Threesome preference

[Curious618 20]

Would you rather have a threesome with 2 guys and a woman or 2 girls and 1 guy? My wife has not had a threesome but she is down the middle about threesomes

[Kade oj 63]

2 guys

[padoc 1,703]

We've done both and enjoyed them. Given her preference, Mrs Doc would take (and not in a figurative sense) the two guy scenario. I'd prefer two women. But either way there is nothing to complain about!!

[ViSexual 1,008]

I've always felt that a gal can handle two guys much more effectively than a guy can handle two women. For the threesome to be two women and a guy, it should be with two bisexual women. Hey, just my opinion!

[Guest]

Two guys but I’m the woman. I suspect hubby would enjoy two women but he never objects to it when I pursue a two guy situation.

[adamgunn 1,460]

We often did MFMs. Worked for us, the wife was insatiable to begin with, with two guys she was *almost* satisfied.

 

As she wasn't bi, an FMF wouldn't have been a thing for us.

[Sawman 84]

I'm a male who usually plays with couples. I much prefer the MFM scene which gives her maximum pleasure while relieving each of the men of sole responsibility for her joy. FMF depends on the situation. Am I the center of attention? In that case, no thank you. That would be sensory overload. On the other hand if one of the women is the center and the other two of us please her, then I am in.

[ToeDippers 83]

By her choice we have only had a ffm. She is acting on a desire she has has to be with a woman. I got the benefit of being with a new woman with the blessing of my wife.

It is hard to satisfy two women by myself. The friend did please my wife tho my wife was still a little shy in returning the favor. That is where I came in (pun intended).

Maybe one day we will have a mfm but neither of us has said we are wanting it.

[EastInWest 1,524]

As a male, I'm not going to pretend FMF isn't amazing, especially if the ladies are into each others' attention.

 

MFM is just both easier to arrange and manage, though. Even when we've gotten our group of three couples together, it's far more likely to end up with the men concentrating on one woman. It might just be more human nature for a male to jump in when a woman is warmed up than the other way around.

[agreatguy 269]

We enjoy MFM. She likes being the center of attention.

I wouldn't turn down a FFM or FMF but don't have any sites on it simply because of the difficulty finding the right woman.

 

Our last swap included a little bit of FFM with the other couple being the lucky ones getting to shower her with attention and that was completely fine with me.

The other guy was eating her pussy while I was getting my cock sucked by his wife. The other woman had told us earlier in the night that she was fully bi. My wife has had other women go down of her before and enjoyed it so I asked the other woman if she would like to go down on her. She couldn't get there fast enough even knowing there likely wouldn't be any reciprocation. The other guy moved out of the way but quickly found his way to her breasts and then she was reaching for him to move into position so she could suck his cock. She seemed to be thoroughly enjoying all that was happening and I just sat back and watched for a while.

 

I've had FFM and FMF in the past and FMF is the more difficult one to pull off. It helped when the women were as into each other as they were me. Things could then be very fluid so if I needed to take a break or just wanted to watch the two of them they could just move into the next phase without hesitation.

[michjosh69 23]

I'm a male who usually plays with couples. I much prefer the MFM scene which gives her maximum pleasure while relieving each of the men of sole responsibility for her joy. FMF depends on the situation. Am I the center of attention? In that case, no thank you. That would be sensory overload. On the other hand if one of the women is the center and the other two of us please her, then I am in.

 

How did you start off as a single man in this world? M wand are searching and often find you guys have trouble breaking in to this arena...

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

Why can't we do both?

[Kade oj 63]

True I’m all for both

[Naughtyvanessa 49]

i love both… i am bi sexual - so it is Always fun to Play with a hot couple but to have a threesome with two polite guys it is also fun

[Brimba 30]

Either way will be fine - try both and see which one you prefer

[Guest]

I have tried and enjoyed both many times.

 

However in my experience it highly depends on what YOU & YOUR WIFE are looking for?

 

Because both men and women do / can offer very different things.

 

 

MEN: With the majority of men you will actually find that everything is about sex.

