Wife wants to have sex with a couple - without my particiption

[iiseries 15]

So, we've been talking about hot-wifing for awhile and my wife is okay with the idea, but she has said she'd really like to find a couple that she could enjoy time with. Three are plenty of sites for finding a bull for her but since this isn't really hot-wifing, are swinger sites the place to find what she's looking for? she'd want to get to know the couple a bit before jumping into bed with them so online communication would be a good start and eventually face to face meeting.

As far as I'm concerned, I'd love to be there to watch, but that's not a necessity and I'm guessing it will be easier to find a couple without having the requirement of me being there to watch.

just trying to find the best place to search for what we're looking for.

[PeterJ 960]

So, we've been talking about hot-wifing for awhile and my wife is okay with the idea, but she has said she'd really like to find a couple that she could enjoy time with. Three are plenty of sites for finding a bull for her but since this isn't really hot-wifing, are swinger sites the place to find what she's looking for? she'd want to get to know the couple a bit before jumping into bed with them so online communication would be a good start and eventually face to face meeting.

As far as I'm concerned, I'd love to be there to watch, but that's not a necessity and I'm guessing it will be easier to find a couple without having the requirement of me being there to watch.

just trying to find the best place to search for what we're looking for.

 

On the contrary. Without you, your wife is a Unicorn, the elusive person that so many couples with bi wives are searching for. They are sufficiently rare that many couples would acquiesce to her requirement that they court her first. (If she were willing to go with folks she’d only known over dinner, drinks or coffee — or at a club — she’d have her choice of couples this weekend,)

[Bluespruce1 707]

Many couples, including us, would enjoy having you watching us pleasure your wife. We really enjoy it when the guy sits across the room and masturbates.

[Guest]

Hhhmmmmm forgive the negative answer but I think the entire fact you have to ask this question kind of shows you have had little to no experience with swinging and that perhaps caution should be considered.

 

I mean if you had experience with swinging you would probably know that online is FULL of couples looking to meet a women, I mean proper full of couples looking to meet a women.

 

However if you have had little to no experience with swinging then perhaps letting your wife run off for hot steamy sexual dates with other couples isn't the best jumping in point. I mean be warned a lot can go wring with that situation, your wife could find herself getting more involved than you hoped, that feelings could run high, jealousy could soon become an issue.

 

I'd also warn you that "some" couples (not all couples) will become very very attached to your wife. Me and my ex fucked couples and honestly I have had couples still texting my ex girlfriend and asking her for sex alone 2 or 3 years later.

 

Some facts to think about would be....

 

1: Remember once your wife gives this couple her mobile phone number there is no taking that back, that means this other couple, or in many cases this other man can message your wife whenever he wants, he can have entire massive conversations with your wife, he can text her 57 times in a single day whilst they are working and sharing some steamy conversation that you know very little about, he can also text asking your wife for sex whenever he wants, or even ask your wife to meet him alone / have an affair / have meets you know nothing about.

 

2: Remember the second your wife gives this couple her personal email / face book / chat program details then against the exact same applies as above. They can share an entire world via these messages that you know nothing about. Like stated I have fucked couples and in many cases that same couple will be messaging my girlfriend asking her to meet them alone, asking for coffee dates, drinking dates, personal sexual dates and so on.

 

3: Remember once your wife attends this couples home then there is also no taking that back, she now knows where they live and can visit them whenever she wants, if your away with work, if your doing a long shift at work she can simply nip around to their house and have sex with them all she wants. That if for whatever reason YOU want this situation to stop, then cool but your wife already knows where this other couple lives, are you 100% sure she won't visit them without you even knowing.

 

4: Remember the very second this couple find out where your wife works then what is stopping them appearing at your wife's workplace, for example lets say you want the situation to stop and your wife stops seeing this couple, then what is stopping this other guy turning up at your wife's workplace to try and speak with her about a private sexual affair.

 

 

I think what upset me the most about fucking couples was how the other couple could text and communicate with my girlfriend without me having any knowledge or input about what was been said, or what was happening. I found out that basically whilst my ex girlfriend was at work she was getting about 30 messages per day from a couple we fucked. I myself got 0% messages from the couple, they was 100% focused on my girlfriend and was asking her to meet alone / fuck alone / start a sexual based friendship and relationship with them.

[Guest]

A threesome is completely different than a foursome. We get many of ours, MFM and FMF, by playing with couples we date. If someone is out of town or unavailable, it's a great way to enjoy a 3some.

[njbm 2,901]

A threesome is completely different than a foursome. We get many of ours, MFM and FMF, by playing with couples we date. If someone is out of town or unavailable, it's a great way to enjoy a 3some.

 

Besides the obvious numerical difference, how does the threesome differ from the couple swap?

[Guest]

One person receives most of the attention vs 1 on 1

[njbm 2,901]

Wouldn’t one alternate who gets the attention?

[Guest]

Well, if you're having an MFM and the men aren't bi, the female gets all the attention. IF you're having a FMF and the females aren't bi, the man gets all the attention. I'll just tell you that the dynamics are different in a threesome. in a foursome you can do the same things, but usually once a couple gets paired up and hot and heavy, they consummate together.

[njbm 2,901]

We usually swap with another couple in the same room. We are ok with separate rooms if we already know the couple.

[TwoFunTexans 103]

I think swinging is still in the cards for y'all. You could all be friends and when play time starts there's not many couples who would protest a threesome with the stipulation that you be nearby.

[Bluespruce1 707]

many times when we do MMFF we do 3 on 1 and take turns who gets to be the center of attention