Is this a myth??

[cpl36996 91]

Hi everyone is being a while since my last post and recently I noticed that large size woman are afraid at the beginning to try swing, but once they do it seems they enjoy it more the sex than regular size woman: and my question is: is that because they feel less confident about their bodies and afraid of what others might think about of their performance?

[Raygun354 15]

I know that it makes me nervous. I feel.sexy but I am no size 2 and it makes me nervous to even go to.our local club. I.want to sooooo badly, but what if I'm the biggest girl there? What if no one wants to play with me? I'm working on it. I want to make the talk real life!!

[JandKinBoise 858]

A guy can walk into a club with his gut hanging over his junk and still have a big confident smile. Beautiful lady with breasts that don't quite stand up like they did 10 years ago feels like everyone is looking and judging.

The nice thing about swingers is the polite lifestyle. Take a picture of a group of swingers at a party and compare it to a work xmas party. Way fewer smiles at the office party. It's safer to be less than perfect in this atmosphere, still uncomfortable, but better at building confidence. Very few swingers are hung up on body type. Enjoying the LS is sexy, enjoying your body and others is sexy.

Hot, young, tight, spinners dont automatically make good lovers any more than big dicks. There is more to it.

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

In a word: YES

 

Women are their own worst critics...the second worst are woman criticizing other women. This is why we keep saying just GO to a club and you will see that it isn't filled with Barbie's and Ken's but REAL people that look like real people. They may not be the prettiest, but they won't be the 'ugliest' either and they more likely than not will find someone interested in them and leave with a better feeling about themselves. Swinging is for everyone who wants to play and you usually can find someone who wants to play with you too. Beauty is only skin deep, sexy has nothing to do with beauty or skin or size. Once a woman finds this out, they are more confident and feel much better about how they look are are.

[agreatguy 269]

I dare say that most women who have enough confidence to walk into a club that first time will find it boosts their confidence even more to be there. Once they find out that their attractiveness is tied more to a sexy and playful attitude the confidence will soar.

The ones that don't get that from it probably aren't trying.

[micknchris 27]

Interesting, I have just the opposite take than JandKinBoise. I think all the ladies are sexy and all the guys are better looking or in better shape than me (BTW I play a serious level of tennis, so I'm not obese). We were at a house party and when the single guys there took off their shirts all the women whoooped and hollered. I immediately went into my shell and was determined not to take my shirt off in the group room. I'm not fat, but not exactly a swimmer or body builder's body either. I think a "curvy" woman gets away with her extra weight way more than guys do. Maybe the take away from all of this is that we are our own worst critics.