Position Women Want

[PSULioness 859]

I came across this article from Sheknows.com.

 

I have always found that the best sex I’ve had was with me on top. I always attributed it to my own anatomy, an oversized clitoris. I have always felt most guys enjoy when I’m on top too. One of the additional benefits is if he cums before me I can keep him inside until I’m done as well.

 

I have found in a group setting many men rather do it doggy. Don’t get me wrong, this can be just as satisfying though I rather me on top.

 

At this point, it's no secret that for many people with vaginas, penetration alone is not enough to have an orgasm or even pleasurable sexual experience. While, fortunately, we're moving in the right direction in terms of acknowledging that all parties involve should enjoy themselves, what we consider "sex" (penis-in-vagina intercourse) is still very penis-centric. There's still the idea that if there happens to be clitoral stimulation, great! But that's a bonus more than an expected outcome.

 

That's why it's so helpful to have access to data about the positions that work best for people with vaginas. An example of this is a recent survey conducted by Superdrug Online Doctor involving nearly 1,000 participants across genders living in both the United States and Europe ranging in age from 18 to 74 in which people who identified as women were asked which sex positions they enjoyed the most along with other questions about what turns them on.

 

Turns out, the women surveyed said that cowgirl (woman on top) was their favorite position and was ranked in the top spot by 30 percent of participants. Next up were doggy-style (top pick for 21 percent), missionary (20 percent) and 69 (13 percent).

 

As far as the position that helps women reach orgasm fastest, cowgirl came out on top again and was also ranked as the position that makes women feel the sexiest.

[ViSexual 1,008]

I've always loved my gals on top. It allows me to watch them as they enjoy themselves better.

[couplers 4,655]

Thanks for posting the information.

 

... people with vaginas, .

An interesting way to categorize.

[cplnluv1 872]

Let’s hear it for people with vaginas!

We have always enjoyed cowgirl. We will try and change positions. I think missionary is our least go to position. When she is on top she can go at her speed and move the way that she enjoys the most. I know the article is about what is best for her, the results are also best for me, physically and visually. My wife even enjoys being on top during oral. I have to remind her my nose is not a penis at times.

[Sawman 84]

I've been into the Lifestyle for twenty years and I have detected an inclination for that first time to be her on top. In the beginning it was up to the man to decide when intercourse would begin and that sort of dictated missionary. But women seem to have taken more control over their pleasure and a soft nudge and she is riding away. Social changes?

[HotEllie 87]

I prefer being on top, but frankly enjoy all of it.

 

Entry from behind while I am laying on my side is also fun. I can rub my clit and touch my partner's penis while he goes in and out. That usually brings things to a quick climax for both of us.

[Guest]

I am usually on bottom but I do enjoy getting on top in what we call my hooker squat. Instead of my weight being on my knees and the knees being on the mattress or carpet, I have my feet flat on floor or mattress so its more of a jockey position, gives those thighs a real work out. The problem is that the short, powerful jolts get a guy off in no time so I tend to use it to wrap things up if they are progressing simply too slowly. Yes, and the guys like it because the girls really get to bouncing.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

WARNING: You young people might now want to read this if you have any kind of normal fear of getting old.

 

Some women of my acquaintance who have my same number of years would like to do cowgirl or reverse cowgirl but cannot owning to discomfort in knees or hips. One of these has recently had knee replacements and is now restored, to my complete satisfaction and happiness, to her former "ride-em-cowboy" capability. She even gets over me while the bottoms of her feet are flat on the floor and slides up and down on my disk without her legs or butt even touching my abdomen. I ought to send her surgeon a bottle of wine and a note of thanks.

 

Yes, women like the on-top position.

[couplers 4,655]

We have always enjoyed cowgirl. We will try and change positions. I think missionary is our least go to position. .

I can orgasm with penis-in-vagina sex regardless of position, but enjoy missionary best because he's doing the work and I'm enjoying the ride. Watching him work to cum is fascinating and I can put my arms and legs around him. Depends on my mood, but it's making him do it like a man while I'm the willing, receptive female. Just depends on the mood.

[agreatguy 269]

HotEllie said:

 

Entry from behind while I am laying on my side is also fun. I can rub my clit and touch my partner's penis while he goes in and out. That usually brings things to a quick climax for both of us.

 

I know this is a question for the ladies but I had to chime in here. This is also my favorite position. Straddling the bottom leg with the top leg bent up. I can see all the visuals I need, Face, breasts, pussy and ass.

 

It also gives me access to touch her breasts, her clit and her ass if she's into digital penetration. I can spank her, pull her hair or lean over and kiss her passionately. For her, along with the benefits you already described, she can increase the depth of penetration by moving the top leg closer to her chest giving or decrease it by moving her leg down away from her chest.

[M1F2KTJ 473]

Your post has so many things that match our experiences.

 

On top is my wife's favorite position. She has orgasms that way. On top is the only position that she can have an orgasm while fucking. I seem to stay hard after I've cum long enough for her to cum also. I didn't think it was common. I thought it was a thing with my wife.

 

The only other way to get her to cum is by using a vibrator. The Hitachi Magic Wand is the ultimate vibrator to her. No more dead batteries or no longer functioning vibrators. She/we had worn out over a half dozen vibrators

 

My routine is to bring her to an orgasm with a vibrator first. Then It's my turn. My goal when we have sex is to make her cum. I love bringing her to an orgasm!

 

When we play I know that if she ends up on top she is most likely to cum with him. She has had an orgasm with one of her playmates while on her back. I was extremely jealous and extremely happy for her.

 

When we play at home the toy bag is always ready.