or five young (18-25 yo) guys who have had just a little too much to drink. Ask if you can play too... One of the guys will say "you can play with me anytime baby" (they learn that in the guy book) -- you have to reply with a come on or they'll back off... say "I like to play with everybody" While playing around show your bare bottom as often as possible without flashing the bar maid (she'll think you're a hooker and toss you)... Make sure that you tease everyone equally or one of the guys will take it as you're interested in him... Let the guys take it from there.... :fun: Don't screw in the club (unless the owner is involved) and take your own rubbers (at least 8) I'm glad you inserted the rider It does have dangers though.... I may be too jaded and cynical for my own good, but the scene you described above seemed to remind me of one thing: the scene from the film The Accused. I'm not au fait with pool hall ettiquette, but I'd have made that rider something like: There are lots and lots of dangers - so consider looking elsewhere to fulfill your gangbang fantasy Just 2cents worth. Quote Share this post Link to post
BettyAnnMBSC 24 Posted December 19, 2003 It really comes down to whether you want a "gang-bang" or a theatrical rendition of a gang-bang complete with director, producer, casting agent, and camera ops... Generally, when engaging in a real gang-bang, the ability to yell "cut" and have the action suspended is significantly limitted... :fun: Quote Share this post Link to post
BradAndJanet 70 Posted December 19, 2003 Originally posted by jcbicouple Well, Maybe you should just join us then! Central Ohio isn't THAT far from Northern Indiana! No, not far at all -B Quote Share this post Link to post
jcbicouple 24 Posted December 20, 2003 Originally posted by BradAndJanet No, not far at all :claps: Cool! We'll work on that! And one more thing: Generally, when engaging in a real gang-bang, the ability to yell "cut" and have the action suspended is significantly limitted... When we say "Stop" or "No" regardless of how many people are there: It means far more than any director saying "Cut". No is No, Stop is Stop, Period. Most situations where you set it up with people you've talked to, won't reach that point, but if you do get the occasional jerk....most of the time there are several decent guys that will back you up. However, picking up a group of "buddies" after showing them your wares will put you in a totally different situation that could easily be more like a gang rape than a gang bang. Quote Share this post Link to post
awider2000 15 Posted December 20, 2003 all I can say is this is now im realy interested !!! whata great forum Quote Share this post Link to post
Brit_Pair 62 Posted December 20, 2003 Originally posted by jcbicouple [bAnd one more thing: Generally, when engaging in a real gang-bang, the ability to yell "cut" and have the action suspended is significantly limitted... When we say "Stop" or "No" regardless of how many people are there: It means far more than any director saying "Cut". No is No, Stop is Stop, Period. Most situations where you set it up with people you've talked to, won't reach that point, but if you do get the occasional jerk....most of the time there are several decent guys that will back you up. However, picking up a group of "buddies" after showing them your wares will put you in a totally different situation that could easily be more like a gang rape than a gang bang. [/b]Amen. Quote Share this post Link to post
BettyAnnMBSC 24 Posted December 21, 2003 However, picking up a group of "buddies" after showing them your wares will put you in a totally different situation that could easily be more like a gang rape than a gang bang. I was not implying that "no doesn't mean no" or that you can't say "stop" whenever you want -- my point was exactly what you write here.... The situation is VERY different from one wherein you have invited some folks for a predetermined range of events with specific limits. Therein lies the dangers of a "real" gang-bang versus a "produced" one. Remember, we in the lifestyle understand that there are certain rules -- when we extend our play beyond the lifestyle (such as to six drunk 20 somethings at the local bar) then we have a whole different set of rules to play by -- and their rules are not the same as ours... Reality is -- when you are engaged in an experience with strangers that you have led on and teased in public -- your "no" may not be honored. It doesn't make that "right" - it makes this a possible reality to consider... On a side but related idea then -- what is the difference between a "gang-bang" and "single female group sex"? Is an MMMF a "gang-bang" or foursome? Is "gang-bang" too poorly defined in swinger circles to be able to come to a conclusion....? Quote Share this post Link to post
