Single lady seeking help

[Cathy.rite 18]

I'm recently divorced n looking to explore n feel my wild side..I don't know anyone who swings or part of any such group..I'm nevervous n scared too..can someone guild me from where n how to start

[Sawman 84]

As a single female in the lifestyle you will be VERY popular. I am a single male. You will find most ads and replies to your posts will be from the male of a couple. He is the one with the FMF fantasy. The female might not be as enthusiastic about a special guest star.

 

Always preserve your anonymity so protect your real name, your regular email address, your phone number, and your address. Be prepared to walk away at any time.

Emails and chats and messages are a good way to get to know someone, but until you meet them you never know if he is really fourteen years old.

Meet the couple—both of them—in a public place for a drink not to exceed one hour. Do not expect to party on a first meeting.

Be clear on your expectations and learn theirs. Do they want a long term "thruple" or just someone to play with until the sell-by date.

 

If you go to a club or a house party find a man just to watch your back.

[Jane1902 476]

There is a wealth of information on this site. Take your time and think about what you want, differentiate between fantasy and reality. Many people here use SLS, again lots of great tips here on creating a profile. I have met some good single men this way too. There are those that target new members and still plenty of fakes and trolls. This is a good place to ask questions.

[BobGann 40]

Some good advice by the posters here - follow it and you'll hopefully start having the time of your life. Follow the 3 "Be's" - Be smart, be firm about what you want and don't want, and be happy!

[Cathy.rite 18]

Thanks guys for making me feel confident n comfortable..will need more support n suggestions during my rollercoaster ride

[padoc 1,703]

A genuine Unicorn! How rare! Sawman provided some excellent suggestions. We would add this. Join SDC and/or SLS, it may cost you $100 for 3 or more months. Initially be careful what you put in your profile but be specific what you're looking for, post 1 or 2 attractive non face pictures and be careful with the background, you want to be safe at all times. You'll be amazed at the number of contacts you'll get and the information available on those sites. Investigate local meet and greets and the on premises clubs within a reasonable drive from your home. Good luck and let us follow your progress.