njbm 2,873 Posted November 20, 2018 Sorry to be a downer, just curious. Quote Share this post Link to post
Cade# 22 Posted November 20, 2018 The 7 STDs You Can Catch From Oral Sex Herpes When it comes to oral sex, herpes simplex virus is the most commonly transmitted STD. There are two distinct types of herpes called HSV 1 and HSV 2. HSV 1 is responsible for sores around the mouth area, while HSV 2 is the cause of genital sores. Unfortunately, even when there are no symptoms present, it is still very possible to catch herpes from someone with either of these types of herpes. This is why a visual check for noticeable sores is not a sufficient way to avoid contracting the herpes virus. Herpes is a lifelong affliction which, as of now, cannot be cured. However, certain medications may be prescribed to help with recurrences. As with all STDs, using a protective barrier like a condom or a Lixx Dental Dam provides a safer means of enjoying oral sex while avoiding catching HSV 1 or HSV 2. If you are unsure of what to do with a dental dam, read up on proper usage techniques here. HPV HPV HPV differs from other STDs in the sense that it is spread through skin to skin contact, rather than through the transfer of bodily fluids. HPV is also known as genital warts and it can easily be transmitted through oral sex. Some experts even speculate that HPV acquired through oral sex can lead to throat cancer, and that HPV can lead to cervical cancer in women. There is a HPV vaccine available for people between the ages of 18-26, which consists of a 3 shot regime, and has shown some promise in the prevention of this growing public health concern. However, no cure has been found and no vaccines are available for men, young teenagers or older women. As with all STDs, using a protective barrier like a condom or a dental dam provides a safer means of enjoying oral sex while avoiding catching HPV. Gonorrhea Gonorrhea (a.k.a. “The Clap”) is an infection which is easily transmitted through oral sex and can cause a severe throat infection with symptoms such as: sore throat, yellow and white discharge, difficulty swallowing and red spots. Getting gonorrhea from oral sex can infect your whole body and will result in a genital outbreak as well. Medication for the treatment of gonorrhea is antibiotics, but many strains have become antibiotic resistant in the past few years. After initial treatment, it can take up to 4 months for gonorrhea to dissipate and is still contagious during this time. Since gonorrhea is located deep in the cervix of women, it is more likely for a woman to catch gonorrhea from giving a man oral sex than it is for a man to catch it from a woman. Left untreated, gonorrhea can cause pelvic inflammatory disease (PID) which can lead to infertility. As with all STDs, using a protective barrier like a condom or a dental dam provides a safer means of enjoying oral sex while avoiding catching gonorrhea. Chlamydia With millions of new cases reported by the CDC each year, catching chlamydia from oral sex is not rare at all. Fortunately, it is curable with antibiotics, however it can take 2 weeks and you run a high risk of reinfection if your partner(s) is not treated at the same time as you. Symptoms include discharge from the genitals, cold like symptoms, sore throat, burning during urination, painful sex and testicular pain. Like gonorrhea, women are more likely to catch chlamydia from performing oral sex on men than men are from performing it on women. Left untreated, chlamydia (also known as “the silent infection”) can cause pelvic inflammatory disease (PID) in women which can lead to infertility. As with all STDs, using a protective barrier like a condom or a dental dam provides a safer means of enjoying oral sex while avoiding catching chlamydia. Syphilis Whether you prefer to go down on men or on women, it is extremely easy to catch syphilis from oral sex. Unlike herpes and HPV, syphilis is only contagious during symptomatic phases. Symptoms range from sores on the hands and feet, swollen lymph nodes, fever, hair loss, headaches, weight loss and exhaustion. If left untreated, syphilis can damage the brain and cause erratic and violent behavior. Late stages of syphilis include blindness, paralysis and death. As with all STDs, using a protective barrier like a condom or a dental dam provides a safer means of enjoying oral sex while avoiding catching the potentially deadly syphilis STD. Hepatitis B While not transmittable through mouth to genital contact, Hepatitis B is easily transferred through mouth to anal contact. It is also possible, though less likely, to catch Hepatitis A through the same way. Luckily, most