Is there a place for 70 year olds in Swinging?

[MacsMan 17]

We’ve been out of swinging for some years now and wondered whether there is a place for 70 years old swingers? I do don’t mind if it’s just the wife who has the action although obviously I too would love to play again.

[CB&DD 218]

Swingers come in all shapes, sizes and ages, I'm sure with some searching you will find play partners. Good luck in your search and welcome back to the LS.

[njbm 2,868]

Yes, you just have to locate people who want to play with people your age. I am unaware of your location, but you can hit paydirt in Florida, USA. The Villages near Orlando. Paradise Lakes near Tampa. Many in southern Florida. We are 61 and we are the 25 year olds of Florida.

[MacsMan 17]

Thanks for taking the time to add to my concerns. As with most swinging couples one of the greatest pleasures is watching and knowing that your partner is being so well pleasured. We just hope that here in New Zealand the po of swingers is big enough and maybe if that scenario eventuates my wife will at least be able to find a partner or partners to pleasure her even if they are much younger.

[MacsMan 17]

Yes, you just have to locate people who want to play with people your age. I am unaware of your location, but you can hit paydirt in Florida, USA. The Villages near Orlando. Paradise Lakes near Tampa. Many in southern Florida. We are 61 and we are the 25 year olds of Florida.

 

Thanks for your encouraging words. We’re in little and provincial New Zealand so won’t find it as easy as in your town. I’m starting to think that maybe I can at least find a younger man or maybe more than 1 to take care of my wife’s needs. Just to know that she is once again fulfilling her needs.

[Guest]

Hey, we’ll all be there some day so its kind of like social security and medicare, not an issue for us now but yes, we support it.

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

As long as you're breathing, there's a place for you.

[samandtammi 99]

We vacation often in South Florida and have seen a good number of 70+ year olds in a swing club. Isn't 70 the new 50?

[toodamtall 20]

Certainly there is. Our couch, for instance... Honestly, age is a number. Sexy happens between the ears. 'Course its best if some of the naughty bits are involved too.

[MacsMan 17]

Thinking how many additional options you have in Florida than here in little NZ.

[Numex 2,409]

Isn't 70 the new 50?

The new 67.

[MacsMan 17]

The new 67.

 

Thanks for your positive and uplifting msg. Ow we have reinvigorated our efforts to find the right couples again.

[NWAtlSwing 522]

Yes they are out there, and even though we are under 50, have had some fun with them!

[BobGann 40]

I started a thread about "ageing" out in the lifestyle, and I'm in my mid-50's! More power to you! Good to see others give you the support they have here as well.

[padoc 1,703]

In the best of situations, the market for single men is incredibly oversaturated. I would think that as a single male ages his opportunities to score a couple lessens with each passing year. Its a matter of supply and demand and I'd think the guys under 50 would have a better shot with the 45-65 bracket couples.

[Guest]

In the best of situations, the market for single men is incredibly oversaturated. I would think that as a single male ages his opportunities to score a couple lessens with each passing year. Its a matter of supply and demand and I'd think the guys under 50 would have a better shot with the 45-65 bracket couples.

 

I can’t necessarily agree with this. We do a lot of MFM and I have noticed that as we grow older, so do our partners. When we started, getting a young man to join us or me meant he was 20-something. Now, that young man is closer to the age we were when we got started. Hubby kids me about how, when we retire and move to FL, I’ll be doing him and three or four guys that he’ll be hanging with, fishing/bar buddies.

[adamgunn 1,460]

Chico, you're right. But, at the same time, I think some women have a tendency to stop or reduce playing as they age through their sixties into their seventies. This is mainly because of health reasons, but declining libido also plays a part. So, with less opportunities, a man's chances decline as well.

[padoc 1,703]

Chiccouple, please look at SWFL for retirement. We're hoping to put together a group of 4-5 couples so we can take over a wing of the nursing home so we can all boink our way into heaven. It's a perfect plan, lots of beds, clean sheets daily, food provided, drugs available and medical care in case someone gets overly excited!! You're on the short list!!

[Guest]

Chiccouple, please look at SWFL for retirement. We're hoping to put together a group of 4-5 couples so we can take over a wing of the nursing home so we can all boink our way into heaven. It's a perfect plan, lots of beds, clean sheets daily, food provided, drugs available and medical care in case someone gets overly excited!! You're on the short list!!

 

Our approach is to all get a condo in a high rise building, perhaps on the water. Oldest couple gets the penthouse, when one of us passes, eveyone gets to move up a floor. More seriously, based on some of the experiences researched at senior communities, i.e., rates of STDs in line with college students, and our own one-month experience at one in the Orlando area two winters ago, that dry-up of sex after sixty expressed above seems to be pure bunk from some youngster.