 

Ask yourself some basic questions, such as:

 

Does a man join a swinging site looking for friendship?

Does a man join a swinging site looking for romance?

Does a man join a swingers site looking for new friends to enjoy days out with?

Does a man join a swinging site because he is looking for new people to speak with?

 

NO NOT REALLY, the vast majority of men join a swingers site because they want to FUCK!!!!!

 

They want sex not friendship.

 

They are not really here t join you and your wife in summer BBQS, they are not really here to have relaxed film evenings with you and your wife, they are not here looking for new golf partners, they are not here to speak about your collection of computer games, they are basically here because they want to ram their dick into your wife.

 

The vast majority of men join up to swinging sites looking for no strings / no effort / no drama sex.

 

They are not really interested in you as people. Not really interested in your relationship. In your rules. In your fears or worries. In your desire for friendship. In your personality. In fact a good number of men are basically just interested in your wife's vagina, and her mouth / tits / ass.

 

The vast majority of men are here for SEX. They are here because they want to make their penis feel good / get their dicks wet / fuck new women / fuck new holes / get easy sex from other peoples wives, so sure with men everything can be VERY SEXUAL / ALL ABOUT SEX.

 

 

I think a lot of husbands fall into this mistake....

 

 

That a lot of husbands tell their wives that they want to try swinging / threesomes because they think it will be a fun and exciting experience that is romantic and friendly, that they will meet new people, make new friends, have exciting evenings. The husband explains to the wife that they can "Take it slow" that they can meet a nice person / get to know them / chat with them / learn about them / confide in them / share their sexual lives with them / share a bed with them / that it will be some kind of open minded relaxed situation / that it will bring them closer together / that will be some magical experience.

 

In reality swinging with a man is basically another guy ramming his dick into your wife.

 

He's not actually here for friendship, not here to chat, not here to share your fears or worries, not here to share wonderful evenings of friendship, really his prime reason for been here is to shoot cum up yours wife's vagina and any other hole she will allow. To a lot of guys your wife isn't really a person, she is a new vagina, she is a sex hole, almost like a blow up doll.

 

I say blow up sex doll because really they are not interested in her, they are interested in her holes, they are interested in sticking their dick into her, so sure with men things can end up been ALL about sex which is okay if that is what you want as a couple. If however you want a sexual friendship, that you actually want a ongoing fun friendship where you chat / hangout / eat food / watch films / have days out / get to know each other, then basically men fall down drastically, they are not here for that stuff, some men will say they are, deep down most of them are not.

 

 

WOMEN: Basically the right single women will offer you 100 times more friendship that a man. I basically think women are a lot better at mixing friendship and sex.

 

With MEN you are either JUST a friend, or your someone they can fuck. Your either just a friend, or your a fuck buddy / sexual partner. Men are generally shit at mixing both friendship and sex, where women seem a lot better at mixing the two.

 

For example I have had various threesomes with women where the other women has ate meals with us / watched films with us / had shopping days with us / has gone out for meals with us / has had day trips with us / has basically provided our lives with a new FRIEND and not just a fuck.

 

If you meet a MAN to have threesomes with and you ask that man if he fancies going out for a meal and cinema with you (without sex been involved) he will probably say NO. You ask a women the same question and she will probably say YES. I know a girl now who would happily come and jump into bed with me and my girlfriend, but sure that same girl would also simply come round to drink wine and watch films, she would also come round simply to sit in the back yard and cook a BBQ, or have a nice trip out into the city together.

 

I think for a lot of women sex is not the biggest priority in life, that women are happier to experience a mix of both sex and friendship, where really the vast majority of guys are just here for the sex part.

 

Don't get me wrong I'm NOT saying a threesome with another women is easy, in fact it takes a lot of work / it takes a lot of effort / and sure at some point one of the girls will get jealous, if not both.

 

The struggle I have found with 2 females in a threesome is basically two polar forces pushing in different directions.

