How do I reawaken my wife's inner slut?

[NewStag 15]

 

We're both 54 years old, married since we were 24. I have an amazing, loving wife who's always there. We have 3 daughters. We celebrated our 30th anniversary last week and our youngest daughter just went to college 3 months ago. Before all that, she was extremely promiscuous and "slutty" and would hook up with guys. I kind of want to bring that back out a bit.

Some background: My wife, Christina, and I went to the same high school where she was a cheerleader. I remember asking her out at the time and getting rejected (she was always way out of my league). She was the popular chick and all the guys wanted to have sex with her and I remember her having a long string of boyfriends and fuck buddies back then. She was hot, blond and had a bubble but. I was a nerd and kind of lonely. We were hard working and both went to the same Ivy League college and with me being a chemistry nerd, we started working on homework together and eventually became really close friends. She was still having sex with other guys and she had a boyfriend who she was cheating on lol.

 

One drunken night she told me she no longer loved her boyfriend at the time and how she preferred having sex with other guys. I remember getting super turned on just hearing her say that. In junior year, she broke her leg skiing and exactly at that time her asshole boyfriend dumped her. I was there for her, brought food for her, cooked for her, took care of her dog, etc and we eventually became really close. In senior year of college I asked her out and she said yes. After 3 weeks, I lost my virginity to her and after two years we were married. About 3 months into our relationship she slept with anther guy but she confessed and apologized and I got over it. In all honesty, I remember getting turned on by it but cuckolding/swinging wasn't as open and I didn't know about it then. After we had our first daughter, she turned into a model mom and wife and has been incredible since. Ever since, we've been a normal family.

 

But now, with our youngest daughter off to college, we have the house for ourselves and I would love to bring my wife back to being her old self where she would be having sex with lots of men and cheating. Just the thought of other men doing my wife makes me rock hard just writing this. I want her to be my hotwife, my vixen, my little slut. Now for you experienced couples/women, please tell me how I could make this happen.

 

Thanks!

[pete c 34]

Geee, I dunno. You could just talk to her about it. My guess is there's a pretty decent chance she might have gotten a piece or two of strange over the years anyway.

 

Good luck in your attempt to bring the slut out in her again.

[NewStag 15]

My guess is there's a pretty decent chance she might have gotten a piece or two of strange over the years anyway.

 

Good luck in your attempt to bring the slut out in her again.

 

I WISH she fucked other guys over the past few years but I'm pretty sure she hasn't. She isn't the type of person to deny or hide something like that long term from me. We've been best friends for decades now

[GoldCoCouple 4,068]

The easiest way is to talk with her. Ask her what her fantasies are and be ready to tell her yours. Work on increasing and improving the big three: love trust and communication. Take your time but see if she is interested in making any of her fantasies come true (some women aren't) and if she is, start with some of the easier ones and work your way forward. Try buying her some sexy clothes and ask her to wear them (somewhere safe like out of town so she won't worry about being seen). She's been a 'mom' for the last 18+ years...it's time you reminded her that she is also a sexy woman and it's okay for her to let that woman out. Good luck and let us know how things go...

[NewStag 15]

The easiest way is to talk with her. Ask her what her fantasies are and be ready to tell her yours.

 

The truth is before we got together at 22, she had already tried out almost all of her fantasies, and she had a few sexual fantasies like huge dicks, double penetration, black guys, muslim guys, etc. and she basically had all that sex before we were a couple. She already had a triple digit "number" by then. The problem is that I don't have any major fantasies except to see her have sex with other men but what scares me is she'll react negatively to the proposition, and will think less of me. Not to blow my own trumpet, but I have worked really hard to be a research scientist and provide for my family. She sees me as a provider and a decent man and it scares me that she'll lose all respect for me if she finds out I want her to have sex with other men. Will she think of me as less of a man?

[NewStag 15]

Try buying her some sexy clothes and ask her to wear them (somewhere safe like out of town so she won't worry about being seen).

 

Oh no worries there, she does not dress conservatively at all. She's very confident and still wears short skirts and short shorts everywhere she goes (she's in amazing shape). It's just she dresses like that but she isn't acting on anything lol

[NewStag 15]

To be clear though, I'm not into any humiliation or degrading stuff. I simply want her to have sex with lots of other men, preferably well hung ones lol

[NewStag 15]

She's been a 'mom' for the last 18+ years...it's time you reminded her that she is also a sexy woman and it's okay for her to let that woman out. Good luck and let us know how things go...

 

Thanks, I will definitely try to remind her of her "fun" times by indirectly bringing it up lol. Really appreciate your input!

