NYC Play Parties - where are the older couples?

[Jolivia 15]

Been to several. While still looking pretty good (50,42) and able to keep up ;-) looking for venues with couples more our age vs the millennials that tend to predominate the nyc/Brooklyn scene.

[njbm 2,901]

We go to private house or hotel parties with people that we’ve met on SLS over time. One couple leads to another. We prefer to know our playmates and do not really want to go to clubs open to everybody.