New. Bi-male. Hoping I found the right site....

[NewAndWilling 22]

Hey all!

 

I'm a Bi-male that has recently comes to terms with my newfound sexuality.

 

I've known for a while now that I have wanted to find a couple to share my passions with. I am hoping this isn't a fake site, for I have wanted to have a discussion about my fetishes, and sexuality for quite some time.

 

I'm very open and have many fetishes which I've been embarrassed about until now up to and including:

 

Swinging, Orgies, Pegging, Anal, Squirting, and Watersports...

 

Please tell me I'm not the only one. Hoping to find some others on this site to discuss my sexuality with, and possibly finding some people to be compatible with.

 

Thanks!

 

-Coywolf

[bbarnsworth 2,640]

This most emphatically isn't a fake site. Lots of the posters here have been here for years and are quite willing to provide feedback for someone's questions. You will find a welcoming community here.

 

You aren't the only one. Most people have at least mild fetishes of one sort or another, whether fully recognized as such or not. There's absolutely nothing wrong with any sort of fetish so long as (a) anyone who plays along is agreeable and (b) it isn't something that overwhelms and otherwise healthy lifestyle. I, for example, love stockings/thigh highs/pantyhose. Can't get enough of them. But, I don't have to have my lovers wearing them in order for me to have a great time sexually.

 

It sounds as though you are single. A single male in the lifestyle can find what they want, but it may take some time. The most common form of swinging is couple to couple, but a couple inviting a single male into their bed is also fairly common. Finding a couple with a bi male may be more challenging. Possible, yes, but a bit more challenging. You're clear about what you want. Make a profile on swinglifestyle.com. Be clear about what you want, do some searches to see if you can find a couple you like, and...pay for membership. Couples that see you have paid will more likely consider you to be legit. What's a few bucks if you're getting to fulfill your passions?

[NewAndWilling 22]

This most emphatically isn't a fake site. Lots of the posters here have been here for years and are quite willing to provide feedback for someone's questions. You will find a welcoming community here.

 

You aren't the only one. Most people have at least mild fetishes of one sort or another, whether fully recognized as such or not. There's absolutely nothing wrong with any sort of fetish so long as (a) anyone who plays along is agreeable and (b) it isn't something that overwhelms and otherwise healthy lifestyle. I, for example, love stockings/thigh highs/pantyhose. Can't get enough of them. But, I don't have to have my lovers wearing them in order for me to have a great time sexually.

 

It sounds as though you are single. A single male in the lifestyle can find what they want, but it may take some time. The most common form of swinging is couple to couple, but a couple inviting a single male into their bed is also fairly common. Finding a couple with a bi male may be more challenging. Possible, yes, but a bit more challenging. You're clear about what you want. Make a profile on swinglifestyle.com. Be clear about what you want, do some searches to see if you can find a couple you like, and...pay for membership. Couples that see you have paid will more likely consider you to be legit. What's a few bucks if you're getting to fulfill your passions?

 

Thanks, I appreciate the reply!!

 

But, the fact that this site wont allow me to upload photos, or change my profile really makes me feel its a scam.

 

Also. I will never pay a membership fee unless I know a site is legit. Which neither the site you provided, or this one, has done.

 

This makes it very hard to trust any of these resources. All I want to do is find a forum that I will be welcomed in, without commercialization. Apparently I'm still unable to do so.

[ViSexual 1,008]

I'm not sure about uploading photos but it might be something to do with how long you've been a member. Julie, the sites webmistress, has never approached me about paying and I'm not sure there is a pay account feature here. If you check, I've been here a very long time. I can understand your apprehensions and, yes, there are a lot of scam sites but this one isn't.

 

Oh, and, check out the thread for bisexuals.

 

Welcome, relax and enjoy your visits and feel free to ask anything.

[padoc 1,703]

This isn't a swinging site per se. Look for swinger sites or bi sexual sites or forums that fit your particular needs. Of course you'll have to pay.