 

One one side you have your own girlfriend / wife who basically has agreed to have a threesome with another women, BUT who also wants to spend ALONE TIME with you. That please understand if your average wife does agree to have a threesome with another women then your wife is NOT saying that is ALL they want to do with your lives. Your wife still wants to go shopping / still wants to spend family days out with you / still wants to have alone time with just you / still wants to have holidays / meals / nights out or whatever else. The basic point is your wife usually does NOT want this other girl in your life 7 days a week.

 

On the flip side you have this new girl who has agreed to have a threesome with you and your wife and basically that girl does want to see you, that girl doesn't just want to be a once per month sex call, that girl will very quickly lose interest in you unless you actually offer her company / friendship / fun / ECT. Really to keep a single women interested in a threesome then in many cases you have to see her on a regular basis. NO you don't always need to have sex, but sure you need to make her welcome, need to message her, call her, invite her round, and sure have sex with her whenever you can.

 

So on one side you generally have a wife/girlfriend who is fighting for personal time with you, fighting for time away from this new girl, that you have a wife who has agreed to a threesome with another girl but doesn't actually want your entire lives taken over by this new girl. Then on the flip side you have this new girl who is going to very bored / frustrated / even offended unless you do make her welcome, unless you do see her enough to make carrying on this threesome worthwhile.

 

If you meet a women tomorrow and have sex with her but then do not contact her for 3 weeks then what happens? Three weeks later when you do bother contacting her she has become upset / offended / lost interest in you / is not interested in been your once a month fuck. The same kind of thing applies to a lot of single women who agree to a threesome, they want a fun regular thing not a once a month booty call.

 

In many cases your wife might agree to a threesome with another women and will agree to see this other women once a month / once a week if your really lucky. When actually to keep most single women interested in a threesome with you then you need to be seeing them 3 or 4 times per week. It is kind of stressful because it can actually take a LONG TIME to meet a single girl who agrees to have a threesome with you, its not always easy to meet a single women who will agree to a threesome friendship, it actually takes some couples many years to meet a female to join them.

 

So please imagine it has taken you TWO YEARS of searching to finally meet a girl who agrees to a threesome with you, it has taken many months to finally meet a girl who your wife agrees to have a threesome with. It actually tuck you a lot of time and effort to speak with this new women, to explain your situation, to offer her a threesome, you have spent weeks or even months messaging this women / calling this women / meeting this women and you finally get to have a threesome with two women.

 

Then your wife says she only wants to see this new women once a month.... But that's the point in a months time this new women will be gone / she will have lost interest / become offended / doesn't actually want to be your once a month threesome fuck / instead she has moved on a met a boyfriend of her own.

 

During my threesomes with women its like a balancing game, on one side I'm trying to keep my own wife happy, trying to spend quality time alone with her, trying to organise date nights with my wife, trying to keep my wife happy and secure, whilst also trying to pull this new women closer and invite her round as much as possible. Its not easy.

 

 

But both men and women have their good and bad points.

 

 

If your looking for a heavily friendship based threesome, if you want a general everyday friendship as well, if your looking to take it slow / get to know someone / have a new person to hang around with / have new social experiences then sure pick a women. If your simply looking for SEX and are perfectly happy just to meet someone a fuck without friendship been involved then pick a man.

 

It really does depend on the couple.

 

Some couples do want a ongoing friendship, some couples really want the social side, some couples want a new friendship and sex.

 

Other couples purely want the sex part, they want to keep these people away from their everyday lives, they already have friends, they already have jobs, homes, families and do not want to risk bringing new people into their lives for some big friendship.

 

 

Personally if I had to pick between them then I'd pick 2 women simply because I want sex and friendship, but like stated it depends on your wife and what you want as a couple.

 

 

Does your wife want a friendship with this person, does your wife want to take things slow / get to know them / work through any fears or worries / then sure pick a man or women who is willing to offer you that friendship side of things. On the flip side is your wife simply okay with sex, is your wife okay about the idea of just fucking another man, would your wife be okay pulling a new mans dick out his pants without really knowing much about him at all. If so look for that experience.

