Risky breeding fetish

[Secretdirty 15]

This will probably get some hate but I'm only interested in anyone who's into this. I really am turned on by the thought of someone cumming in me and possibly getting me pregnant. I have been trying to conceive for a while with my husband but he is on the very small side, not sure if that hinders? I have a child from first marriage and am wanting another before it's too late for me. I don't expect involvement from the man afterwards; In fact you will never know you fathered, just want to indulge my fetish and maybe get the ultimate gift... Anyone with the same views contact me please.

[Numex 2,420]

I will probably get some hate for this, but if done properly I see no problem with what you propose. What worries me is that you call this a fetish, and say, "I really am turned on by the thought of someone cumming in me and possibly getting me pregnant." If you're thinking of making a baby, a new human, it had be better thought out rather than just something that turns you on.

 

First and foremost, is your husband ok with you getting pregnant by another man and is he willing and capable, financially and otherwise, of caring for the child? (Have you both been tested to see if he has swimmers and your eggs are good?) If so, then it is no different than sperm donation or adoption. If not, don't do it.

 

As to the other guys, once they pump their cum into you it's a gift and all your choice on what you can do: abort, have the child and keep bio dad out of it, or pursue bio dad for support. There are numerous discussions about whether that is all fair, but that's the way it is. Although I think all states automatically make any child born in a marriage the husband's child, you may also want to consult a family lawyer. (Consider again how this isn't fair - if a married man gets a single girl pregnant, the law doesn't just let the couple claim the child as theirs.)

[agreatguy 269]

You're talking about wanting to fulfill two different desires and that needs to be reconciled. Even if your husband could get you pregnant it sounds like you'd still have the desire to fulfill the fetish.

 

Nothing wrong with fetishes at all but you're talking about bringing a life into the world. Be sure it's for the right reasons and with the right person.

[Sawman 84]

I have met guys online who claim to have provided this service to couples, but I have no idea if they are real. It seems to be a "thing." In the sweep of human history there are certainly examples—very private—of the legal father not being the bio father with the knowledge and agreement of all partners. Assuming the OP is for real there are some practicalities. Is the "donor" genetically suitable? Would you want your child to inherit a predisposition for heart disease? In modern family law a bio-dad may have rights and the legal parents probably cannot wave the right to child support on behalf of the child notwithstanding agreements among the adults.

 

All that said, babies are a gift.