Nude massage, one step closure to swing!

[FunCplAtl 16]

we are new to this life style. My wife is shy but she wanted to try with other man, excited but same time she is very nervous too. So we are thinking to go for nude massage that will help my lady might be open with other man. Any suggestions? we are in atlanta ga, any good places for nude massage activities?

[Alura 2,774]

I gave my late wife a nude massage on our first date. We stayed together for thirty years.

 

Massages never last long enough.

[Emt 91]

we are new to this life style. My wife is shy but she wanted to try with other man, excited but same time she is very nervous too. So we are thinking to go for nude massage that will help my lady might be open with other man. Any suggestions? we are in atlanta ga, any good places for nude massage activities?

 

Nude massage...as in a professional massage?

[FunCplAtl 16]

May be professionally but main intention is open in front another man where he can touch her private parts

 

Well, the thing is if I say swing party then all her attention towards one thing about other man.. so trying to avoid awkward situations and going smoothly ?

[ViSexual 1,008]

When we first began we invited a couple over that we'd met through a swinger's meet and greet. We'd made, and shared with them before hand, that it was a no penetration meeting.

 

Well, after we'd all gotten naked and played a bit with each other's partners, we decided to draw straws and three of us give a nice nude massage to the winner. The winner happened to be the other gal. It was hot as hell to join her partner in turning her on. Now, I wouldn't exactly call it a massage though, it was more an exploration! Ha! Now my wife isn't bi and all she did was massage the gal's feet but just watching must have turned her on too. When we could take no more of that foreplay, my wife and I rushed to our bedroom and left that couple in the guest room where the play had taken place.

 

Maybe you could find another, newbie, couple in your same stage of exploring swinging to help each other out?

[FunCplAtl 16]

When we first began we invited a couple over that we'd met through a swinger's meet and greet. We'd made, and shared with them before hand, that it was a no penetration meeting.

 

Well, after we'd all gotten naked and played a bit with each other's partners, we decided to draw straws and three of us give a nice nude massage to the winner. The winner happened to be the other gal. It was hot as hell to join her partner in turning her on. Now, I wouldn't exactly call it a massage though, it was more an exploration! Ha! Now my wife isn't bi and all she did was massage the gal's feet but just watching must have turned her on too. When we could take no more of that foreplay, my wife and I rushed to our bedroom and left that couple in the guest room where the play had taken place.

 

Maybe you could find another, newbie, couple in your same stage of exploring swinging to help each other out?

 

Thanks for your reply. We are in always a dilemma that with whom we should start either known couple or unknowns. I read in another thread that do not engage with closed or freiends couples, its risky. So we will try to visit greet & meet party and lets where it goes..

[lnw 145]

Thanks for your reply. We are in always a dilemma that with whom we should start either known couple or unknowns. I read in another thread that do not engage with closed or freiends couples, its risky. So we will try to visit greet & meet party and lets where it goes..

 

Take the advice on not meeting with friends or others you already know closely. While it may seem easier, think of what could go wrong if the friendship turns south and the other party decided to make it ugly. Simply not worth it.

 

We would advise going to a club or meet and greet. Both should be a no pressure environment. Regardless, when you do meet a likable couple, be up front that you are new and also what your comfort zones/boundaries are. You will find some couples will not want to mix it up with newbies (too much opportunity for drama from newbies with the unknown territory they are about to move into). And there may be some couples that "hear" your limits but will decide to try to push further. Watch for that as well. Feel free to call for a time out or "stop" if things get to intense.

 

We went slow and take incremental steps when it felt right for us.

[Bluespruce1 706]

One of our first experiences involved massage with a neighbor. He came over often, sometimes alone or with his girlfriend, and we were all very close friends. We enjoyed having drinks and soaking in the hot tub. Clothes would usually come off and it was no big deal. This time I asked if the boys would give me.a massage and of course they were all in. We put a towel on the bed and I laid on my back while they picked me down and ran their hands all over me. My husband was standing at my head and rubbing my tits. His hrdcock was by my mouth so I started sucking him off. My neighbor was rubbing my thighs so I raised my knees and opened my legs so he could see my pussy. He took my hint and started inserting fingers and rubbing my clit. He lowered his face and gave my some amazing oral. We gave him the "thumbs up" and I felt his big cock sliding inside me. He only lasted a few strokes before he put a nice load on me. He felt amazing so I guided his shaft back inside me so I could cum as well. Hope you have the same experience.

[FunCplAtl 16]

One of our first experiences involved massage with a neighbor. He came over often, sometimes alone or with his girlfriend, and we were all very close friends. We enjoyed having drinks and soaking in the hot tub. Clothes would usually come off and it was no big deal. This time I asked if the boys would give me.a massage and of course they were all in. We put a towel on the bed and I laid on my back while they picked me down and ran their hands all over me. My husband was standing at my head and rubbing my tits. His hrdcock was by my mouth so I started sucking him off. My neighbor was rubbing my thighs so I raised my knees and opened my legs so he could see my pussy. He took my hint and started inserting fingers and rubbing my clit. He lowered his face and gave my some amazing oral. We gave him the "thumbs up" and I felt his big cock sliding inside me. He only lasted a few strokes before he put a nice load on me. He felt amazing so I guided his shaft back inside me so I could cum as well. Hope you have the same experience.

 

Wish we could have done it like this one with my neighbor.. we do pool parties but never ever cloths come off that easily. Once I watching a porn where wife throws towel off for pizza delivery boy. We did such things like expose in public but need more. I would like to see her with other man and that's my fantasy!! i hope the day will come soon

[bbarnsworth 2,640]

I would like to see her with other man and that's my fantasy!! i hope the day will come soon

 

Hey FunCplAtl! Welcome!

 

As usual, there's good advice above. I would like to add on here that many men in swinging have the fantasy you have, of seeing their wives having sex with another man. But, understand; it needs to be your wife's fantasy too.

 

Also; the idea of a nude massage is possible, but the chances of it happening with a professional massage therapist are vanishingly small. I agree with others above; go to a meet-and-greet, find a couple that can go along with what you want, and go from there. Also, there are other ways to dip your toes in the pool. Going to a meet-and-greet is one of them. Also, going to a swing club without intending to play (discuss your limits beforehand).

 

Take it slow; your wife is shy and that's ok. There's no deadline here. I would not be surprised if a year from now your wife is very into having sex with other men while you watch.

[extrafun69 16]

I believe a nude sensational massage will help proceed the situation further.

[intuition897 2,179]

One of our first experiences involved massage with a neighbor. He came over often, sometimes alone or with his girlfriend, and we were all very close friends. We enjoyed having drinks and soaking in the hot tub. Clothes would usually come off and it was no big deal. This time I asked if the boys would give me.a massage and of course they were all in. We put a towel on the bed and I laid on my back while they picked me down and ran their hands all over me. My husband was standing at my head and rubbing my tits. His hrdcock was by my mouth so I started sucking him off. My neighbor was rubbing my thighs so I raised my knees and opened my legs so he could see my pussy. He took my hint and started inserting fingers and rubbing my clit. He lowered his face and gave my some amazing oral. We gave him the "thumbs up" and I felt his big cock sliding inside me. He only lasted a few strokes before he put a nice load on me. He felt amazing so I guided his shaft back inside me so I could cum as well. Hope you have the same experience.

 

Now that...is...hot.