Doubt about the existance of the Gräfenberg Spot

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

I saw doctor Ruth Westheimer on TV this morning. She had many things to say, including things that would seem disappointing to swingers, but what stands out for me is her statement that there is no such thing as a G-Spot. So ladies (I really, really do not want you men to jump in-line in front of the women with your misinformed speculations and amateur opinions), does your experience tell you that you have a G-Spot?

[lcmim 1,082]

The question is not IF it is but WHAT it is.

 

I have heard the argument credibly made that it is the back end of the same nerve bundle that serves the clitoris and not something that stands by itself.

If that is the case then saying it does not exist as a unique feature would be correct.

 

We all know that we can get a desirable response so there is clearly SOMETHING there.

[adamgunn 1,460]

Pretty great myth. Many women I've been with have had the magic performed on their bodies . . .

[Guest]

Christ, what’s next. For all of these years I have been spreading my legs, sending men on snipe hunts.

[JandKinBoise 858]

My misinformed speculations and amateur opinion is that there is a slightly rough patch of skin under the clit, inside the vagina on many women. Many of those women enjoy having this spot massaged. Possibly Dr. Ruth's vagina does not have this feature, who knows. Call it what you want. I called it the OH!spot before it was named the G spot.

[Guest]

Nonsense. Apparently Dr. Ruth didn't have an anatomy book with pictures when she studied medicine. And she clearly has never had an orgasm from penetration. The 'Spot' is actually two lobes of nerve bundles, connected to the bundle around the clitoris that extend to the surface of the vagina. If you put your own fingers up inside, you will feel them. My husband can also put two fingers up in me and in a circular motion, rub across the spot and whoooom I cum without having any control over it. They are smoother than the folds and in my case, they feel a little puffy. They lie just posterior to the clitoris. I know that the internal anatomy of the vagina may differ in women in that the lobes may not be so exposed or covered with more flesh.

 

When my husband and I fuck, we sometimes play a game of self control and position. I have him fuck into me at a steady pace and I shift my hips to get his cock running up into and across the 'spot'. I rub or vibrate around my clit, and it is a race to see which causes the orgasm. I can feel and tell the difference. When I am screwing a lover, I let them fuck into me how they like, and when I'm wanting to cum, I just shift my hips and get their cock running across the spot, and I cum. I can basically control when I orgasm from penetration by positioning during intercourse. I know exactly where the spot is located.

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

Part of the problem is that for some women this 'spot' is like setting off fireworks but others it does nothing for them. I've seen both types of women and everything in between. Personally I would rather believe in the possible existence of the G spot and unicorns. The possibility of both make the world a better place.

[padoc 1,703]

Dr Ruth is a sexual icon but I was surprised to know she was even still alive. She's gotta be 85-95 right? Im guessing she's not up on the latest medical literature. Fullswap's's description coincides with what Mrs Doc has been told by her gyno. The location and feel of Mrs Doc's g-spot is very similar. Once I figured out where it was and how to make it work she turned into an orgasm machine. If I get just the right angle, she'll squirt too. I was sexually active for more than 30 years before I discovered the g-spot was an actual thing! Wish I knew then what I know now.

[couplers 4,648]

Tell Dr. Ruth that I doubt the existence of the umlaut. Anyway, it feels goood to have my vagina stimulated anywhere, but a certain area feels better than the others.

[Emt 91]

The G-spot is actually the joining of the legs and bulbs of the clitoris internally inside the vagina. So yes, the g-spot is more a part of the clitoral anatomy as opposed to a separate part. I have an anatomically correct to scale model of the clit at my office....blows minds!

 

By the way, for all the tough talkers...might not want to piss Dr. Ruth off...she was once an Israeli sniper.

[padoc 1,703]

Hard to believe but true. You'd never guess to look at him but the Brits and the Arabs were scared shitless of Menachem Begin in the 30's and 40's as well.

[Emt 91]

Hard to believe but true. You'd never guess to look at him but the Brits and the Arabs were scared shitless of Menachem Begin in the 30's and 40's as well.

 

Another interesting tid bit... when her husband was once asked about their sex life he said "the shoemaker's children have no shoes." Which can be interpreted as meaning they did not have a very good sex life even though she was a pro in the area. I can personally attest to that being true at several points in my marriage. Just because we work with it every day doesn't mean we're doing it every day.

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

Things were so much easier 75 years ago when women didn't have orgasms...

[Numex 2,420]

.. when her husband was once asked about their sex life he said "the shoemaker's children have no shoes." Which can be interpreted as meaning they did not have a very good sex life even though she was a pro in the area..

Yeah, but perhaps she was getting it elsewhere, a hotwife. It would explain why she knew so much.