So awesome. But I don't want to take a step back. Need pointers & advice, plz.

[MySexyWifeLPEhu 18]

I've been with my wife for over 3 years, My SexyWife is very petite and kinda shy too. It took us a year and 2 months to finalize our Top 7 Fantasy's. Both are willing to explore our top 4 Fantasy's. Our top 4 Fantasy's are FFM threesome & Stranger Fantasy usually stayed in the top 3. I knew those would be the top 2 since we already did one of ours already. Let me say Swinging came in #4 and

What was a big surprise was MFM in #3. How did it get there? Honestly I had been the one who made it into something she would be very interested in. Here is how i went about it. In the beginning she was just okay with a MFM threesome but was really into ffm. Her only rule for me was NO Penetration she would not feel comfortable seeing me penetrating another woman so that was off limits. And to this day still no penetration also she starts out with the other female in 1 on 1 action for 30 min's that's how she wanted & I wanted to watch her so sexy, later she would signal me to join the action, anyway 2 months later she watch a movie called, "Savages" it really turn her on and what she described was a woman had two men in her life, one who made soft & slow passionate love, and other one was rough & hard. She said that if we did MFM she would want it that way. Her rules started out with new guy only allowed doggy style, & no kissing, must wear condom, no anal, and definitely our favorite 2 positions off limits.

In the months to come I started to read forums and websites about all Fantasy's. I found myself turned completely on by this fantasy known as Sharing your wife. Allowing another man fuck your wife and her enjoying it and the husband Watching with a hard on!

How did I get so hard imagining my wife and another man I asked myself? I was confused. I knew both of us wasn't keen to the idea of Cuckholding. The more I thought about the MFM I had to make it exciting for my wife. So making it Sensual & unique is what I did. Next move was great on my part I turned it into a Sensual Cuckhold MFM Threesome. It went from being #14 & my #11 to making it in the top 5. I explained how this was much better than a regular threesome. This one started out with Sensual massage to get her relaxed. ((What She said to me make sure new guy does Doggy Style & he Spoons her & that he didn't forget to do those 2 positions. However, final rules were light kisses short not long or heavy and that it showed gratitude & appreciation. I explained how it would start out w/ us giving her a Sensual massage, then a twosome with me and the new guy so she didn't feel like it was constant threesome action so I said new guy and her start right after the massage. I asked same as FFM on time limit

She said no 15 min's would be good enough as I sense her nervousness. Then I would join in making it a threesome. After awhile he would relax and I get 15 min's wit my wife and then threesome action. Now Second time around the new guy would get last Twosome with my Wife anywhere from 25-35 min's a bit longer than the 1st time with my wife. I would watch my wife much better this time around intrigued & interested. Hoping new guy satisfied my SexyWife.

 

>>>Now for me I'd picture this in my mind & play it out.

 

(((Occasionally I would imagine him spooning my wife then adjusting himself & lifting my wife's leg over him and quickly he slide into missionary position before my SexyWife realize he was on top slowly entering her at a nice pace and she allows him on top not thinking bout it and he notices that I give him a thumbs up for being so smooth. He appreciates me being so cool. Soon she starts having nice small orgasms, going with his flow of going In & out of her at a steady pace, still on top in missionary he moves in kissing her her lips lightly & she returns short light kisses too, then he takes control by kissing her longer more passionate and deep long kisses as he fucks her a bit harder and longer for she is about to have a Huge orgasm while she is kissing him back deep and Passionately heavy and she has a loud hard huge orgasm. Then he starts to cum really hard inside her as she feels him making her have another nice size orgasm as she holds onto him keeping her legs open to him and wrapping them so she can make sure she returns the favor letting him fill her up until his last drop and the look on her face enjoying him being inside her and loving every minute of him and how I see that she catered to his needs making him feel like the man he is))).

 

Wow I sure fantasize quite a bit and what I did next was i join a few forum's and websites filled out a couple of Profiles with a pic of her (2) and (1) of us. Joined websites like "Slutwifes" and "Wife wants to play" I learned a lot and not only I saw my SexyWife as sexy but got lots of compliments like she's really Sexy or So Sexy and So Beautiful this was from April to early June.

 

Around June 7th or 8th I told her bout the forums and the compliments she had gotten she was surprised which I used this one pic as a profile pic another one and also a pic of us. She couldn't believe the compliments she got said it was nice.

I said let's check out this site AdultDatingXXX for Threesomes & Swinging she agreed to check it out. They gave us a sweet deal 17.95 + tax one month which ended up having an additional 2 more weeks free. She liked her new name which I called her SexyWifeLPE she and I took it slow did it only on the weekends not thinking she got lots of hits like anywhere from 30-35 Messages a week. We took a break and we got back on in September 21st 3 month membership I remember last day was December 22nd.

However I made one big mistake she found out I made a profile of us on Cuckhold Contacts at the same time we joined AdultdatingXXX and after 7 days told her look we got over 85 messages but she didn't like that I made another profile of us, and I quickly APOLOGIZE and Took us off and deleted our profile back in late October 2018.

It did put a damper on things making us move at a slower pace. So far on AdultdatingXXX we had one meet and greet she said he was nice and he will come in town in mid to late February to hangout shoot pool sing Karaoke this is a possibility he loves how petite she is. I love the fact she's into it still shy but talking to another 4-5 prospects for a while now. I hope she doesn't shy away. Now it's December before action got hot again, we decided to take a break during holidays til my birthday January 17th. Slowly getting back into it but had life get in the way obstacles.*

However, I have learned about her preferences which is so Cool. Her preferences are Caucasian male circumcised, 5'9" or taller, for size no smaller than 5" no bigger than 7", and girth from average to thick also likes eye color to be blue, green, or Hazel. Body type as long as he's not real big. She said from Athletic to few extra pounds.