[Rckyb88 16]

I completely agree with the majority here once you accept that this lifestyle is what your looking for when the burdens of hiding and or repressing the fetishes and sexual desires are lifted you have the chance to be yourself and explore sex and be experimental and do things for the first time. Find out what you like. After I started exploring I found that I like receiving anal, giving head, deep-throating and swallowing a load of cum, rimming, and crossdressing.

[TwoFunTexans 103]

This is more of an informational site, not really a hook up site so there's less need for photos.

[Bluespruce1 706]

We are both bisexual and have enjoyed our first few weeks here - no judgements and just lots of sharing of thoughts and experiences. My husband found his bi side after about a year in the lifestyle. As we got comfortable with each other and our partners, the exploration was natural. He started by guiding other men’s cocks into me or by giving them oral while they were fucking me. We have a submissive friend who enjoys being fucked by him and I definitely like to watch. I also have a sort of small penis fetish and enjoy pegging smaller guys. We both frequent a popular nude beach enjoy looking at the men there as much as the couples and single ladies. Hope you find what you are looking for here.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

Thanks, I appreciate the reply!!

 

But, the fact that this site wont allow me to upload photos, or change my profile really makes me feel its a scam.

 

Also. I will never pay a membership fee unless I know a site is legit. Which neither the site you provided, or this one, has done.

 

This makes it very hard to trust any of these resources. All I want to do is find a forum that I will be welcomed in, without commercialisation. Apparently I'm still unable to do so.

You will be able to upload pictures after you have made a certain minimum number of posts. This mechanism was established to encourage people to get into conversations. As other people have already observed, Swingersboard is not designed to be a facility for making hookups. It is the very best place on the World Wide Web for learning about swing. Bisexual people are just as welcome as anybody. There is no place were you will do better.

[Tabota 40]

Personally, I don't see a lot of fetish activities at swinger events. Pegging and watersports, for sure. You might find more interaction in the fetish community. Check out fetlife, that might yield more play dates for you.

[Bluespruce1 706]

We party with a group that is totally into pegging the guys. We have different sizes dildos to please everyone and all the ladies wear strap-on. We like to do one guy at a time with everyone watching. Love to watch their leaky cocks while we get them off. They also go nuts when we suck suck or jerk them off while they are getting fucked. It’s always fun watching their cocks explode from the p-spot stimulation. The ladies love watching the willing boys who will fuck each other as well.

[Curiousaf 19]

Site seems legit. Have same curiosities

[NewAndWilling 22]

Thank you everyone. I do now see this is a great site for information. I will check around and try to give/get some advice on the site.

 

It's been hard for me to accept my crazy sexuality recently, and it is very comforting know I can talk about it somewhere without judgement!

[lovefest04 700]

This is certainly a real site. Others have clarified that.

 

It will help you as well to have a SLS profile that can be found. I searched under your name and get 0 hits. Could be something I'm doing wrong.

[cplnuswing 4,713]

Thanks, I appreciate the reply!!

 

But, the fact that this site wont allow me to upload photos, or change my profile really makes me feel its a scam.

 

Also. I will never pay a membership fee unless I know a site is legit. Which neither the site you provided, or this one, has done.

 

This makes it very hard to trust any of these resources. All I want to do is find a forum that I will be welcomed in, without commercialization. Apparently I'm still unable to do so.

 

This site is most certainly legit, there are many many great people here willing to share their thoughts and advice. We also welcome all, no matter their experience level, varied interests, etc.

 

As far as uploading photos, while photos are a nice icing on the cake here, we aren't a photo site so it takes a little bit to earn that privilege and to keep the spam down.

 

Not sure what you mean about not changing your profile. Other than the user name, which can't be changed on a whim since it would make the discussions here nearly impossible to follow, you can change anything you like.

 

As far as commercialization, we'e about as free as you can get. Yes, there are ads here because a site this large and with our traffic is not free to run like some $0.99/month personal blog hosting plan.

 

SLS is totally legit, and if you are serious about getting into swinging, I would highly recommend you look into that. They (and the other big ones like SDC, AFF, Swingtowns, etc.) do have free trials, with limited functionality, because, well, it's free and it costs a lot to run those sites too.

 

I think you have found what you're looking for. Just spend some time here and you'll see what we're all about