[lovefest04 701]

Bring her to my house, I'll take care of it. Seriously.

 

I think it's all about you. When was the last time you spanked her, said something dirty to her for no reason, or commented on how fucking sexy she is? Ask her to flash you, be playful, admiring and let her know she's a hot MILF. Read a sexy story to her about threesomes or slut wife or cuckolding (if that's your thing). Go out to dinner and a crowded location and play a game of "who would you fuck?". Pick out men for her and see if it's a yes. Don't expect her to do that, but get her thinking about it. Be playful.

 

Talk about fantasies and don't be afraid to be honest and open with your fantasies. So you have anything you'd like to do that's not her sleeping with other men, but is personal to you. Open up. You might be surprised by her willingness to share in your fantasies.

 

I think a lot of us men, have fantasies for our wives, but aren't willing to take risks about our own fantasies.

 

Good luck, oh, and share a photo or two and what the heck, think about bringing her to my house.

[HotEllie 89]

Bring her to my house, I'll take care of it. Seriously.

 

I think it's all about you. When was the last time you spanked her, said something dirty to her for no reason, or commented on how fucking sexy she is? Ask her to flash you, be playful, admiring and let her know she's a hot MILF. Read a sexy story to her about threesomes or slut wife or cuckolding (if that's your thing). Go out to dinner and a crowded location and play a game of "who would you fuck?". Pick out men for her and see if it's a yes. Don't expect her to do that, but get her thinking about it. Be playful.

 

Talk about fantasies and don't be afraid to be honest and open with your fantasies. So you have anything you'd like to do that's not her sleeping with other men, but is personal to you. Open up. You might be surprised by her willingness to share in your fantasies.

 

I think a lot of us men, have fantasies for our wives, but aren't willing to take risks about our own fantasies.

 

Good luck, oh, and share a photo or two and what the heck, think about bringing her to my house.

 

There exists a lot of good advice here. My hubby employs a lot of those strategies very successfully.

[MadlyInLuv 94]

 

We're both 54 years old, married since we were 24. I have an amazing, loving wife who's always there. We have 3 daughters. We celebrated our 30th anniversary last week and our youngest daughter just went to college 3 months ago. Before all that, she was extremely promiscuous and "slutty" and would hook up with guys. I kind of want to bring that back out a bit.

Some background: My wife, Christina, and I went to the same high school where she was a cheerleader. I remember asking her out at the time and getting rejected (she was always way out of my league). She was the popular chick and all the guys wanted to have sex with her and I remember her having a long string of boyfriends and fuck buddies back then. She was hot, blond and had a bubble but. I was a nerd and kind of lonely. We were hard working and both went to the same Ivy League college and with me being a chemistry nerd, we started working on homework together and eventually became really close friends. She was still having sex with other guys and she had a boyfriend who she was cheating on lol.

 

One drunken night she told me she no longer loved her boyfriend at the time and how she preferred having sex with other guys. I remember getting super turned on just hearing her say that. In junior year, she broke her leg skiing and exactly at that time her asshole boyfriend dumped her. I was there for her, brought food for her, cooked for her, took care of her dog, etc and we eventually became really close. In senior year of college I asked her out and she said yes. After 3 weeks, I lost my virginity to her and after two years we were married. About 3 months into our relationship she slept with anther guy but she confessed and apologized and I got over it. In all honesty, I remember getting turned on by it but cuckolding/swinging wasn't as open and I didn't know about it then. After we had our first daughter, she turned into a model mom and wife and has been incredible since. Ever since, we've been a normal family.

 

But now, with our youngest daughter off to college, we have the house for ourselves and I would love to bring my wife back to being her old self where she would be having sex with lots of men and cheating. Just the thought of other men doing my wife makes me rock hard just writing this. I want her to be my hotwife, my vixen, my little slut. Now for you experienced couples/women, please tell me how I could make this happen.

 

Thanks!

 

I have nothing to add to this thread other than: Congrats for escaping the friend zone! That's usually an impossible feat!

[bryonboru 60]

My wife wouldn't make the leap until we found a guy she was really interested in, in our case it just happened to be an old boyfriend from before we met. It worked out fine in our situation as I was already friends with her EX and he respected me. Once she had her first MFM she was off to the races and hasn't looked back.

[Numex 2,459]

:., she was extremely promiscuous and "slutty" and would hook up with guys.., please tell me how I could make this happen.

Have your wife talk about her best sexual experiences from her past. That's how we started swinging - we were always open about our past and our discussions turned us on. Two years after we married, I told her if she wanted to play again I had no problem with it. She eagerly took me up on it and fucked an old boyfriend. Six months later we were swapping with couples.