House party invites (newbie)

[Stonecharles100 17]

Hey all. How does a couple get invited to a house party? My wife and I don’t know any swinger couples but are interested in others watching us, no play with others.....yet lol. Although I did mention to the wife it would be cool to have a sex party and trade partners and she mentioned yeah but everyone needs to finish off with their partner, lol. Advice?

[Guest]

Go to a couples club or a meet and greet of some local swingers group that doesn’t have their own facility. You’ll meet swingers, you’ll play with them and they will invited you. You really don’t want to go to a swingers house party if you have no experience swinging. Start slow with an MFM or couples swap or foursome. Do a few of those before you jump into the deep end of the poo.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

Chiccouple has said it much better than I would have been able. Get out and meet people at clubs and/or meet-n-greet events. Do not expect instant results. People generally need to see you a few times before they can decide that your interest is genuine.

[lcmim 1,082]

Like in business, you often need contacts to make contacts.

Many areas have clubs of the brick and mortar variety.

Many more have clubs that sponsor hotel parties and meet n greets. Either of these are good places no invitation necessary for the most part and not overly expensive.

 

Imagine yourselves as Newbie , junior level, company reps. You are looking for industry contacts. What do you do?

Attend conferences and seminars, shake hands and stories with as many people as you can. Give and take names. A simple card with your contact information is not a bad idea.

 

Talk to everyone, even those who have no appeal to you. Your job is to leave a pleasant impression and memory.(If this sounds like good old fashioned networking that is because it is.) You never know who you meet that may take you themselves or make an introduction that leads you into the "Boardroom"

 

Go to these with high hopes and low expectations.

 

The next party you will see people you know well enough to nod across the room. Those nods often lead to conversations, introductions, maybe even play.

 

BE UP FRONT and HONEST about where you are on the journey. We all have been where you are.

 

Lastly and this is not as trite as it may sound." To Thine own self be true for it follows then as night the day that Thou canst not be false to any man."

You will make far fewer mistakes staying comfortably within who you are and not pretending to be what you are not.No matter who you are there are people out here who will be intrigued.