Keeping Track of Adventures

[PebblesCanDo 45]

Does anyone keep a journal or anything like that to keep track of people you've played with or contacted? We've both got a serious case of CRS and sat down to try and remember what has happened over the past 4 years and we found ourselves referring back to emails, texts, and photo's!

[adamgunn 1,460]

When we were starting out, I used a spreadsheet to keep track. I stopped it after maybe a year, wish now I'd kept it up.

[Guest]

Every once in a while hubby and I try to walk through a list of them, he remembers some, I remember others. The first one (MFM) we knew very casually, had met he and his wife at a resort and got to know them a bit, but the others, all just random events, guys sitting next to us at a bar and couples from a couples club or couples resort. How do you know if they even give you the right name and certainly they nor we give out our phones, addresses, etc. At the bars, with the guys, you know, maybe you chat for a couple of hours before it moves to play. But at couples clubs, as short as 20 minutes of conversation with maybe a dance or two, or not. It’s just the dangers of the game we all seem to enjoy playing.

[Fitlakecouple 451]

Google calendar for all dates (meet and/or play) and a word document that includes the 'drink dates' that went no further...

[PebblesCanDo 45]

We do keep a spreadsheet! We didn’t keep up with it for awhile and sat down to update it the other day and had some pleasant memories surface. It’s kinda cool to look back and see adventures that would blow our “vanilla” friends minds!

[Shore2Please 611]

With a very limited experience we know who we have been with. May we never need to find a problem that would cause us to search for anyone.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

Hmmm. I remember the first; I remember the latest. Those in between are a little nebulous. I can only guess how many. I have suffered, even, the embarrassment of being intimate at a house party with woman who had to remind me that it was not our first intimate encounter.

[ViSexual 1,008]

It's easier for me for two reasons. First, they were friends before play partners. Second, there were only five couples that we played with.

 

But, sadly, that was back in the late 70's/early 80's and we didn't have access to computers, cellphones and digital cameras. So there was no correspondences or pics to have kept. Communications were mostly in person or by telephone.

 

 

Years later though, I did make a diary of those experiences to best of my memory.

 

 

Now we did play online with a few couples years later. That was about 20 years ago. And, stupidly, we didn't keep any of the emails or pics we exchanged. Well, actually, we deleted them in consideration to the couples who sent them. But, dang it, I'd sure pay a bundle to have them now.

[M1F2KTJ 473]

We save contact information with the people we have good experiences with in case we want to do it with them again or invite them to a party.