Smoking and a swinger profile

[SW_PA_Couple 4,023]

We arranged a play date using a popular on-line hook-up site and the first-night sex was breat. BUT, there was an unsettling aspect to the meeting. Nothing about their on-line profile suggested any smoking of cigarettes. Comparing notes during our drive home from the encounter we realized that both were rodelent of burnt tobacco. Why would people commit such a sin of omission?

[dazanconfsd 84]

Maybe they get snuffed often when they put it out there. I know we try to avoid smokers unless there seems to be something worth overlooking it for (mainly good chemistry). We filled our online profile with info. Don't want to dupe anyone or present ourselves as someone we aren't. We have met a few that present themselves one way and just aren't what they claim to be. We may never know why.

[padoc 1,701]

SW….they committed the sin of omission because they've learned that advertising their smelly and unhealthy habit cuts down their opportunities. Many couples we know (us included) view smoking as a deal breaker. Very few smokers can disguise the aura of tobacco that clings to their clothing and hair. Mrs Doc loves to kiss both men and women but says she hates putting her tongue into an ashtray. No matter how attractive a couple is, if their profile says they're smokers, we'll take a pass every time.

[GoldCoCouple 4,063]

the sin of omission = lying in our eyes.

 

Both of us are VERY sensitive to the smell of smoke (we can tell someone is smoking outside from 50 feet away without even trying). If a couple showed up smelling (or tasting) of smoke, that IS a deal breaker for us. We would politely offer an excuse and go our separate ways. That they are willing to lie about it just makes us wonder about what else they are lying to us about.