Made some new friends, learned things about ourselves.

[dazanconfsd 84]

Husband here. We have been reading the forums and talking a lot for months now (she brought it up, and it didn't take me long to get on board). Our first experience was soft swap with wives only and us playing with out respective wives.It was fun but a bit awkward, both husbands wanted to be with the other woman but neither wanted their wife to play with the other man, it felt rushed, because it was. I had performance issues after a while and we called it a night. We talked about likes and dislikes and everything under the sun. 2 weeks ago she and I sign up for four different sites and both share accounts, hoping for a good chance of getting a real couple to at least talk to us, "new couple, looking for FWB, come hang at our place" etc. We had a connection with a couple about an hour and a half away, they were going to come down and we were going to hang out, see if we connect etc. Things came up, they didn't show (not much of a surprise for an online connection from what I read here)and wife becomes discouraged. Then the very next morning, a couple we have had limited conversation with for a couple weeks, just a couple miles away, says they are free to come over that night. We agree with the stipulation that we want to get to know them, be comfortable. Not being experienced, we felt this prudent. Soft swap was our limit with the possibility of more, she had a no kissing rule, but dropped that the week before, saying it would be hot to see me kiss another woman the way I kiss her. They show up, it feels awkward at first then everything clicks. They stop us and tell us they are very experienced, they will hold back anything not wanted, they want us to be comfortable. We talk for a few more min then go back to some touching. I was a little nervous because I hadn't dated/flirted/whatever in 14 years, meanwhile he already has his hand up her leg (I'm not complaining, I even liked it, just nervous with the other wife) I suggest we retire to the bedroom and we do. Clothes disappear. The other wife calls dibs on tasting my wife and tells me I should be doing something to her, so I do. We fairly quickly move to a full swap, with my permission and yearning to see my wife squirm more with the husband (we made sure both the wives enjoyed themselves). All on the same bed, everyone had a blast. I didn't realize how erotic it would be to see my wife getting off from someone else while I was with that other persons wife. Oh yeah, the first orgasm was simultaneous, my wife and his wife, both gripping each others arms and torsos, so so hot. The next day they drop by for, I don't remember what, and we end up in the bedroom again (this was literally an hour ago) we had adjusted our boundaries and likes/dislikes and told them, they obliged and we had even more fun than yesterday. Oh yes, afterward we talked and made love and couldn't get enough of each other. Thanks for all the posts here. I wouldn't have been able to do it comfortably without them, and now can't wait to do it again!

[JandKinBoise 858]

Good timing! Swinging is wrought with frustration, cool to see things come together for someone. And close!

[dazanconfsd 84]

Thank you, I agree, and from what I have read here, the first full swap for us was easier than most and we are really lucky to have a mature experienced couple walk us/help us through. Next weekend we have a play date at their house. We, of course, still want to see what is out there. And have kicked off some good conversations with fairly new couples(like us) and some other experienced couples. Man, I am on cloud nine, with my best friend right beside me.