Masturbating in front of your Significant Other

[findinganswers 369]

I think my hand is always in my pants at home and my wife always tells me to stop doing that. Recently, since we started swinging, my wife now will play with herself in front of me. I am pretty sure she always played with her toys when I wasn’t home. Now she plays in bed with me next to her. Before someone asks why I don’t help her I can tell you we have plenty of sex. I think I know when she wants me to jump in and when she is just wanting to finish by herself. Watching her with just her and her own hand is extremely exciting.

[adamgunn 1,460]

Yes, I've seen that with my wife.

 

Talk to yours, when she isn't masturbating. Find out what goes on in her head when she's doing it, what (if anything) she'd like from you. Then do that . . .

[Bluespruce1 706]

We routinely masturbate with or for each other - love it

[Chris&Suzanne 204]

we do it as well. I love to watch her.

[padoc 1,703]

Watching her masturbate is a HUGE turn on.

[ViSexual 1,008]

We made a couple of videos of the two of us having sex years ago. And, a year or so later, we decided to video ourselves masturbating when we were home alone and share them with each other. That was the first time I got to see my wife pleasuring herself without me present and I thought it was hot as hell. Now, honestly, when I made mine for her, it was sort of difficult to concentrate, knowing I was recording the act. LOL!

[Sawman 84]

Watching each other masturbate is highly recommended for many reasons. Remember The Joy Of Sex? Each of you enjoys it, you enjoy being watched, and it helps each of you understand your sexual response.

[Emt 91]

Personally, I masturbate about once a day. Sometimes I'll go a day or two without and then other times it'll be 3 times in a day and partner sex on top of that. Really depends on my drive. My wife and I are starting to focus more on her handjobs. However, we generally don't masturbate long in front of each other because we prefer performing on/with each other. Now when it comes to casual masturbation while watching tv or checking email...we've never done that in front of each other with any regularity. I have a really high sex drive so if she doesn't want to have sex, I'll wait until I can masturbate alone. But I have yet to turn her down so she's not really had the need to jill-off if we're both together.

 

I'll also use masturbation to intentionally improve the sexual experience so long as it's an hour or two away. I know my refractory period so I just time it right and then I last a LOT longer and have significantly more stamina to keep pursuing that 2nd ejaculation.

 

It will be interesting to see how the LS affects our masturbation habits.

[TricianMike 772]

The first time Mike saw me I think it was after we had sex and he was finished. I wasn’t ready to stop. He normally would know what to do. This one time I took out my toy from the nightstand. Not only did I cum it got Mike worked up to go again. Since that time I have done it many times and Mike has recorded it. I guess I get very excited. Mike enjoys watching me alone or with someone.

[Numex 2,420]

The only time my wife or I masturbate is when neither the other or any one else in our group is available. Thinking about it, I've never seen my wife masturbate to completion, only a little rubbing around until she gets started with me or someone.

[Guest]

I am in my 2nd marriage and freely masturbated in the first one as well as now. Neither husband masterbated(s) in front of me.

 

When I was dating while single between the two marriages, if a date didn’t get me off, I would masturbate to finish the job; some would watch in excitement, others took it as an insult and would leave the room. Single swinging, there have been times like when we bring a guy back to the room, that will masturbate in front of him and my husband to kind of get things started.