Are we the appetizers?

[njbm 2,881]

We are going to the house party of lifestyle friends. We know them well, but never played. They asked us if we want to arrive an hour before the party to “ see their house.” I think they want to do us before the party. Am I off base? It’s ok with us if they do want to play. Thoughts? I will report back with the answer.

[adamgunn 1,460]

You many be right, but I doubt it.

 

I'll suggest that perhaps since they know you are 'LifeStyle Virgins' the hosts simply want to ensure you'll be comfortable with the surroundings, that you'll be able to greet people one-on-one as they get there. If you came after most everyone was already there, you might get pounced on and it could be a bit of a shock.

[padoc 1,703]

They might but if so, I'd think that's a compliment. On the other hand, there are a lot of last minute details to finish before a party and generally little time to play before the rest of the guests arrive. Maybe they really DO want to show you around to make you familiar with the venue and to describe some of the couples attending. If that's the case then they're being VERY considerate of a new guest and are trying to see to your comfort. We have friends who throw wonderful parties and they often ask us to arrive 45 to 60 minutes before the start to answer the door and to welcome early arriving while the hosts shower and get dressed for the party. I'll be curious to find out which it turns out to be.

[njbm 2,881]

You many be right, but I doubt it.

 

I'll suggest that perhaps since they know you are 'LifeStyle Virgins' the hosts simply want to ensure you'll be comfortable with the surroundings, that you'll be able to greet people one-on-one as they get there. If you came after most everyone was already there, you might get pounced on and it could be a bit of a shock.

 

Maybe I stated it inartfully, but we’ve played with four of the six couples at the party. But not the hosts and not one couple from out of state. We have 32 certs on SLS. It’s not our first rodeo.

[Emt 91]

Personally, I'd just go and find out. On one hand you might just get a tour of a house. On the other, you might have sex. Is either one going to be disappointing if it happens?

[the Nomads 78]

It could be a new thing like Disney’s Magic Hours where you can get in early. I wonder how Fast Pass would work?

 

- Mr. Nomad

[njbm 2,881]

We were not the appetizers. A few other couples were staying at the hosts’ home, so we got a legit tour of a remarkable home. The husband’s shop was industrial level. He has a car lift in his garage. He holds many patents. Wow!

 

Back to the party, we swapped with a couple who were major league all stars. I, the husband, recuperated and went on to have fun in my first FFM, while my wife had more fun with another guy. We are on a winning streak with house parties. We knew most of the attendees, played with a couple we did not know. Fun!

[Emt 91]

We were not the appetizers. A few other couples were staying at the hosts’ home, so we got a legit tour of a remarkable home. The husband’s shop was industrial level. He has a car lift in his garage. He holds many patents. Wow!

 

Back to the party, we swapped with a couple who were major league all stars. I, the husband, recuperated and went on to have fun in my first FFM, while my wife had more fun with another guy. We are on a winning streak with house parties. We knew most of the attendees, played with a couple we did not know. Fun!

 

See that...cool house tour and great sex. Win:win!

 

Just curious but what made them "major league all stars" when it came to technique and the experience?

 

Glad it worked out well for you.

[njbm 2,881]

The woman and I just clicked. We both had some patented moves that got us both going. She was responsive, which makes me feel like I know what I’m doing. I came faster than I’d like, but a little tough to totally control. The husband is Tantric oriented and he had a slow session which my wife enjoyed. We got a prompt thank you, let’s do it again note from them. We are generally better the second time with people, we learned what they like to some degree.

[Emt 91]

The woman and I just clicked. We both had some patented moves that got us both going. She was responsive, which makes me feel like I know what I’m doing. I came faster than I’d like, but a little tough to totally control. The husband is Tantric oriented and he had a slow session which my wife enjoyed. We got a prompt thank you, let’s do it again note from them. We are generally better the second time with people, we learned what they like to some degree.

 

Patented moves...I like it!

 

That makes a lot of sense about the second time. Thanks for sharing!

[adamgunn 1,460]

Glad you had a great time.

 

One of the takeaways should be that the OP was nervous about something, discussed it with us. Then he and his wife went, found the nervousness they had was unwarranted.

 

At least 75% of the time, the "Just go and enjoy yourself" advice is the best.

[Guest]

Beats the hell out of being the left-overs.

[njbm 2,881]

Glad you had a great time.

 

One of the takeaways should be that the OP was nervous about something, discussed it with us. Then he and his wife went, found the nervousness they had was unwarranted.

 

At least 75% of the time, the "Just go and enjoy yourself" advice is the best.

 

Our saying is “Whatever we think is going to happen is not what happens.”

[couplers 4,656]

Patented moves...I like it!

 

Just be ready when the royalty demands arrive.

[couplers 4,656]

Beats the hell out of being the left-overs.

I've been the leftovers and enjoyed it several times over.

[njbm 2,881]

A wife wanted to turn on her husband. So she got naked and wrapped herself in Saran Wrap. When her husband opened the door, he said: “ Leftovers again?”

[Numex 2,420]

A wife wanted to turn on her husband. So she got naked and wrapped herself in Saran Wrap. When her husband opened the door, he said: “ Leftovers again?”

I've come home to leftovers, but I don't mind, either kind.