Single wisconsin guy new to swinging

[leemil414 15]

Trying it out for the first time n dont know where to go!!

[padoc 1,703]

Start with finding a woman and building a trustful and loving relationship. Swinging is primarily a couples hobby and you'll do way better as part of a couple. Right now you're the cart before the horse.

[TricianMike 772]

I found the perfect woman for you but she is in RI. She is new on here too, joined about the same time as you, and is looking to start swinging. You both are looking for gangbangs too. Maybe you already know her.

[Wornsilver 219]

Maybe you already know her.

 

I'll bet Wisconsin n RI are closer than you think. LOL

[Jane1902 476]

I don’t believe in getting into a relationship for the sake of swinging. Maybe establish a FWB situation if you are looking to play with a partner. Keep reading here. What is it you want, what do you bring to the table?

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

I agree with Jane1902. You need not be in a relationship to immerse yourself in the warm waters of swing. Most of the single men with whom my wife and I are acquainted are happy with their independent lifestyle. Many of the single women we know are similarly not interested in developing relationships.

[agreatguy 269]

Trying it out for the first time n dont know where to go!!

 

What is it you want out of the lifestyle?

[leemil414 15]

I found the perfect woman for you but she is in RI. She is new on here too, joined about the same time as you, and is looking to start swinging. You both are looking for gangbangs too. Maybe you already know her.

 

No i dont but love to get to know her

[leemil414 15]

What is it you want out of the lifestyle?

What do you mean smh really what kind of question is that i want to be single rn cause i just got over my last relationship but i want to mingle and have. i made account on here cause im looking for some fun so why wouldnt want to be a swinger i dont want a relationship just looking for fwb nsa situations im mean it only seem right

[leemil414 15]

I agree with Jane1902. You need not be in a relationship to immerse yourself in the warm waters of swing. Most of the single men with whom my wife and I are acquainted are happy with their independent lifestyle. Many of the single women we know are similarly not interested in developing relationships.

right how crazy is that if i was a single lady this convo wouldnt be going on. I just got out of a relationship and im dont want or need one rn. All i want is a fwb, nsa type deal and just have a fun good time. So i thought i would try this.

[leemil414 15]

What are u talking about im so confused

[padoc 1,703]

So, to be clear, you want to boink someone elses wife with no commitment, minimal effort and no investment of time or money. And you bring what exactly to the party? Im asking because there are literally thousands of single guys, married guys looking for side pussy or bi guys looking to play with both teams out there. The market is saturated and taking the position that I just want to "have a fun good time" is probably not your best strategy but good luck with that!

[agreatguy 269]

What do you mean smh really what kind of question is that i want to be single rn cause i just got over my last relationship but i want to mingle and have. i made account on here cause im looking for some fun so why wouldnt want to be a swinger i dont want a relationship just looking for fwb nsa situations im mean it only seem right

 

You ask me what I mean by my question with a smh and then proceed to give an answer to the question I asked. SMH!

 

You basically said nothing other than you wanted to know some information on where to go. To do what? Do you want to be in a relationship with an awesome partner who shares your fantasies and has her own. Sounds like that's not what you are looking for so the sound advice I have to give on how to go about that would be wasted.

Are you looking to be a bull for other couples. You guys are a dime a dozen and your self entitled attitude and poor communication skills put you at the bottom of the heap. Good luck with that. Might as well open a profile on AFF.

[lcmim 1,082]

Aff or any one of the thousands of vanilla singles bars.What you seem to want should be readily available. One night stands are wanted by some of the single ladies.Why bother with the swinger crowd?

[leemil414 15]

So, to be clear, you want to boink someone elses wife with no commitment, minimal effort and no investment of time or money. And you bring what exactly to the party? Im asking because there are literally thousands of single guys, married guys looking for side pussy or bi guys looking to play with both teams out there. The market is saturated and taking the position that I just want to "have a fun good time" is probably not your best strategy but good luck with that!

Lol no im not looking to boink a guy wife although I am hung but no im no. Thanks for the advice.

[leemil414 15]

You ask me what I mean by my question with a smh and then proceed to give an answer to the question I asked. SMH!

 

You basically said nothing other than you wanted to know some information on where to go. To do what? Do you want to be in a relationship with an awesome partner who shares your fantasies and has her own. Sounds like that's not what you are looking for so the sound advice I have to give on how to go about that would be wasted.

Are you looking to be a bull for other couples. You guys are a dime a dozen and your self entitled attitude and poor communication skills put you at the bottom of the heap. Good luck with that. Might as well open a profile on AFF.

Im just seeing what this is about and i looking for fwb type of situation rn just got out of a relationship so i just looks for a friend with benefits and not with a married women just to make that clear. I didnt know a single guy thats looking for fwb couldnt check these sites out and i thought there would be single women on here to. I've all want to be a swinger but i just never found the right lady and didnt know single guys couldnt do this but now i know. Just want some info but i got it now thanks. Maybe if i find the right women ill come back but high doubt that with how some of yall are smfh. Thanks to the people that give info and didnt act like they were to good to do.

[leemil414 15]

You ask me what I mean by my question with a smh and then proceed to give an answer to the question I asked. SMH!

 

You basically said nothing other than you wanted to know some information on where to go. To do what? Do you want to be in a relationship with an awesome partner who shares your fantasies and has her own. Sounds like that's not what you are looking for so the sound advice I have to give on how to go about that would be wasted.

Are you looking to be a bull for other couples. You guys are a dime a dozen and your self entitled attitude and poor communication skills put you at the bottom of the heap. Good luck with that. Might as well open a profile on AFF.

I think you need to take some of ur own advice about self entitled attitude the way u talk to people thats looking for info smfh. You must have a small dick and is mad cause ur wife wants a bull on how quick you were to jump to that conclusion lol. Like i said i didnt know single men couldnt do this type of shit smh. I alway thought they could but now I know. Word of advice learn how to talk to people a little better.

[padoc 1,703]

The OP must have flunked English comp. Let me help you with a few things OP: "ur" should be your, "u" should be you, "thats looking" should be who are looking, "so I just looks for a friend" should be I'm just looking for a friend with benefits. There is nothing more glaringly ignorant than poor writing skills. Agreatguy made some good points. You ARE self entitled and apparently feel that you should be able to boink my wife or his without effort, commitment or cost just because you want to. When someone points out the flaws in your thought process, you get your feelings hurt, make unsubstantiated charges about someones dick size and what his wife really wants (which is apparently you…ha ha ha!). You asked where to go in your first post. I'd suggest you take your entitlement syndrome back to your mom's basement and don't come back till you've grown up, built a relationship, obtained a job and live on your own. Perhaps then you'll have something to offer to the grownups who participate in this hobby other than ignorance, selfishness and entitlement.

[venusshaw 123]

Single guys are welcome in my life one night or FWB, but you are too far geographically.

[lcmim 1,082]

Lee, We are basically in the same area. From what we see the LS community in this area is largely composed of married or committed couples. Single guys are welcome to join some of these couples to serve their desires. In most cases this will not be about you. I doubt very strongly if the LS varies a lot demographically from here in most areas of the country.

 

The Swinger life is and has been historically a couples endeavor. There are of course outliers.

 

I meant what I said in an earlier post . There are plenty of venues in which there are willing single ladies agreeable to the company of single men. Why not use those?

[Jane1902 476]

Lee, do you understand this is not a hookup site? It appears you did not read any of the information posted here for single males interested in swinging. But based on your writing skills even if you did I am not sure you would comprehend. Successful swinging single males know how to follow directions. Stick to masterbating.

[sexdollsex 15]

Yes you are correct