Embarrassing question about her orgasm

[PSULioness 857]

Thank you forum for putting up with me.

I have a silly question about orgasms, what do men feel when their partner orgasms?

I know how I feel during an orgasm, it lasts a few seconds, sometimes more intense than other times. Sometimes I have multiple orgasms, not all the time. Until I started playing with friends I just figured all women have sort of the same physical reactions. I never gave it thought as what my partner feels when I orgasm until both my husband and our guy friend were taking about my girlfriend. They both said she “ripples”. They both said I flutter. Okaaaay. Is that bad? I didn’t really understand. They explained some grip and that it’s not always noticeable but she ripples.

They explained on my arm. My wrist was a penis, their hand a pussy. He gripped my wrist and tightened up for a second and released four times. That wasn’t me. I was quick and short squeezes for about 5 or 6 seconds. Our friend Matt had to scream and say “fuck me and Matt you are great, so much better than Mark”. Duh!! They both said Amanda was different and they both said the same thing. They said she ripples and grabbed my arm and tightened but made each finger on their hand tighten separately. They said it was like playing a trumpet with her pussy. I think they are goofing on me.

Is this possible and what do you feel when she cums?

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

Darn woman, quit trying to come up with reasons you are not good enough, you are better than that. If you google this you can see videos of a womans orgasm from cameras that are 'inside'. The vagina is a series of mussels and an orgasm is those mussels contracting. Sometimes it can be a ripple as the contract one next to each other, other times it can be all of them contracting at once. I don't think you can knowingly 'alter' how it happens since it is an involuntary reaction.

 

As for what men feel, most of us feel elation that we are the reason that you are orgasming and usually want to make you do it again...it doesn't matter much more than that.

[ToeDippers 83]

Doesn’t really matter what you do during an orgasm. Pretty sure anyone you are with will be happy they made you cum and know from a man cumming you can’t control how you cum.

To answer your question my wife gets creamy and moans leading up to a series of contractions maybe like yours not like a ripple.

Do you feel the difference in the men when they cum?

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

. . .and what do you feel when she cums?

That depends upon which she I am with at the time. Some of my female acquaintances give so little indication that I do not know whether or not an orgasm happened. I know one woman whose vaginal canal clamps down so firmly that I have trouble pulling out (first time scared me). And I have felt many within these extremes.

[adamgunn 1,460]

Externally, most women seem to experience orgasms differently. For example, when I satisfy her with fingers or orally, my gf stops breathing and becomes very still. I've known women who just go crazy, twitching their bodies and so forth. And lots of things in between.

[njbm 2,880]

Every woman reacts differently. That is what is fun about the lifestyle. My mission is to find out how to evoke the woman’s pleasure. Gratifying if I get her there, hope I am pleasuring on the way.

[M1F2KTJ 473]

I have had only one experience with a woman that when she was having an orgasm I could feel pressure. It was an awesome feeling. But it wasn't a standard that I held other women to.

 

I am happy when I have sex with a woman and she cums from just fucking. Most need direct stimulation to their clitoris by tongue or vibrator.

[catmann1963 19]

Mrs. cat orgasms very easily and when she does there are contractions. I guess you could call them ripples, and if it is a really strong one she will push the cock out completely.

[TricianMike 775]

There are times that Mike will question if I cum and he doesn’t believe me when I say I did. He has told me that he didn’t feel me cum and other times he did. When I told him that his orgasms are not always the same, sometimes he has a bigger amount of cum than other times he said that’s different. I told him he sometimes speeds up when he cums and other times he doesn’t. Sometimes I have wondered if he came and other times it drips out plenty.

I don’t control what happens in me I just know it is good.