Experiences cuckolding

[gaga2018 27]

Hello everyone! I was wondering if you can tell me your experiences as a cuck: what did you like and not; best moments etc.

I hope you are all ok!

[adamgunn 1,460]

Get yourself on ourhotwives.org - there's a section for cucks

[Erik13 157]

I'm still confused on where the line is drawn between cuckholding and hotwifing...

[eruditesdw 29]

Get yourself on ourhotwives.org - there's a section for cucks

I went to the site. For some reason I couldn't answer the question they ask. It started with a "B".... So they wouldn't let me register.

[Guest]

Ah, as far as I am concerned...there is no connection between being a hot wife and cuckolding. In fact having a threesome doesn't make you a hot wife. Cuckolding is all about humiliating your husband as if he is inadequate. Because a husband enjoys watching his wife have sex, it doesn't make him a cuck.

[adamgunn 1,460]

Here's a blog post I wrote about the term 'cuckold'. It appears on the Noveltrove site. Hope this helps you.

 

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Are you a cuckold? And do you care?

 

In this world, cuckold is usually considered to be a derogatory term. Technically, any husband who's wife sleeps with other men is a cuckold, and society automatically condemns him. (Of course, any wife who sleeps with other men is a ‘slut’ and is condemned, but that’s another blog!) In actuality, there are three different connotations of the word ‘cuckold.’ If your wife is sleeping around, one of them fits you.

 

The first usage is ‘standard’ and has a historical context behind it. The term was invented in the middle of the eleventh century and comes from ‘cuckoo’ - that bird has the habit of using other bird’s nest to lay their eggs. It usually meant a man who’s wife was having adulterous affairs with one or more other men. This was a big deal well into the nineteenth century, because a wife was a man’s property. There are plenty of court cases where men sued other men for improper usage of their goods. Of course if they brought the suit to court the husband usually got snickered at. This definition continues into modern time to describe a man who’s spouse is cheating on him without his knowledge or agreement.

 

Now, of course, girls are much more equal than they used to be, and I suspect that many more married women are sharing themselves than used to be before the women’s liberation movement and the invention of effective birth control. (I, for one, applaud the revolution!) In the modern context, the term ‘cuckold’ has evolved.

 

The second definition is used for some men who have the fetish of their wives having sex outside the marriage and humiliating them in the process. The affront can start with simple embarrassment of the man, (“I slept with Jake today, what are you going to do about it?") to the wife forcing him to watch as she screws someone. She might tell him about the large size of the man who’s screwing him, comparing it to his tiny penis. She might make him wear a cock cage so that he isn’t allowed to orgasm except when she’s willing. Often, he tends to think of himself as a sissy. While this isn’t my cup of tea, if it makes you happy, who am I to judge?

 

Finally, there’s the ‘modern’ definition. Today there are many couples who engage in swinging and/or hotwifeing. With her husband’s permission and (sometimes) participation, a wife is promiscuous. In these situations, the man is technically a cuckold. But since he doesn’t view his wife as ‘property’, he isn’t upset or threatened by her infidelity. In fact he often encourages it to both their pleasure.

 

Are you a cuckold? If so, which kind?

[adamgunn 1,460]

the correct answer to the ourhotwive.org registration question is 'ull'. The whole word is 'bull' but they've filled in the b for you. Yeah, a little weird.

[gaga2018 27]

Thanks for sharing it. Well I'm between the second definition and the modern one

[Eddiem 139]

Hello everyone! I was wondering if you can tell me your experiences as a cuck: what did you like and not; best moments etc.

I hope you are all ok!

Not sure if I can be called a cuck but in my first MFM (wife) my friend and her connected at a different level. He is someone normally she would not be attracted to but in the heat of the moment with wine well they connected sexually in a way that left me on the outside as they fucked. It was like watching a life erotic film that only included me when he looked for permission to enter her from me and her, we nodded and then as he was thrusting he looked again to us if it was ok and where to cum. She told him inside and I was like ok...

 

We ended up getting together again about a year later. This time he played the role of cuck with her, I had a feelng he was planning his moves months ahead. We are not into humiliation but he did cross the border one night. Long story short we were playing and I went down to get a couple more drinks for us. I came up and he was pinning her arms over her head and telling her how much she wanted to fuck him over me. That I did not like... but was frozen in place. As he thrusted he said things like "yeah now I am gonna cum inside you, put my seed in you.." and really talking to her dirty. As he was about to cum, she told him "no..." he kept thrusting, talking dirty and he told her how he was going to cum in her. He moved to the end of the bed so I could see his cock in her... she says "no stop"... and then she looks at him and says.."yes fuck me, put your seed deep in me.." and bam. They finished and he looks at her and says.."clean it up" and grabs her head and lets her suck his cock. She is swallowing his semen like ice cream. Thanks... will I do that again ? No

[Numex 2,420]

We started our journey into nonmonogamy by us discussing our exes and who/what we liked. I told her that if she wanted, she could screw the ones who she liked again, and she did, one nearby and another in a different state. It started with "dates" first, to make sure everyone was good going ahead with it. It was easy for both of them and especially for me because they had fucked before. So I guess that made me a cuckold.

 

We onto MFMs to increase her fun and mine, and it was good for a year or so, but now we only play with a closed group of couples.