Serious FFM Advice Needed

[Vanillaskies 15]

My wife and I truly love and need each other as you do when you love and are the closest of friends. We where both looking for the one to get old with together.

 

I was far more experienced sexually than her, and she whilst outwardy confident I quickly realised she was unaware of the sexual attention she got from women or men.

 

This turned me on because I quickly realised that (amongst many other things) this women was the one I was looking for: but first I knew she had to find herself first.

 

I put this on the bisexual thread because we both have sexual desires that we are now finally getting to grips with. And I really want to know what you think.

 

We are both conventional when need be and wanted to marry hetrosexually. And when we are finished with life and old will nurse other until we cannot. We do love.

 

12 years we have been toghether now an it turns out I was right, 6 months ago my wife after years of insisting it was not for her actually bent over, and opened her ass and told me to have her. And I did. Around the same time instead of holding back a little bit always in conversation. She didn't.

 

She knows she attracts different types of women, she knows I do to.

 

My desires she seems to not only accept but when she first put her strap on on and looked in the mirror she got it, She enjoyed the control of fucking me. Embraced the pleasure. And that is me I don't fancy or want men, but a fat cock up my ass strapped to my wife is the thing.

 

The next stage is to have a women with us, after years of it being right there available. And we both now know and talk openly that this is her enjoying and exploring some of her real sexual desires and the pleasure she will get I could not give her alone, but she nows for me that will pleasure me, and she has the desire of the hornynes of me doing everything with her as well.

 

So the main question is from your experience do you think that this can work.

 

The only rules we have is no men.

 

Sexual activity is always together.

 

She tells me she really wants no other man but wants women. What's turns her on is other women.

 

She wants to give me the pleasure of another women with her. That turns her on.

 

She wants to indulge anal sex fully with herself and me and another women. That turns her turn.

 

An she as me now think the time is right before we get too old to do this.

 

So we are talking managed ménage à trois like experiences with extra females treated as part of us when together, who want the experience as well.

 

I have tried to give you a flavour above but of course I cannot include everything at all.

[NC_Seniors 518]

I have absolutely no idea what you must believe you just said ...

[adamgunn 1,460]

You say you'd like some advice . . . perhaps you should ask a question.