PrtyinDuo 18 Posted December 26, 2003 We too have had this fantasy for quite some time now.And talking about it during sex makes for a steamy romp in the bed.Although we have been with cpls and single gals,we still have not been with a single guy,let alone 4-5 of them.And we deffinitely wouldn't go to a pool hall to find em. We usually use a group of guys that we both know and would trust in our fantasy play.EG: Were at a party last year and after a while we ended up in our tent and as we got it on,I started talking about bringing 5 of our friends in the tent for her to enjoy,(as well as me).Prob being,we would not bring up this subject to friends who dont swing or know we do,and havent found single males that we both feel that comfortable with yet.She luvs the feel of a hard'member' and we both truely believe that this is something that we'd enjoy participating in.She likes me to watch when we are with another cpl,and the thought of her getting fucked and sucking cock sure turns me on too. How does one find single guys that are on the 'up and up'?w/o jepordizing the discreetness we all enjoy. Quote Share this post Link to post
Vjklander 138 Posted December 26, 2003 We have done this with gangs of 2-6 me included. Watching is great fun but not as good as participating. Also, watching is a great way to recuperate after your turn. J Quote Share this post Link to post
Brit_Pair 62 Posted December 27, 2003 Originally posted by BettyAnnMBSC On a side but related idea then -- what is the difference between a "gang-bang" and "single female group sex"? Is an MMMF a "gang-bang" or foursome? Is "gang-bang" too poorly defined in swinger circles to be able to come to a conclusion....? Perhaps the two could be defined (seperated?) in general terms by way of the respective amount of consideration afforded to the female participant? "Gang-bang" is quite a hard, even brutal, term, and could be perceived as carrying with it an implication that the female gets to be the recipient of whatever the men see fit to give her in the pursuit of their own satisfaction. Whereas "single female group sex" might be seen as being a case of multiple men giving full consideration to the female's pleasure as well as to their own? Just a thought. Quote Share this post Link to post
Brit_Pair 62 Posted December 31, 2003 Originally posted by BettyAnnMBSC I'm reminded too of another possible scenario that is entirely different from the two aforementioned: what about the Train? I vaguely remember a few of those at college parties...I'm not familiar with that, at least not under that name. How does the Train work? Quote Share this post Link to post
PrtyinDuo 18 Posted December 31, 2003 I'm not familiar with that, at least not under that name. How does the Train work? WOW!! Never heard of "pullin a train"?Well,first ya need to find a 'willing' female.Then a group of guys that will do the deed.(the latter is much easier than the forementioned, )Then it is decided which one of the men will be the 'engine' and who will get to be the 'caboose',(or sloppy lasts)hehe...Then its just a matter of lining up and...er..a..well you get the idea from here! Enjoy!!! Quote Share this post Link to post
BettyAnnMBSC 24 Posted January 1, 2004 How does the Train work? Generally you start with a moderatlkey intoxicated young lady and a party full of very horny young men. (ie: any college dorm after about 7PM). The young lady undresses and retires to the nearest bed (a couch will do) and the young men take a number or get in line. There is usually no debate over who gets to go first because this young lady is generally already sloppy before the line forms. (at least I always was) Each guy in line is bound by the unspoken guy law to not watch his peers screw her. They might see each others pee-pee -- and the girls present (if there are any) have a girl rule not to ever again mention that she was the entertainment. This because they didn't want to have sex themselves and their friend here is performing a service... Each guy gets a ride on the train until everyone has had a turn or her dad comes home (when at her house) or one of her friends makes her get dressed and leave... There is another unspoken guy law that each guy is to take only from 5-10 minutes -- get your rocks off and get out This then differes from the gang bang and the single female multiple male scenarios in that each of the guys in the train scenario are to respect the privacy of the other guys getting laid. sound fun???? Quote Share this post Link to post
Brit_Pair 62 Posted January 1, 2004 Thanks to both BettyAnnMBSC and PrtyinDuo for the explanations. Not only was I unfamiliar with the term, but it turns out I also had no idea about the activity it described. Evidently, I should have gone to a different college. Or won myself a scholarship to study at an American college. Quote Share this post Link to post
PrtyinDuo 18 Posted January 1, 2004 Hey there Brit_Pair....Our pleasure...Only,we bet there was the same kinda things goin on across the pond,just don't know what they call a 'train' over there.LOL.....Enjoy!! Quote Share this post Link to post
fun_pairTX 26 Posted January 1, 2004 Before attempting either, I would arrange for a couple of LARGE sober gentlemen to be present and dressed, should the situation start to get out of hand. A little insurance never hurts. Quote Share this post Link to post
