Diversity in swinging

[Ike69 17]

My wife and I are just getting started. Both of us want to play with a black couple. Is it a problem to find black couples that will play with a white couple? I'm S8 but my wife is bi (not blonde). Apprecite any feed back!

[njbm 2,873]

It’s not difficult for a white couple to play with a black couple in the NYC area. We have and would. You may find them in a club or online. Our SLS profile says that we embrace diversity, which we do, we welcome white, black, Asian, Latin, etc. partners. We are judging by content of character and ability to have fun.

 

We have seen many on-line profiles that say white only and we find that unfortunate. Those people are missing out on fun. And it must be demoralizing to non-white people.

[Ike69 17]

Thanks, we too embrace diversity! Any recommendations on clubs in the Dallas Area?

[njbm 2,873]

Go to Colette’s! It is diverse.

[Ike69 17]

Thanks, that is one of the places we have talked about going to. Very excited about this adventure. My wife has always wanted to do a black man (hopefully more endowed than me but if not that's okay too). Cant wait to see her pleasured. Years ago when I tried to pursue going down on a black woman she was not into oral...which was a first for me. Since then I have always wanted to experience oral with a black woman. Hope I have better luck now. I love the thought of different skin color, hair textures and cultures sharing in pleasure and joy. Also, I think there is something very right about a white guy going down on a black woman. ?

[the Nomads 78]

WARNING: Squirrel brain wandering here...

 

Considering this is such a small community in relation to the world at large I don't understand why you would want to limit your options for playmates. At the same time physical attraction does have to do with appearance as well as personality. You can't ignore skin tone or ethnicity. Its not completely who you are but it is a part of the package. I feel sorry for those who make this limitation because of their prejudice. They are sad and most likely going to be lonely people. That being said if a black guy doesn't turn you on or an asian girl just doesn't float your boat being up front about it kind of goes with what I'm learning is the theme of LS. Open communication. Frankly I don't have enough experience in diverse situations yet to make any of those calls so I'm looking forward to learning. I hope my squirrel brain (ADD) got the point across that I was trying to make.

 

Mr. Nomad

[PSULioness 857]

I agree with the why put a limit or label on types of people. I know it’s your fantasy and if that is what turns you on then go for it. For me I rather be with someone who clicks, not someone for race or physical attribute.

[padoc 1,703]

We have been swinging for 15 years (primarily at clubs and house parties) and have known precious few black couples. We've met a lot of mixed couples, usually black male/white female. I don't think it's our location since home for us is the Philly area and we live now in Florida. I think its a simple numbers thing. Blacks make up 13% or so of the US population. Swingers overall are quite a small percentage of the general population ( but growing apparently) so it stands to reason that black couples would be a very percentage of that relatively small group.

[Ike69 17]

My husband has done most of the thread so far. For us we have many close friends from all backgrounds, colors and ethnicities. I imagine and hope we can experience the same swinging. We have only had each other for many years. Not intending any disrespect towards anyone, we are both attracted to people of color, particularly black men/women. I would love to wrap my arms and legs around a black man, soaking up the color contrast of our skin. Would love to receive it doggie style from a black man while going down on my husband. Hoping we can make this happen! I suspect we will have an easier time finding a fellow (including a single male) to help pleasure me. Am guessing we will need to find a couple to satisfy my husband, as trying to find a single black lady may be difficult-Which is fine with me, it may mean I get a 2nd guy...sorry husband. We are both excited to fulfill our longtime fantasies. Plan to go to Colette in Dallas or Players to start this adventure. Any comments on these clubs are appreciated.