Cuckqueen here....

[bucksbunny 17]

Hi all

 

New to this site, just joined. I only found out the name of how I am after 30 odd years. I am 52, always loved watching my husband around woman, he is a natural flirt anyway, but I get so turned on by him enjoying himself, that I asked if he wouldn't mind asking a woman to sleep with him while I watched.

 

When it happened for the first time, it was a dream come true, and after all this time it is still the same. However, I would like a regular lady, we did have a girlfriend whom was my friend in a social way, but was more of my husbands friend in a bedroom way, however, she has since met someone else and has settled down.

 

We have joined all sorts of sites to find that one exclusive lady but its a nightmare and you get people thinking your weird to playing games and winding you up, this is not for us, we are genuine. Not sure if anyone else can help us here, or direct us to where there is an interest for this sort of life style, but I have been researching now for about 5 years and its just negative after negative.

 

My husband did meet another lady recently, but after the first time of me watching, she thought it was strange me allowing my husband to play with another woman, so we never saw her again. This is the biggest issue we have found, and to be honest, still after all these years I do not know how to approach it. I am an attractive 52 year old and my husband is an attractive 55 year old. Any genuine help would be greatly appreciated. Thank you

[OnMyF 17]

This is a big thing with men in reverse, why should not women get the same thing! I think this is great that you like to watch. Have you tried doing a MFF and just softly help the other female. That way you get a close up view and can encourage both with full support. i am sure there are women into the MFF scene that are more into men than women and then you just watching would not be so strange. Would like to here how this goes!

[bucksbunny 17]

Hi, Yes I have tried the MFF, and to be honest I did and didn't like it. I am not into woman so the lady we were with, at the time, wanted me to go further and it really freaked me out as that side is really not my thing.

 

That exclusive lady for my husband, is a dream, and also a friend at the same time for both. Just a natural living friendship, with just the extra benefits thrown in.

 

I have read so many stories about men and yes your right, I am the same, just the opposite way around, hence we just recently finding out about the name of which I would come under, "what a name lol"!..

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

Small note: It's cuckquean, not cuckqueen.

[couplers 4,640]

I... always loved watching my husband around woman, he is a natural flirt anyway, but I get so turned on by him enjoying himself, that I asked if he wouldn't mind asking a woman to sleep with him while I watched.

 

When it happened for the first time, it was a dream come true, and after all this time it is still the same.

I am now the same as you, enjoying my husband with another woman. The first time was difficult for me, even though I had a boyfriend for two years at that point. And the first several wouldn't let me participate or even watch.

 

 

... However, I would like a regular lady

Copying from a previous post of mine:

 

Unicorns are out there you just need charm, luck and patience. I snapped when a girlfriend of mine said she thought my husband must be fun in bed and I said "That could be arranged." She took me up on it and I learned to love the jealousy. This first friend didn't let me watch, but we all enjoyed the experiences in our own ways. It ended when she got serious with her boyfriend and couldn't see screwing my husband any longer. But we went out with them as a couple (I don't know if she ever told him) and we remain friends with her and her husband, a different guy (who does know).

 

Both hubby and I enjoyed the way things had gone (and at this point I wanted another "jealousy" fix), so I brought another woman, an acquaintance, more closely into our life. I went to lunch and shopping with her, then introduced her to my husband. We "dated" her together, we took her to dinner, the theater, and on vacations, which we paid for. I left her alone with hubby from time to time to show that I had no problem with them being together. It went nowhere sexually, but the fantasies between hubby and I were breathtaking - for him, me describing her body from the few times that I saw her undressed; for me, the fantasy images of them screwing. We still got together from time-to-time for a few years afterwards with no expectations of sex until she moved away.

 

We repeated the dating pattern with fifteen or so more women, and four took us up on the invitation to have sex with hubby. One other didn't want me present, and I respected that; the other three not only let me watch but either immediately or eventually had a Lesbian relationship with me as well. (My second great sexual awaking). One of the women was Clair, with whom both hubby and I became sexually and romantically involved. Clair joined us along with my boyfriend Red to turn our strange ménage à trois into a poly family (especially when Clair became pregnant and had our first child, with me closely behind).

 

Of all the women that we "dated," none have expressed any regrets or animosity towards us. We were looking for relationships, and found them whether it led to sex or not. We are on good terms with all of the women who we are still in contact with.