So far on the site she has told guys she doesn't want a one hit run away Joe lol or demanding or aggressively wanting her & fakes pretending to be a couple then ends up saying he can play alone without wife.

 

Would she be good about having a steady threesome partner she has mentioned 2-3x a year steady. What you think?*

 

My Inquiry's or Q's? Are things I Wonder about.

 

Which is better (2-3x) or (4-5x) a year good for a steady threesome partner?

Do you see a possibility it could change to something else somehow?

 

I mentioned to her don't worry if it comes down to 2 guys and they both pass everything I told her we could have a threesome with both at different times to see which one was more in tune, was that a good idea on my part?

 

As far as preferences what do you think to much or it's expected because everybody has their own likes?

 

Knowing I'm different in what she prefers like I'm Hispanic and uncircumcised also I have brown eyes and for size when we were dating at the beginning somehow we got on the subject on men's hands that you could compare that to their penis size and she said watch and what she did was measured me at that time and I was a good 6" that was back in January 2016. From September 2018 to New year's I only get up to at best 5⅛" about 5% of the time but most of the time I'm either right at 5" or barely 5" bout 70% of the time and 25% of the time a solid but good 4¾" when I measure around 4¾" or 12.1cm to 12.3cm idk what's up.

 

Anyway Knowing that what do you think about the difference regarding size & girth? About her wanting Caucasian and circumcised and for size from 5-7" and do you think she notices me now being 5" or just thinks a bit Smaller like she might think her man is around like 5½?

 

I Love my SexyWife hoping she lets me know her desires and what she is thinking is that too much to ask?

 

Thank You

[dazanconfsd 84]

We aren't a hotwife or cuckold couple, though I love sitting back and watching her play. I will attempt to answer to the best of my ability. I am sure others will have better advice, so take it as you will. YMMV

 

"Would she be good about having a steady threesome partner she has mentioned 2-3x a year steady. What you think?*"

 

This can only be answered by you and her. We have learned that, so far, we are insatiable. As are the couples we have been playing with. For us, and for now, multiple times a week with swinger friends is good. Thoughts and boundaries change as well. we have changed our rules and boundaries probably 5 times in the last 6 weeks including my wife being jealous (not good jealous) over something just Sunday night. Lots of talking, adjust fire, continue on.Don't be afraid to stop, or take a break, if it is necessary.

 

"Which is better (2-3x) or (4-5x) a year good for a steady threesome partner?"

 

That depends on all 3 of you.

 

"Do you see a possibility it could change to something else somehow?"

 

There is always a possibility, no matter how small, keep working on talking and see how things go.

 

" mentioned to her don't worry if it comes down to 2 guys and they both pass everything I told her we could have a threesome with both at different times to see which one was more in tune, was that a good idea on my part?"

 

It sounds like a good idea to me, variety is awesome, how does she feel about it?

 

"As far as preferences what do you think to much or it's expected because everybody has their own likes?"

 

Everyone is most definitely different. Someone I work with swings, their partner is very picky and only meets at clubs, they have been in it a year and have only played 4 times. Nothing wrong with it and they are having the time of their lives. In 6 weeks we have played 14-15 times, for us that is good. Likes, opinions, and others all change as time goes on. Be fluid and communicate.

 

"Anyway Knowing that what do you think about the difference regarding size & girth? About her wanting Caucasian and circumcised and for size from 5-7" and do you think she notices me now being 5" or just thinks a bit Smaller like she might think her man is around like 5½?"

 

Again, variety. My wife was fucking a guy that was over 8" when we met. She started dating me though, I'm just 6". She still wants a big cock, she likes to play with people that don't look like me, weather it be skin tone, build, height, whatever. It's all variety and, for me, completely understandable. Just remember who she is going home with

 

"I Love my SexyWife hoping she lets me know her desires and what she is thinking is that too much to ask?"

 

Not only is it not too much to ask, but it is vital in this lifestyle that you are both on the same page and don't move faster than the slowest person.

 

Best of luck,

Mr. Dazed

[MySexyWifeLPEhu 18]

I well appreciate You taking the time and I do see this going in slow cruise mode. I am thinking finding a couple you click with is the hardest to find MFM are easier but FFM might come from someone she knows will that be a diaster? Because I can keep myself distance away so she feels comfortable only allowing her to socialize with the other female. However I am constantly on this fantasy making sure it's all good and us being on the same page

[dazanconfsd 84]

Our first experience was soft swap ladies only, husbands played with their own spouses. It was with friends, and it was good at the time but a disaster later (mainly my, the husband's, fault) but a lot of it had to do with the fact that it was friends. Some people have great luck with friends, many more have issues with friends and friendships. Talk it out and only do what you think you can handle, taking it slow is a safe bet.

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

Swinging with friends...just say no.

[MySexyWifeLPEhu 18]

We as a couple agree we want to meet new couple's get to know them. Now if we have a good rapport and enjoy spending time with them or doing things like dancing, conversation, karaoke

and havingg things in common and and if we are attractive and vice versa I don't want one of us to be not attracted therefore has to be both of us attracted to them and cool with him