Hedo2, Desire RM, Desire Pearl - Compare and contrast, please...

[Fundamental Law 2,885]

We are planning a few days at a resort the first full week of February.

 

Would those who have stayed at at least two of the following three--Hedo2; Desire Riviera Maya; Desire Pearl--compare and contrast?

 

We are looking for low pressure, and maybe a bit upscale. Most of all, we prefer to be around people who are happy and comfortable in their own skins.

 

Feel free to PM if you prefer.

 

Thanks in advance.

 

FL

[tbone1 79]

Sorry, we have only been to Hedo 2, 16 times since we discovered it in 2011, but I will provide some info anyway. Obviously, everyone has their favorites, some love one resort or the other, and I'm sure others will offer opinions. We love Hedo 2 for lots of reasons, but thing we enjoy the most is meeting the people who go there. There are great people from all over, and like many others, we have made so many friends that we love seeing again on subsequent trips. If you have done some reading, you should realize Hedo is not a 5-star resort, but the new owner has made lots of changes and upgrades including remodeling rooms, better staff, excellent food, heating the nude pool, and others. There is no sexual fantasy that cannot be satisfied at Hedo. If you care to partake, ganja is available in Jamaica. I recommend you check out Hedo. You may have the best vacation of your life. If you decide to go, normally you get a better rate going with a group. You can find out which groups are going when on the Hedo website, then find a group you are interested in that is going the week you want to go, and contact them. Good luck!

[venusshaw 123]

We once tried Desire, but never returned. Have been going to Hedo since 2004 and been there multiple times. One key difference is Hedo allows singles while Desire is for couples only. We like the mixture f singles and couples, both male and female. We have made wonderful friends at Hedo and continue to be in touch with them. You could join adulttravelforum.com and check out both. There are a bundle of information about them, in there.

[njbm 2,868]

We have been to all three resorts one time in the last five years. Desire Pearl is the most upscale, quieter than the others. The best food and accomodations. The crowd is older. Desire RM has more "action, " it attracts a younger crowd and the food and rooms are not quite as nice as Pearl. Hedo 2 was more rustic. There were single males, which is not to our preference, we prefer to play with couples as a couple, but certainly no one bothered us.

 

If we go back, I think that I would like to do 3 days at RM and 3 at Pearl. My wife much prefers Pearl. I think that a lot of the lifestyle activities at Pearl were private among couples or groups that travelled together. It was not easy for us to meet and play. But we were newer then and maybe it was just the circumstances of that week.

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

You really can't go wrong with any of the three. Personally, we love Desire RM, but that's just us. You will find others that love Pearl and Hedo just as passionately. Do your research and pick whichever one seems to suit you the most.

[Guest]

We have been to Hedo, once, and Desires Riviera Maya 5 times. I guess that can tells you which one we like best. In terms of not wanting a lot of pressure, that rules out Hedo right away. Someone commented about singles not at Desire, that’s true, it’s couples only. But, there seem to be a lot wives playing together and that lives “single” husbands with nothing to do. I enjoy MFM and we have no problem finding that at Desires. Desires is cleaner, way better food and drinks, and much nicer rooms and much more expensive. And harder to get into at busy times, its not really that big especially as compared to Hedo. Hope this helps.

[Judy39 145]

Great question, marking my place

[Fundamental Law 2,885]

Many thanks to all who have responded.

[T-Rex 148]

We like Desire RM best. Pearl's rooms are a little nicer. This is hard to explain, and not everyone agrees, but we don't think Pearl has the right "density" of people. The pool is big; the chairs are spread out. RM's main areas: pool, hot tub, etc. are more compact and you can't help but meet people. We have friends who say they like Pearl better, but keep booking RM. That says a lot.

 

We are not big fans of Hedo. The last time we were there, which, admittedly, was during the recession, they weren't maintaining the property: they closed the hot tub because the pumps stopped working and the water looked like Florida's red tide, people were getting sick, the staff was surly and 180 degrees from the staff's at the Mexico properties. My wife has refused to go back. In contrast, the owners of RM and Pearl continue to improve the properties and the staff is very nice and will go out of their way to be helpful. Plus, for most people RM and Pearl are easier to get to.

[ToeDippers 83]

We know two women who went to Desires, I think RM, and they said they had a blast. Clean, friendly and good food. They said it was all couples yet they were two women. No single men.

Is it common for a mf couple to have only the wife play with another woman? We are still exploring and the only thing we agreed to was my wife playing with a woman. She isn’t completely sure if she could do even that.

[njbm 2,868]

Swinging can be whatever you consent to. I think there is a lot of girl-girl. There is a lot of MFM. We swap with other couples. We started soft swap, progressed to full swap. Some people just watch and are watched. A lot of variations.

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

They said it was all couples yet they were two women. No single men.

 

Two people = one couple. Just wish there were more couples like that who went.

 

No single men.

 

That's what we like most about Desire RM (well, that and the friendly naked people...and the environment...and the jacuzzi...and well, most everything else)

 

Is it common for a mf couple to have only the wife play with another woman?

 

No, just make sure that everyone knows what the limits are beforehand.

 

 

We are still exploring and the only thing we agreed to was my wife playing with a woman. She isn’t completely sure if she could do even that.

 

Then start with that. I'm sure that will probably change as you proceed. When we first started, we (like so many others) had a no kissing rule because we were both concerned about being jealous but when the time came it was like no big deal. The thing is you don't know how either of you will feel until you are in the moment. Would I mind watching Ms. Gold and Ms. Toedipper play knowing I wasn't 'allowed'...not a bit.