Couple that rejected us at small house party

[njbm 2,873]

We are attending a small house party of nine couples. One of the couples is a couple that we played with once. When we asked them if they wanted to play again, they said they did not. They were courteous, but clear and direct. Honestly, we were surprised, but not crushed. I guess we’ll just be friendly with them. We have no desire to play with them again either at this point. Our meeting was two years ago.

[lcmim 1,082]

We are attending a small house party of nine couples. One of the couples is a couple that we played with once. When we asked them if they wanted to play again, they said they did not. They were courteous, but clear and direct. Honestly, we were surprised, but not crushed. I guess we’ll just be friendly with them. We have no desire to play with them again either at this point. Our meeting was two years ago.

 

Warm, friendly , vanilla is the way I would go.

Two years is a long time.

 

Write no script other than that.

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

It's been two years so I would say that you weren't really interested in playing with them again either. Don't take it as anything other than they (and you) weren't interested.

 

There are also lots of couples that have a one play rule. Don't overthink it, it's not personal but just wasn't a match.

[njbm 2,873]

It's been two years so I would say that you weren't really interested in playing with them again either. Don't take it as anything other than they (and you) weren't interested.

 

There are also lots of couples that have a one play rule. Don't overthink it, it's not personal but just wasn't a match.

 

They clearly said that they did not want to play with us a second time, so we certainly would not ask them to play again after that response. They are a nice couple and if we are not a match for them, no problem. Just a little awkward at a small house party.

[padoc 1,703]

Its only awkward if you let it be so. What ICM and Gold said!!!

[Guest]

It could also be something even less judgmental than you think. Maybe they had some curiosity about an other couple or two? Depending on the party, there may not be enough time to 'take a turn' with everyone.

[Guest]

It could be lots of things. The one play rule, they had committed to playing meeting and playing with another couple that evening, they were there looking for some other type of activity like MFM or something more orgy like, etc. Just go on, let them make any next move and find others to play with.

[njbm 2,873]

We will be friendly with them and look to other couples for play. I got the clear feeling that their wife did not find our husband appealing. I didn’t find her scintillating, either, so no great loss. We’ll move forward. Maybe I will send another woman into multiple screaming Os within earshot of the rejector.

[njbm 2,873]

The husband of the other couple was initially super friendly to both of us. At the end of the party, the wife warmed up and was also very friendly with us. Not uncomfortable at all. We were friendly, too. No crisis, one or both of them did not find one or both of us appealing. It happens.

 

In between, we had a nice time and we both played. I have always been too focused on a couple to couple swap and that’s not how it works at a house party. I played with a woman who I did not expect to play with ( a good thing) and another woman was fun. My wife had suitors too. Once again, whatever I think is going to happen is not what happens.

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]