Brit_Pair 62 Posted January 1, 2004 Originally posted by PrtyinDuo Hey there Brit_Pair . . . we bet there was the same kinda things goin on across the pond . . .I suspect you're right. It's just that I never got so much as a sniff of a ticket to ride! Quote Share this post Link to post
PrtyinDuo 18 Posted January 3, 2004 It's just that I never got so much as a sniff of a ticket to ride! Had a ticket to two rides in my time when I was young,but couldn't figure out how some allways rode first class,,,and I allways ended up in the CABOOSE!!!! Enjoy!! Quote Share this post Link to post
Studly777 15 Posted January 3, 2004 All I can say from a male point of view is that they seem to always fall under the "you won't believe what happened" category. I have been involved in two and the both took me by surprise. I am sure the the female participants had it planned. I can't wait for the next one...only I hope I know next time. Quote Share this post Link to post
lookin_forfun65 16 Posted January 28, 2004 I've often thought I'd love to be gang-banged, as well as pull the train... mmmmm J of K&J Quote Share this post Link to post
darling 17 Posted January 31, 2004 I really think for many people, this is a fantasy that is better in your mind then in reality. Quote Share this post Link to post
2be4u 16 Posted February 8, 2004 My first experience started out with just me and her. She told me she wanted two guys, so a friend of mine came to town. We knocked on her door and my friend watched me with her first and then I watched him with her. As time progressed she asked for more guys and it ended up with 6-8 guys, as they started inviting others. She really loved it for a while. One day she called and said these guys were treating her rough and I ended up tracking them down to say enough was enough party over. Apparently some of the guys ended up being abusive and that was when the fun stopped. So if you do it for real, screen your partners. Another girlfriend Ive gone out with many years occasionaly likes to play a fantasy game. She calls it a fuck party and when we have sex she talks about different fantasies with different guys and I switch to different positions and oblige her in any way the game goes. She gets so hot she has many multi-o's. Later she always reminds me she isnt really that way and would never really do that. But the fantasy game during sex is a fun way if you ask you lover or husband to play along you can visualize the gang bang without the danger of my first story. Cum one cum all isnt the best idea. Quote Share this post Link to post
EternallySingle 32 Posted February 8, 2004 Been part of many gangbangs, most of them with single women who are not part of the lifestyle but carry out this fantasy on a regular basis. Two women who asked me to participate in a gangbang with ten other guys were actually shocked when I said I used to swing with my ex-girlfriend. They said they would not be able to deal with their boyfriend having sex with another woman. Then again, they also said they were bisexuals and only had sex with men, and then only in threesomes or gangbangs. hmmm. My life is weird. I'm going to stop posting. Quote Share this post Link to post
sharp1 15 Posted February 8, 2004 I'm sure that if you could get past the dreaded "Single Male" that so many on this site seem to condemn, you would most surely find enough respectful single guys rite here to make your wildest dreams a reality., myself included. Quote Share this post Link to post
yawanna 17 Posted February 8, 2004 hmmm. My life is weird. I'm going to stop posting. Don't you DARE!!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post
JustAskJulie 2,595 Posted February 9, 2004 Being Gangbanged was a big fantasy of mine... until I fulfilled it. In my opinion the reality didn't live up to the fantasy. I did a thread a while back that is basically my gangbang advice and then some. Quote Share this post Link to post
Guest Willbfun Posted February 10, 2004 I would guess most women have this fantasy. At one time my wife said she wanted to try it. But then after we had a MFM threesome. She decided Quality was better that quanity. But speaking personelly, swingers have a different type of gangbang. I have seen women with several men at swingers parties. And most of the guys are trying to please the lady. So I wouldn't associate that with a gangbang. On the other hand I've seen gangbangs in college, that were just that. Most of the guys showed no resept for the woman. And looked at them as a place to dump a load. Hate to be blunt, but that's how it was. I see where a woman could achieve lots of pleasure, if all the men were trying to please her. Quote Share this post Link to post
DomMale46 15 Posted February 20, 2004 I would advise extreme caution . A gang rape with the brutality of drunken madmen is quite possibly what she would get in this scenario. It is not such a fine line between pain and pleasure in the final analysis...It aint Kansas baby.......This aint Oz. Quote Share this post Link to post