 

You have to be generous, kind and enjoy wherever it goes. We spent time and money on women who I befriended, but ultimatley had no interest in having sex with either of us. We created opportunites for her but never, ever pushed or made her feel that she owed us. It was all fun; even the ones who had no sexual interest in us fueled some fantastic fantasies. The woman who you are looking for is out there; be nice and generous. And enjoy interacting with people whether it leads to sex or not.

[daisyrey 24]

I am a 47 year old female. For years, I too have had fantasies about watching my husband with another female. I’m also very bi-curious. I’m most interested in the aspect of giving pleasure, more than receiving, and would love to be a “third” person involved, enabling my husband and the other female enjoy themselves. I discovered the term cuckquean a few months ago and was (at first) so excited to find that there were others like me! (As well as a name for it) If you attempt internet research, there isn’t much information out there for a female cuck. Unfortunately, most of what I’ve found involves humiliation - and that’s not anything I’m interested in. On this site, someone recently advised me to look up stag/vixen rather than cuckquean. Stag/vixen doesn’t include humiliation. I continue to struggle to find much information on the topic. There’s so much more “out there” about men who enjoy voyeurism with their spouse than women who do. I’m glad you posted...it makes me feel less alone or unusual when I read about other women who have the same desires!

*Side note: my husband and I haven’t had a “swinging” experience yet. After almost 18 years together, I opened up to him about six months ago about my fantasies. We’re planning our first trip to a club sometime in the Spring. I have such nervous butterflies!

[econobiker 165]

Hello ladies, I'm a poster who's just wandering back to the forum after a great while.

 

Only recently (last year) have my spouse Red and I realized that cuckquean is a descriptive term for her interaction with swinging once we met up. She also likes watching me with other women but not necessarily participating even though she is bisexual. We always termed it as her being a voyeur to my activities but cuckquean is a better term. Red also doesn't get into the humiliation or submissive part of cuckquean lifestyle.

 

That said, when we co-hosted swingers parties, there was more than ample opportunity for me to be with other women without Red needing to be involved in the planning process other than for her to okay to me the women I'd be able to play with. It actually was more like that she'd tell me about one or two women among regulars who she DIDN'T want me to be with and blanket okay any new women who attended.

 

This would lead to me and another lady playing with Red, fully clothed, popping her head in the room, standing in the door way, or alongside the bed. There might also have been the woman's husband watching or participating so making it more of a MFM but Red was(is) never expected to be involved. And , yes, one time the pajama wearing Red woke up to the both completely naked me and the younger lady sleeping in the same king size bed as her. Hearing Red wake up and say " Well Hello!" to the other woman next to me was one of the best things I've ever seen or heard. Another time I was with another couple (all three naked) with Red clothed sitting in a chair at the end of the bed serving as my fluffer with her mouth while the husband fucked his wife on the bed in front of us. Once the husband pulled out of his wife without finishing and rolled to the side, I then condomed up and mounted the wife while Red and the husband watched us two fuck away right in front of them.

 

I guess that I am saying that the cuckquean women of cuckquean couples could spin it as her being voyeur primarily without the cuckquean terminology involved. And going to events and parties is probably a better resource to meeting up with women than one on one via website. You will have to be explicit with couples that you, the female partner, will not be playing at all but will be watching the two or three others play.

 

One thing that I do want to stress about our cuckquean activities is that Red is/ was always rewarded with more loving than the other women who I played with. She usually received her attention later that evening or early morning next day.

 

I wanted to post this to encourage you cuckquean women that you are not weird about this and that you can achieve your desires with the help and understanding of an open minded and loving male partner.

[Pinkkiss777 0]

I’m bisexual and have been always into the idea of being in ffm. I asked a bf he got disgusted I was 21 I’m 32 now and I’ve done it twice with my current partner it’s very arousing to see him grope and get his penis rubbed by huge Tits , I love it we all play . I like to do it when I get a chance we live in the San Diego are , any hot girl or open minded willing to explore email me . I love seeing him and also enjoy the woman it truly is an experience even though I hope I don’t get misunderstood . I truly enjoy participating and seeing him and he is amazing at oral how can I not wanna share that.

Edited October 30 by Pinkkiss777

[couplers 4,640]

It's nice to read posts by other women, bi or not, who like to see their man with another woman.