What is considered HWP?

[MD0704BS 24]

I’m just curious on what the general though is on what H/W/P on average would be. Is there a weight limit or is it more of a look scale?

[Guest]

When you see HWP, it doesn't come with measurements. It's code that they think they are fit, sexy, and beautiful people. You can also see that they might label themselves sexy and hot. Their profile name might show they are self described. While it may not apply to all, think about it, if that's their lead, they have a very high opinion of themselves. Some do it to draw attention because they need it, to live every day, others do it because they think sex is attached to body shape...both will probably be shit in bed.

[adamgunn 1,460]

I believe that HWP is simply a synonym for "We're not obese." I've known many an HWP person who was quite fun between the sheets.

[padoc 1,703]

H/W/P is somewhat subjective with couples we've met. For us it means that we have some kind of shape (male=shoulders wider than waist, waist more narrow than hips, Hips smaller than shoulder. It also means a belly that doesn't have to be lifted and moved from 1 side to the other to see his dick.) Woman= shoulders that the form can be seen, boobs that are not overshadowed by belly rolls, hips that aren't wider than shoulders and thighs that can open sufficiently to accommodate a H/W/P male). We are just not sexually attracted to obese people and stating that we are, by our admittedly subjective standard, a H/W/P couple and look for the same seems far more kind than posting that we're not sexually interested in BBWs or in men who haven't actually seen their penis since college.

 

In response to Fullswap, we don't look at ourselves as "fit sexy and beautiful people" although truth be told, to my prejudiced eye, Mrs Doc IS very sexy and beautiful. We both work to stay reasonably fit and attractive by our personal definition and those are the kinds of couples we seek for playmates.

[Emt 91]

padoc said:

H/W/P is somewhat subjective with couples we've met. For us it means that we have some kind of shape (male=shoulders wider than waist, waist more narrow than hips, Hips smaller than shoulder. It also means a belly that doesn't have to be lifted and moved from 1 side to the other to see his dick.) Woman= shoulders that the form can be seen, boobs that are not overshadowed by belly rolls, hips that aren't wider than shoulders and thighs that can open sufficiently to accommodate a H/W/P male). We are just not sexually attracted to obese people and stating that we are, by our admittedly subjective standard, a H/W/P couple and look for the same seems far more kind than posting that we're not sexually interested in BBWs or in men who haven't actually seen their penis since college.

 

In response to Fullswap, we don't look at ourselves as "fit sexy and beautiful people" although truth be told, to my prejudiced eye, Mrs Doc IS very sexy and beautiful. We both work to stay reasonably fit and attractive by our personal definition and those are the kinds of couples we seek for playmates.

 

While some may feel differently, I greatly appreciate this level of detail and explanation. Although when googling it, it does give examples with size charts. The more I immerse myself in the culture of swinging the more confident I feel about us meeting other couples and not being so self-conscious about the fact that neither one of us has a 6 pack.

 

However, as I shared in another thread yesterday, my attraction and connection with another person has less to do with weight/looks and a hell of a lot more to do with whether or not we can have flowing and enjoyable dialogue and chemistry on that social level.

[PeterJ 948]

“to my prejudiced eye, Mrs Doc IS very sexy and beautiful.

 

Padoc, you have posted a couple of photos on the board of Mr. Doc and anyone who’s seen those images would totally agree with your assessment of her. She is indeed sexy and beautiful.

[couplers 4,640]

This is what I had from long ago and use as my target. I struggle, but have fortunately been able to stay at the lower end of the range for my height.

 

Male

Female

Height Ideal Body Weight

 

5' 0"

95 - 117 lbs. 5' 0"

90 - 110 lbs.

5' 1"

101 - 123 lbs. 5' 1"

95 - 116 lbs.

5' 2"

106 - 130 lbs. 5' 2"

99 - 121 lbs.

5' 3"

112 - 136 lbs. 5' 3"

104 - 127 lbs.

5' 4"

117 - 143 lbs. 5' 4"

108 - 132 lbs.

5' 5"

122 - 150 lbs. 5' 5"

113 - 138 lbs.

5' 6"

128 - 156 lbs. 5' 6"

117 - 143 lbs.

5' 7"

133 - 163 lbs. 5' 7"

122 - 149 lbs.

5' 8"

139 - 169 lbs. 5' 8"

126 - 154 lbs.

5' 9"

144 - 176 lbs. 5' 9"

131 - 160 lbs.

5' 10"

149 - 183 lbs. 5' 10"

135 - 165 lbs.

5' 11"

155 - 189 lbs. 5' 11"

140 - 171 lbs.

6' 0"

160 - 196 lbs. 6' 0"

144 - 176 lbs.