Lily 15 Posted February 20, 2004 I have recently met someone who has given me the freedom to express my fantasies, the gang bang fantasy I have has a little twist. I want my man to tie my arms down and blindfold me. Then he will control who and how many have thier way with me. The blindfold will keep me guessing if it was a stranger or someone we know. It hasb't happened yet but he said that once he has it set up it will be a go! Quote Share this post Link to post
ny newbie 15 Posted February 20, 2004 I have the same fantasy...my man in charge, and the blindfold is a big turn on for me. Anyone out there fullfilled this type of fantasy for their ladies? If so, were the results as anticipated? Quote Share this post Link to post
DomMale46 15 Posted February 21, 2004 I dated a woman who wished this fulfilled......She did so one week when I was out of town on business....The reality indeed does not live up to the fantasy.(At least for her)....The experience she had leaves me to believe its far better to know your partners.....Besides,women enjoy flowers delivered dont they????.......DomDito Quote Share this post Link to post
bear_n_bunny 43 Posted February 23, 2004 As many of you ladies have expressed, this is also a fantasy of mine, but only if my Bear is in control. Like the two board newbies, I'd want the blindfold. The not knowing is a big part of the turn on. However, as much as I fantasize about being "trained" by strangers, in reality, I'd only want the gentle that we know from our play group. The longer I'm in this lifestyle, the better I'm getting at defining my fantasies with a strong dose of reality. -- Bunny Quote Share this post Link to post
SluttyWife 17 Posted February 23, 2004 I guess you could call me the "wanna-be" gangbang girl next door. did a great deal of this sort of thing when I was much younger (and AIDS wasn't such a big issue) and l was lucky enough to enjoy the attentions of men I was absolutely wild about. Looking back those were exhausting experiences I was not yet ready or primed for! Whew! Now that I am in my early 30's and definitely entering my sexual peak I fantasize about it a great deal these days what keeps me from going there are all those pesky STD's... If I were to do it all over again, I'd do the "blow bang" thing instead. Would just looove that and Sir Mike likes to see to my pleasure no matter how deliciously naughty! Quote Share this post Link to post
hoistsail 18 Posted March 7, 2004 It is more difficult to do than one might think. A well planned one needs helpers to move the men around and most men are not natural exhibitionists. I have participated in well run ones and the gal has a blast and the men have fun. And her man also has a blast. Quote Share this post Link to post
SluttyWife 17 Posted March 7, 2004 This is a big one of mine, but more in the oral sense of the word... No, you are not alone. Quote Share this post Link to post
Brit_Pair 62 Posted March 8, 2004 Originally posted by hoistsail I have participated in well run ones and the gal has a blast...Multiple blasts in fact!! Quote Share this post Link to post
SABRE777 15 Posted March 8, 2004 Yeah, I can see me now finding a table full of women playing pool of course they have to be 18-25 drunk, and me in a Wide collar 70's style 2 buttons undone ( to showoff red chest hair). Tight pants, Asking if I can play with them. Next thing I see is 4 big mean looking guys asking me if I am cutting in on there Action. Be a gangbang then alright, fist to the eye, middle section, ect. Quote Share this post Link to post
PrtyinDuo 18 Posted March 11, 2004 :slam" :slam" :slam" :slam" NOW I know I'm getting old!!!!!!!! Seeing double print!!!!!!! HELP Quote Share this post Link to post
Enigma 15 Posted March 11, 2004 We were fortunate to have met two single guys who were gentle, caring, and most concerned about providing pleasure rather than “stealing” it all for themselves. We were at a social function which included single and married people who gathered to learn more about the swinging lifestyle. (a cocktail party, if you will. The last thing on my wife’s mind, and mine, was the fantasy of her taking on three guys. It was, so unexpected, so spontaneous in nature that it happened as if on it’s own. The four of us were standing chatting, an invitation for my wife and I to join one of them for a coffee at his home was offered. I asked if the invite was for three, or was it extended to the fourth person as well. We didn’t anticipate that something which seemed to us to be not something we’d be attracted to ... because it was soooo “hardcore” ... could turn out to be as gentle and fun as the night we had with those two handsome young men. Both tall, one white, one black, perfectly respectful gentlemen, concerned only with providing pleasure. Ummm ... I’d better go have a shower now Quote Share this post Link to post
marriedwet 34 Posted March 23, 2004 WOW!!! So would I. Hubby is looking forward to me doing just that but we haven't found the right mix yet. Have no fear, we'll keep trying. Hopefully, all the guys are black with really big cocks!flamethrow : Quote Share this post Link to post