Our first club experience - your thoughts?

[TwoCuriousOnes 19]

I'm sure there are plenty of people who discussed this, but I couldn't find anything much on a quick search, so apologies in advance.

 

We went to our first (really second, but first time we went, we left very shortly after).

The experience this time was great, but the biggest issue was how excited I got once a couple walked in on us and watched us go at it.

We didn't swing that night but just the whole atmosphere and exhibition was such a huge turn on, I finished way too quickly.

Luckily, the wife got hers twice beforehand, but as soon as the other couple walked in, I had about a minute before finishing up lol.

 

I really feel like it's natural for something so new, but feel like maybe other people's stories or discussion might help.

 

We were able to take it slowly afterward and get me back up, but still wish my performance matched up with what we normally have at home.

 

Any words from you all?

[GMOFLEISURE 221]

Yes, part of the appeal of swinging or group sex is the openess and the satisfaction of ones exibitionist streak. The sharing component even where there is no actual swapping or contact.

[GoldCoCouple 4,068]

You WERE sharing by allowing others to watch. It's a variation of same room sex (the softest of all swinging, but swinging none the less). The rules and limits that you have are yours to set, but you've taken that first step down this path. Welcome to the club. Watching and being watched is WAY BETTER than the best porn.

[TwoCuriousOnes 19]

Thanks!

 

We have both been thinking about it non-stop and can't wait to go back.

 

Anybody else have the issue of the first time being too quick from all the new excitement of it? Or did I just fail miserably lol.

Glad I at least stuck around for a round 2.

[adamgunn 1,461]

Two, I have two questions: a) Did you enjoy it? b) Did your SO enjoy it?

 

If the answer is yes you certainly didn't 'fail miserably.' Sure, you'll get better at it.

[TwoCuriousOnes 19]

When you put it that way it was definitely a major success.

 

Just more curious if other guys here can relate to the first time being an accidental quickie lol.