6' 1"

166 - 202 lbs. 6' 1"

149 - 182 lbs.

6' 2"

171 - 209 lbs. 6' 2"

153 - 187 lbs.

6' 3"

176 - 216 lbs. 6' 3"

158 - 193 lbs.

6' 4"

182 - 222 lbs. 6' 4"

162 - 198 lbs.

6' 5"

187 - 229 lbs. 6' 5"

167 - 204 lbs.

6' 6"

193 - 235 lbs. 6' 6"

171 - 209 lbs.

6' 7"

198 - 242 lbs. 6' 7"

176 - 215 lbs.

6' 8"

203 - 249 lbs. 6' 8"

180 - 220 lbs.

6' 9"

209 - 255 lbs. 6' 9"

185 - 226 lbs.

6' 10"

214 - 262 lbs. 6' 10"

189 - 231 lbs.

[Bluespruce1 706]

IMHO and experience - anyone who feels the need to state that in their profile has issues. We love being with people based on their sex drive. Barbie and Ken can fuck off - they usually turn out to be duds when the clothes come off!

[Fundamental Law 2,885]

Current photos are usually sufficient to assess body size and proportion. One of our "pet peeves" involves meeting a couple that bears no resemblance to their photos, irrespective of "HWP" claims. Everyone has access to a camera, uploads are easy, and the images can certainly be anonymized. There is difference between putting one's best {your body part here} forward with good lighting and dress, and continuing to feature photos that are 10 years old and 50# lighter. We'll take truth-in-advertising for $1000, Alex...

[Ozzie+Harriet 84]

My (ozzie) idea of height weight proportionate is pretty much a size 4-6 max, depending on height.

[Napoleon 230]

For me women in the 120 to 130 lbs range, 5 feet 3 inches to 5 feet 7 inches, firm to athletic body.

 

That's HWP to me.

[HotEllie 87]

This is what I had from long ago and use as my target. I struggle, but have fortunately been able to stay at the lower end of the range for my height.

 

Male

Female

Height Ideal Body Weight

 

5' 0"

95 - 117 lbs. 5' 0"

90 - 110 lbs.

5' 1"

101 - 123 lbs. 5' 1"

95 - 116 lbs.

5' 2"

106 - 130 lbs. 5' 2"

99 - 121 lbs.

5' 3"

112 - 136 lbs. 5' 3"

104 - 127 lbs.

5' 4"

117 - 143 lbs. 5' 4"

108 - 132 lbs.

5' 5"

122 - 150 lbs. 5' 5"

113 - 138 lbs.

5' 6"

128 - 156 lbs. 5' 6"

117 - 143 lbs.

5' 7"

133 - 163 lbs. 5' 7"

122 - 149 lbs.

5' 8"

139 - 169 lbs. 5' 8"

126 - 154 lbs.

5' 9"

144 - 176 lbs. 5' 9"

131 - 160 lbs.

5' 10"

149 - 183 lbs. 5' 10"

135 - 165 lbs.

5' 11"

155 - 189 lbs. 5' 11"

140 - 171 lbs.

6' 0"

160 - 196 lbs. 6' 0"

144 - 176 lbs.

6' 1"

166 - 202 lbs. 6' 1"

149 - 182 lbs.

6' 2"

171 - 209 lbs. 6' 2"

153 - 187 lbs.

6' 3"

176 - 216 lbs. 6' 3"

158 - 193 lbs.

6' 4"

182 - 222 lbs. 6' 4"

162 - 198 lbs.

6' 5"

187 - 229 lbs. 6' 5"

167 - 204 lbs.

6' 6"

193 - 235 lbs. 6' 6"

171 - 209 lbs.

6' 7"

198 - 242 lbs. 6' 7"

176 - 215 lbs.

6' 8"

203 - 249 lbs. 6' 8"

180 - 220 lbs.

6' 9"

209 - 255 lbs. 6' 9"

185 - 226 lbs.

6' 10"

214 - 262 lbs. 6' 10"

189 - 231 lbs.

 

That is an interesting chart. Based on it, I still need to drop about 15 pounds (and I agree). For men, it does not seem to take muscular physiques with low body fat into account.

[enhancer 1,585]

We don’t find anything arrogant about people that list HWP on their profile at all! Everyone has their own tastes when it comes to body types and that is their right. If they are not physically attracted to heavier people then why would they want to play with them? If they put the time into staying healthy why can’t they want the same from the people they are going to be playing with?

 

On our profiles we do put that we are looking for HWP men and women that are on the curvy side of things, because that is what we are and that is what we are attracted too. Not gym buff bodies or skinny model type women. If it offends people so be it, we are not in the lifestyle to fuck everything that moves, maybe they are, but we are not.

