Supplements and cum volume...

[udsarge 119]

I know that some guys are concerned about the size of their member being adequate for potential swinging partners. Are there many guys out there that are not necessarily concerned about the size of their manhood, but instead are concerned about a smaller "load"? Does amount you are able to cum matter when you play? If it does, do you try to increase the amount you are able to produce by using some sort of supplement? Does it matter to swingers how much a play partner can cum?

[njbm 2,901]

I don’t think that anyone is measuring their partner’s volume of ejaculate. It varies from time to time.

[Billygoat 445]

As with most things in life circumstances and being in the moment each individual has likes and dislikes and exceptions to each. Like art it is all in the mind of the person and that moment. There is no hard and fast rule. Some look in general look at a male’e Ejactulaion as the enivitable out come, the finality of actions in play, some as a reward of their efforts. Sometimes there is excitement, pleasure in receiving, seeing, feeling even taste. It can be messy.....something that needs to be cleaned up. Some enjoy seeing, feeling, tasting or playing with the result. There are benefits of a little as often as there is producing a lot. Taste, ability, confidence ability to give pleasure and receive tend to be more important. Mostly, like art, you know what you like when you see....or feel it. And that will change from moment to moment....person to person....and current circumstances. Hardly worth worrying about......

[HornyToronto 51]

Where do you think the band names "10cc" and "Lovin' Spoonful" came from?

[Guest]

Where do you think the band names "10cc" and "Lovin' Spoonful" came from?

 

I think there is some urban legend going on here. I do think 10cc might be a sperm reference. But lovin spoonful, while it would be easy to make a heroin connection, it actually refers to a heaping spoonful of instant coffee that is 3 times stronger than a regular cup.

[EastInWest 1,524]

Not that I think anyone makes a big deal of this, but to the specific question about supplements, zinc, lecithin, and possibly fenugreek and celery seed are all supposed to help with volume. I can't narrow down what was what but I know I went through a phase where even my second and third load of the day could be scary large when I was taking supplements that included zinc and lecithin. Legend has it Peter North would eat several entire heads of celery before making movies for this reason.

 

None of it will matter if you aren't hydrating enough, though.

 

Yes, I've spent way too much time reading up on nutritional supplements. Even if you're not into "money shots", shooting a big load does just feel more satisfying and if there's something that works for you to get it, more power to you.

[Tabota 40]

The natural erection pills (Stiff Nights, Rhino, etc) have so many ingredients, it's hard to tell what is what. But they all have at least 1 ingredient that increases load size. Reports indicate that with faster turn around time, and the ability to cum several times in a short period of time, that increased loads start to diminish after a time. The store I worked in awhile back had a suppliment for the suppliments... just helped create more ejaculate. I have no idea what the name was, but it exists. Check your local adult store and ask about natureal suppliments. Never know!

[udsarge 119]

What I guess I am ultimately wondering? Does the amount a guy ejaculates matter to a partner’s enjoyment of a play session?

[padoc 1,704]

Loving Spoonful = "Summer in the City" and "Do You Believe In Magic".

[Emt 91]

What I guess I am ultimately wondering? Does the amount a guy ejaculates matter to a partner’s enjoyment of a play session?

 

I suppose if they're expecting a great money shot, pearl necklace, etc...essentially being showered with the ejaculate or if they especially enjoy the sensation of how the ejaculate feels inside their mouth/vag/ass during sex.

 

Personally, no, the amount I produce really doesn't matter. Lately she's been doing throat pies so the amount doesn't really matter.

 

Are you experiencing a struggle producing ejaculate?

[udsarge 119]

no problem producing, but always want "more"!!!

[Emt 91]

no problem producing, but always want "more"!!!

 

Ok, more...for what purpose/reason?

[Guest]

Personally I always prefer to produce as little cum as possible.

 

Years ago if I met a totally new women / couple then I'd actually masturbate at least once or twice before meeting them just so my balls were empty and I produced as little cum as possible, which:

 

A) Made me last longer when we did have sex as my balls were empty and not ready to explode.

 

B) The more vital part, because my balls were empty and I produced only a very small amount of sperm is drastically reduced the chance of unplanned pregnancies.

 

 

In fact I'd say the above tactic has saved me on various occasions, here are FOUR true stories from my life:

 

Work: Some years ago I began fucking a girl from my workplace, and honestly she really was NOT that good looking. She had a nice thin body, but despite been drug free her face basically looked like the face of a Meth addict or something. It wasn't my proudest moment but I was single so began fucking her on a friendly basis. This girl promised me she was on contraception but still I decided that meeting her with huge balls full of cum, or cumming inside of her simply wasn't worth the risk. Shortly after that friendship ended, however within only 2 or 3 weeks she actually met a new guy and in 1 single night fucking her that guy got her pregnant (which is what the girl had wanted all along) in fact her entire plan was to get pregnant to a random guy then spend the next 16 years sitting at home playing the role of a single mother whilst she collected single mothers benefits and child support from the poor man who had gotten her pregnant. If I'd have cum inside her then I'd have been paying for that child for nearly two decades.

 

Lesbian: Sometime later I met a different girl at work who made it clear that she was basically a lesbian and was more interested in women. However she was single and made it fairly obvious that she would like to fuck me. She was actually really sexy and despite looking like a "Tom Boy" she had a gorgeous thin body, extremely good looks and was very clean and fit. Whilst speaking alone at work she made it clear that if I asked she would open her legs for my dick whenever I liked. However at the time I was in a relationship, plus I didn't really want to get involved with anyone at work again so I decided to step back from the situation. Well about 3 months later she appeared at work with a little bump in her tummy and announced (along with her girlfriend of 5 years) that she was pregnant. In fact she had lied about been single and had a lesbian partner at home and was simply looking for some guy to get her pregnant. The guy who fell for the trap has not only paid child support ever since but has never even seen his child. In all respects she was simply trying to trick me into getting her pregnant.