people nowadays who live in 1st world nations are vaccinated for Hepatitis B. Nonetheless, if you tend to participate in anal to oral contact, ask your doctor for a Hepatitis A vaccine. As with all STDs, using a protective barrier like a dental dam provides a safer means of enjoying oral sex while avoiding catching Hepatitis. The best way to stay safe, without giving up on oral, is to use condoms or a dental dams. When you're down to get your lick on, both of these protective products are available for purchase in various yummy fruit flavors. These tasty barriers allow you to still incorporate your sense of smell and taste into the act. So don't be lured into putting that unprotected and potentially poisonous apple into your mouth. Catching an STD from oral could leave you feeling like your life is the “unfairest of them all.” Instead, simply use a safe and fun fruit-flavored condom or dental dam each and every time for a safer oral experience! Quote Share this post Link to post
PSULioness 857 Posted November 20, 2018 Sorry to be a downer, just curious. You are a downer LOL. All of what was posted is most likely true. I know I’m foolish for ignoring everything I know to be the risks of unprotected sex. Most of my play is unprotected, very few guys put on condoms. When I was younger and dating some did and some I made sure did. Only one guy in my life put a condom on for a blow job. I remember asking Really? Other than the first few times a guy came in my mouth, having a condom in my mouth was sickening. I got so nauseous. I’ve only heard about dams, never saw one. Quote Share this post Link to post
njbm 2,873 Posted November 20, 2018 Worse than I thought. Sorry, a partner recently gleefully swallowed me. I am checked annually, but I don’t think it’s a great idea to swallow in the lifestyle. But I guess unprotected oral sex even without swallowing can cause STD transmission. I’ve never seen a dental dam used. Once I saw oral with condoms. Quote Share this post Link to post
couplers 4,648 Posted November 25, 2018 ... I know I’m foolish for ignoring everything I know to be the risks of unprotected sex. Most of my play is unprotected, very few guys put on condoms...The risks of unprotected sex can vary tremendously depending on the type of activity. Screwing random pickups in a bar - high risk. Playing within a closed circle of friend - much, much lower risk. Quote Share this post Link to post
JandKinBoise 858 Posted November 25, 2018 There is a risk in oral sex, herpes and hpv in particular. But it is safer than genital sex without protection. After all, over 90% of our immune system is between our lips and stomach. There is a misconception that not swallowing is safer. Actually, once the dick and sperm are in your mouth, that's pretty much all that needs to happen. The stomach is safe. Blood born disease like HIV are usually only a problem if the mouth has open sores. Easy to tell if there is blood in your mouth. Stop the activity. I have had oral sex with a lot of men. A lot. Never protection, over 15 years not a single sti. My wife's best friend got a divorce, banged a half dozen guys, caught like 5 STIs. Much depends on the individual. If you are a sickly person, gets everything that comes around, be safe. The problem of STDs comes up in here about once a month. My general advise is if you are concerned enough that it affects your sex life, find a different hobby, go poly, remain within the walls of a committed relationship. Get tested and stay within a swinger group to minimize exposure. Use common sense. Listen to your gut. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
PeterJ 950 Posted November 25, 2018 I’ve never seen a dental dam used. Once I saw oral with condoms. I tried cunnilinguis with a partner once with a dental dam. It was like licking a balloon. Didn’t do much for her either. Quote Share this post Link to post
Sisterbecky2019 16 Posted January 15, 2019 Thank You Cade#!!! I would have sex with YOU (as long as we were both attracted to one another...) Your knowledge and willingness to protect yourself and your partner are a COMPLETE TURN ON! Many in the lifestyle just dont realize or even care about infections and disease passed on this way. Until then, those who refuse to protect themselves during oral sex may just have to learn the hard way when years down the road they are diagnosed with what surely could have been avoided "( Quote Share this post Link to post
Sisterbecky2019 16 Posted January 15, 2019 You are NOT A DOWNER, IF ANYTHING YOU ARE BRAVE AND SMART FOR ASKING! There are lots of things to worry about with unprotected oral sex... Quote Share this post Link to post