[ToeDippers 83]

HWP is in the eye of the beholder. I am thinking plenty of people who consider themselves as fit aren’t perfect when the clothes come off.

[njbm 2,871]

I know it when I see it. I can afford to drop 20 lbs. I would say I am overweight, but not obese. I can play with an overweight person, but obese tips the scale, so to speak.

[PSULioness 847]

We don’t look at ads and had to Google HWP.

 

I don’t know if I am and those charts you posted are crazy.

 

I have a question, do both people have to be HWP? “The Perfect Couple”. We have friends where one might have a perfect body and one is a little overweight. I have friends that are so skinny that I hate them. I am betting most men would say they are HWP, they’re not! They are skinny (bitches lol).

 

I have friends that are a little big and the husbands are what I consider hot. Who decides if they pass the test? I also have a friend who has a body I literally wish I had, her boyfriend is overweight, someone I would say I am not physically attracted to. You know what, he’s a sweetie. He joined in at a party we were at. Talking about taking one for the team, and I’ll say don’t take a book by its cover. I can also say his weight was not an issue. He was fun and I see what my friend enjoys.

[njbm 2,871]

PSULioness said:

We don’t look at ads and had to Google HWP.

 

I don’t know if I am and those charts you posted are crazy.

 

I have a question, do both people have to be HWP? “The Perfect Couple”. We have friends where one might have a perfect body and one is a little overweight. I have friends that are so skinny that I hate them. I am betting most men would say they are HWP, they’re not! They are skinny (bitches lol).

 

I have friends that are a little big and the husbands are what I consider hot. Who decides if they pass the test? I also have a friend who has a body I literally wish I had, her boyfriend is overweight, someone I would say I am not physically attracted to. You know what, he’s a sweetie. He joined in at a party we were at. Talking about taking one for the team, and I’ll say don’t take a book by its cover. I can also say his weight was not an issue. He was fun and I see what my friend enjoys.

 

You made a few great points. The four way match is tough if one partner is attractive and the other is not. Also, some people may be overweight or otherwise physically not stellar, but they are great sexual partners. I refer older posters to Revenge of the Nerds when the masked nerd did Betty.

[PSULioness 847]

You made a few great points. The four way match is tough if one partner is attractive and the other is not. Also, some people may be overweight or otherwise physically not stellar, but they are great sexual partners. I refer older posters to Revenge of the Nerds when the masked nerd did Betty.

 

Most of our play consists of more than four people (not totally true). The experience I was referring to was at a house party. At these parties I get to act on my bi side something I still laugh about when I write it. In my past life I don’t think I would have been attracted to the big guy, then again I wouldn’t have been attracted sexually to her either. Even telling this event I am ashamed at my bias against him for no reason other than physical size.

We have an unspoken rule at our get togethers, anyone can say No. I didn’t and I am happy I didn’t. Not only for the good sex. He is such a great guy.

[couplers 4,640]

We don’t look at ads and had to Google HWP.

I don’t know if I am and those charts you posted are crazy...

Why do you think that the charts are crazy? I'm 5' 10" and keep my weight below 140 pounds, which I think isn't that low. I do it for myself; if I was trying to be attractive in the traditional sense, I'd put on a few pounds to grow my tits and bum.

[PSULioness 847]

Why do you think that the charts are crazy? I'm 5' 10" and keep my weight below 140 pounds, which I think isn't that low. I do it for myself; if I was trying to be attractive in the traditional sense, I'd put on a few pounds to grow my tits and bum.

 

Well I hate you lol. Just kidding. I fall into the guidelines too because my boobs. If I was larger it would put me outside. My point is a guy could me built athletic and would be considered overweight and a girl can be big on top and boom she’s off the chart. I am hippy but thin. Also I have a flat butt.

[Ozzie+Harriet 84]

Well I hate you lol. Just kidding. I fall into the guidelines too because my boobs. If I was larger it would put me outside. My point is a guy could me built athletic and would be considered overweight and a girl can be big on top and boom she’s off the chart. I am hippy but thin. Also I have a flat butt.

 

That's partially true. Guys who are very muscular will be considered overweight by those charts. However, for large boobs vs small boobs on women, the difference is not so much (at least not the boobs themselves). Going from a C cup to a D cup with an implant, for example, adds a total of about 2 lbs and the saline in an implant is more dense than the fatty tissue in a breast, so you can use that as an approximation. You could get a ballpark estimate for the weight difference to cup size difference from that if a change in cup size adds 2 lbs.

[JessicaJamison 861]

For me it means the female shape is an hourglass.  I consider myself HWP but I got boobs and a booty but I am still skinny in the middle.