agreatguy 269 Posted January 7, 2019 Being that we met based on a mutual interest we aren't the typical long time couple that stumbled on it or worked their way into it over a multi decade relationship. Our Acts I and II might actually be more interesting than Act III. I've written about it several times so I won't subject you to rehashing it. We knew all along we were headed there so afterwards it was just kind of what we expected. I will say there was a feeling of triumph that we pulled it off and had a good time. Reclamation sex was incredible and happened several times in the week following. Sometimes we replayed what had happened others we just enjoyed being together, just the two of us but still knowing we had that dirty little secret between the two of us. I've always given it a couple of days and then I'll ask if there is anything we need to discuss. Aside from clarifying and adjusting on some very minor issues there really hasn't been anything to be concerned with. I think we see each other as we expected before we started. We are each other's person. Nothing is going to get in the way of that. We enjoy the non-monogamous sex and even though there is flirting and kissing and all the passionate things that go with it we aren't looking to have relationships. My wife made the statement just last week that while we've enjoyed getting to know and playing with the people we have played with, afterwards they feel like a sex toy we tried out more than anything. The memories of the experiences seem to stay pretty in focus but the memories of the actual people, their personalities, likes, looks all seem to fade pretty quickly. I know that sounds kind of cold or harsh but I think that's how we keep this little secret part of our life separate from our everyday lives. We keep going back because it's fun and exciting. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