 

Police: I once met a police women and began having sex with her, after using a condom 2 or 3 times she assured me she was sexually clean and on contraception so I began fucking her without a condom. But still I felt unsure so I always made sure to empty my balls before meeting her, and never to cum inside of her. Some months later she became frustrated and ended the friendship, on speaking with her it turned out that she was also a lesbian who had a long term girlfriend of about 8 years sitting at home and she hadn't been taking any contraception at all. She had become upset with our friendship simply because I never cum inside of her but would always pull out in good time. If I had come inside of her then I'd have been landed with a child I'd never see and a demand from a lesbian couple for child support payments.

 

Pregnancy Hunter: Some years later I met another girl and began dating her. This girl made it 100% clear that she was on contraception, she even showed me packets of "The Pill" in her bedside cabinet. However like always I was still unsure, I'd only just met her but for some reason she was very eager for me to cum inside of her. She kept making comments about how much she liked it when a guy cum in her pussy, that she found it to be sexy / romantic / hot and kept trying to urge me to cum inside of her. That friendship really didn't last long because I quickly found out that basically she wasn't on contraception at all, but in fact she had some kind of medical problem and couldn't have children. By all accounts she had spent nearly a decade with her ex boyfriend during which they spend several years trying for children and nothing happened and finally he left her because she couldn't have kids. From that point she had basically just gone around town telling guys she was 100% on contraception and then would let random guys shoot their loads into her hoping that one guy would hit the spot and get her pregnant, in some cases she was bare backing 2 or 3 guys a week hoping to get pregnant.

 

 

 

I have quickly learnt not to believe any women who tells me she is on contraception.

 

If I meet a new women (even if that women is part of a couple) then I make sure my balls are empty before meeting them, and make sure I don't cum inside of her, or even on her pussy.

[padoc 1,704]

Cliffy strikes again!!

[EastInWest 1,524]

Supposedly, a hallmark of erotica genuinely written by women is that it rarely mentions ejaculate. Male authors with female pen names new to the game tend to describe it and thereby alienate their female audience without understanding.

 

It's not that it's "bad", it's just that most women don't think about it and describing it throws them off.

 

Of course, as males, we're visual and we like what we like, and that's OK, too. Hydrate properly and eat your celery if that's what you're into. Some of the tips out there work. Just don't think you're doing it for her sake.

[padoc 1,704]

Mrs Doc doesn't care how much a partner cums, she's just happy that he(they) do. Volume is irrelevant unless a guy cums like a horse and doesn't warn her before a bj to completion. Eastinwest is correct.

[Mhc 17]

When I cum it's a lot. l'm told my ex would have to spit she said she couldn't take it all, when I shot inside her or other women you could see a lot pour out.

[Ozzie+Harriet 84]

Does amount you are able to cum matter when you play? If it does, do you try to increase the amount you are able to produce by using some sort of supplement? Does it matter to swingers how much a play partner can cum?

 

Not unless I'm going for a personal best and have my graduated cylinder on hand for a precise measurement. It's so irritating when I cum up a half a ml short only to see it there on Harriet's tits.

[Numex 2,459]

.. She was actually really sexy and despite looking like a "Tom Boy" she had a gorgeous thin body, extremely good looks and was very clean and fit. ..

 

Those women are the kind who really attract me. I dislike makeup, and in a world full of chubbies, a woman who takes care of herself is desirable for reasons beyond her looks.

[Tabota 40]

Mainstream porn produced for women (it's hard to find, but it's out there) rarely show the money shot. He usually comes inside, or off to the side, and there's rarely if ever a creampie. Sure, there are women out there that are looking for a load, but it seems to be a very low percentage.

 

As to 'fucking with empty balls' as a method of birth control.... are you nuts? (pun not intended!) Even if you start with 'empty', there are still sperm present, and it only takes one to get her pregnant. In a full load there are reportedly millions of sperm present. Any ejaculate, even pre-cum, has sperm present. Think again if you think you can't get someone pregnant because you jerked off twice before engaging in sex. Way to start/spread an urban myth.

[couplers 4,718]

What I guess I am ultimately wondering? Does the amount a guy ejaculates matter to a partner’s enjoyment of a play session?

 

It's part of the variety of sex that makes nonmonogamy so great. Yes, I really enjoy it when Red keeps pumping cum into me when he hasn't orgasmed in several days and he takes me first. But I also take great pleasure when hubby takes me after having cummed in Lora and Clair, he is struggling to orgasm, and I get the precious few last drops that he has left.

[1hotminute 72]

My only experience in cum size amount being an issue would be with other guys wanting to watch you cum a lot in or on their partner. I get it too, watching a guy squirt on or in your partner is super hot. Usually women I’ve been with aren’t too concerned with being covered in cum or if they like to swallow it they aren’t too concerned they get a huge mouthful. But I do feel inadequate myself as I don’t produce a lot of cum, nor does it squirt out like in porn. I do produce more if it’s a long sex session where I’m holding out a while. Also I’ve noticed when I’m taking Mucinex I produce more volume of cum as well. But still doesn’t shoot out just heavier load.