[Bluespruce1 706]

We prefer MMF. She enjoys watching us masturbate first. It's kind of a test for her - she loves a confident guy that doesn't mind sharing such an intimate act. She also has an orgasms when she sees us ejaculate. If he is smaller she enjoys DV or DP. If he is bigger, she lets him penetrate while I watch or get oral from her.

[Kade oj 63]

That's awesome.enjoy threesomes myself very much . Have not tried double penetration yet. I do enjoy sucking the guys laying side-by-side.

[Numex 2,409]

Both my wife and I prefer MFFs and couples swaps because she likes pussy (and so do I.)

[oc1234 435]

My wife and I love MMF threesomes, and she really loves alone time with our main threesome friend.

[M1F2KTJ 473]

Would you rather have a threesome with 2 guys and a woman or 2 girls and 1 guy? My wife has not had a threesome but she is down the middle about threesomes

 

My wife has no interest in playing with another woman.

[Ems1485 37]

When we first started playing with others he wanted only FMF as he's always been straight, and even though I'm bi I've always preferred MFM.

Then when we were seeing this other couple for a while who we were doing bareback sex with, after the other guy came in me he suggested to my hubby to try sloppy seconds as he highly recommended it feels so much nicer. So he did and loved the feel of that, and since that day he has lost any interest in FMF.

[LJ90 15]

We havent try yet but our preference would be MFM, she would like to be worshipped by two men and pounded doggy both jn her mouth and pussy and i would like to give her maximum feeling and make her busy and satisfied. Im straight as an arrow but MFM is something i would prefer more than FMF.

[dazanconfsd 84]

We have three couples, including ourselves, that we have played with at the same time a few times now. So plenty of opportunities to try different things. FFM with the two other wives and myself, mfm, fffmmm, fm fm fm, The easiest to do and arrange is mfm. Though I really enjoy FFM. All were/are fun, and I'm down for either whenever the opportunity arises (pun intended)

[EastInWest 1,524]

We have three couples, including ourselves, that we have played with at the same time a few times now. So plenty of opportunities to try different things. FFM with the two other wives and myself, mfm, fffmmm, fm fm fm, The easiest to do and arrange is mfm. Though I really enjoy FFM. All were/are fun, and I'm down for either whenever the opportunity arises (pun intended)

 

If you weren't in FL, I'd think you were one of the other two couples we play with. I/we/they agree, three couples who all get along works very well and offers a lot of possible configurations and ways to keep the fun going if somebody needs to sit a round out. It's also very freeing to be able to split up the couples into two threesomes that don't involve any spouses.

 

I know some people here like the scene at bigger parties, that's an experience we haven't tried just yet. We'll eventually hit on a club or party scene she's interested in.

[shy_couple 459]

MFM.... Mrs Shy isn’t bi....

[Numex 2,409]

MFM.... Mrs Shy isn’t bi....

 

Most MFM doesn't involve bi play, so FMF needn't either.

[Lee714 81]

How often do you do DP? What position does the woman prefer?

[couplers 4,615]

Hi, Petra here. When younger I would have said MFM because I can satisfy and enjoy two guys. (Still can and do.) Now in my thirties, I say FFM because I need to be physical with a woman and enjoy her pussy and breasts.

[MySexyWifeLPEhu 18]

I've always felt that a gal can handle two guys much more effectively than a guy can handle two women. For the threesome to be two women and a guy, it should be with two bisexual women. Hey, just my opinion!

 

I Agree for my wife she is bi and in the past been in a couple of relationship's with a woman. Sexy Watching 2 women and then she tells you when to join in.

[couplers 4,615]

I've always felt that a gal can handle two guys much more effectively than a guy can handle two women. For the threesome to be two women and a guy, it should be with two bisexual women.

When we were in our twenties either one of my guys could satisfy two women by doing oral on us and because of their rapid recovery. Now in our thirties, the guys don't recover so quickly, especially after the second orgasm. So as it stands, I agree with you.