[greywolfe13 17]

Our approach is to all get a condo in a high rise building, perhaps on the water. Oldest couple gets the penthouse, when one of us passes, eveyone gets to move up a floor. More seriously, based on some of the experiences researched at senior communities, i.e., rates of STDs in line with college students, and our own one-month experience at one in the Orlando area two winters ago, that dry-up of sex after sixty expressed above seems to be pure bunk from some youngster.

 

I'm 62 and was wondering about what sex will be like as I get even older. I'm already experiencing some erectile dissatisfaction, not dysfunction. I have been doing some online research and found that despite what the pill companies advertise the majority of men still function into their 80's, just not as firm or quick. I've been reading some books about sex after 50, seems to be the magic number for authors, who seem to think it is better once the men slow down a bit. If we get that word out I'm sure the swinging community will start to pick up on it.

 

15 years ago as newbies, my wife and I met a guy who said the first party he and his wife attended was almost all 70 and older. The way to find partners isn't the same, but I'm sure they are out there.

[Sawman 84]

I'm 62 and was wondering about what sex will be like as I get even older.

 

Quality rather than quantity.

[Married63 21]

Hello, I’m mid 50 and prefer the erotic, elegant & mature gals over 60 ... they’re amazing lovers ...

[Ronrudy 0]

We want to meet some older swinging couples in paradise lakes and/or in pasco county . Please contact us at the email shown above. 

[Ronrudy 0]

Does anyone live in the port richey area of pasco county Florida? Please contact me if you do !!

[Billygoat 443]

Very simply put....hell ya.  Most our gatherings have a wide range of ages.  As young as late twenties early thirties to well into the seventies.  The core age is mid forties to early sixties.

 

personally two of my greatest experiences was with a late sixties woman and later another (some time later) with a mid seventies woman.  I was mid fifties.

 

Most my experiences now are 50s to late 60s.

 

my experiences with older play partners is a much more enjoyable, slower paced....longer play touch caress taste...oral and a lot less inhibition experience.  All the ladies were up for about anything and knew what they wanted and what they wanted to do.  Much more physical.....and not much slam bang and move on.

 

many of the late forties and fifties ladies with a few much younger enjoy and seek out older males for the same reason.  Much more and longer attention paid to them rather than the usual male move it on get in and get out one shot sex play.

 

as with all in the LS...it’s really about personality....humor....and self confidence.   
 

Be open...adventurous.....

 

we all reach an age where we feel more comfortable.....and feel we look better clothed.  But guess what?  The person across from you probably feels the same.

 

Its all in your mind set.

 

 

[Jlo60 9]

On 10/30/2018 at 8:45 PM, MacsMan said:

We’ve been out of swinging for some years now and wondered whether there is a place for 70 years old swingers? I do don’t mind if it’s just the wife who has the action although obviously I too would love to play again.

One of the best experiences I had was with a probably 70 year old couple. If your ever in miami...

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

See, swinging doesn't have an maximum age restriction...only a minimum one. You are just as old as you feel...as long as you feel older than 18

[marla&brian 48]

Thought I would just add this here......

 

"Ageless Desire: Relationships and sex in middle age and beyond"

 

Oct/Nov 2023 issue of AARP has a brief article about "sex in the 70's" as in 70's years of age.

 

75% of us "mature folks" continue to have sexual fantasies. "Sex with a stranger, with multiple partners at the same time , and with a celebrity are the most popular.

 

8% watch porn at least once a week (I'm guessing it's got to be higher than that) .

 

11% say they  masturbate at least once a week......(really, got to be higher and be on a daily basis lol)

 

24% of women in the age group report having used a vibrator 

 

 

[AdamGunn2 393]

Just 75%?!?  Gee, I wonder if I've ever met a member of the 25% . . .

 

Thanks for sharing.

Edited November 6, 2023 by AdamGunn2

[lcmim 1,081]

 

The answer to your question is yes.

[PeterJ 940]

I’ve posted on this subject previously in other threads. About ten years ago, when I was in my mid-60s, I played at a party with a couple in their mid-80s. The pace was relaxed. I had fun and I think they enjoyed might participation as well. (A mutual acquaintance later told me the couple hosted an orgy on their wedding night in the late 1940s. Statistically neither of them is likely to be living. But I hope they are and that they continue to enjoy each other’s physical presence.)

 

I know that that couple wasn’t alone in enjoying elder sex. My brother-in-law, incorrectly assuming old people don’t fuck, walked in on my then 85-year-old mom enjoying some Afternoon Delight missionary-position intercourse with her 92-year-old boyfriend.

[PJ&Lin 188]

Bless all the seventy olds still swinging. Is the Golden Bachelor banging all those women?