How many of you consider your swinging wives to be "sluts"

[AmmarAli 17]

I do mine and this is what makes my sex with her so intense as i can "fuck" her without any inhibitions. In my opinion it is one of the main appeal of the "lifestyle" and it is because of this that your sex life with your wife also improves a lot.

 

However I should also add that this is only limited to the bedroom, outside in the real world she she is my princess and the mother of my two beautiful children. However in the bedroom she is my very little slut.

 

Sorry if i came across a bit rude. i just typed what I felt like. Sorry if someone is offended by it especially the ladies.

[Lionheart72 2,190]

I'd say it really rather depends on what you mean by "slut."

 

I consider my wife to be my wife. She an intelligent, educated, strong, confident, sexually open, more-than-a-little-weird woman. I would also say she's a slut... in that she likes sex, enjoys sex with a wide variety of men, enjoys having sex with multiple men at the same time, is a bit kinky and is perfectly comfortable with all of that. However, I don't consider the word "slut" to be pejorative in this sense. I don't think any less of her because she enjoys these things.

 

In most of the world, women who enjoy sex are demeaned and insulted, while men who do the same are lionized. I reject that out of hand.

[adamgunn 1,460]

I refuse to use the 'slut' word towards my wife, or any other woman I'd care to be with. And yes, my wife has participated in gang-bangs. Slut is a negative word to me, there's nothing negative about my wife even if she does like sex with multiple men. For the same reason I reject the word 'cunt.'

[Numex 2,420]

"How many of you consider your swinging wives to be "sluts"?"

First off, under the appropriate circumstances (alone or with swing partners), my wife will refer to herself as a slut, whore, cunt, etc.

Regardless, in strict terms I don't consider her a slut because for a woman in her mid-thirties, she hasn't had as many sex partners as many normal women her age, although I don't care about her number. She keeps fucking the same guys over again. A lot.

[Manitobacpl 81]

In the heat of the moment my wife responds to being called a slut . In no way do I look her as a slut tho ..being slutty or hearing our 3rd guest calling her that is hot tho

[Alura 2,774]

My wife was, first and foremost, a wife and mother. At PTSA meetings, she played the role well and naturally.

 

Laura could be a randy slut. She was creative. She said the most outrageous remarks when she was on the verge of orgasm, particularly with Mr. Playmate.

 

She once decided to try out a long-time fantasy, being a whore. Thinking prostitution was legal in Las Vegas, she chatted up a gentleman in the bar and had gotten a generous proposition. She chose to discard the idea, partly because he told her in conversation that prostitution was NOT legal in Vegas and he looked far too much like a cop. She turned down the offer and came to our room.

 

In my arms, she sometimes started out being a slut. It always ended the same way, lovingly.

 

Laura would have agreed with Adam Gunn. I would never have called her either name. She refused to shop at a convenience store named, "Kum and Go."

[Guest]

My husband calls me his slut wife now and I like it. But, during sex, other men will call me a slut and I don’t like it so much, in most cases.

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

She is my self-anointed slut...she started calling herself a slut as we came down this trail. Now, she isn't going to allow anyone else to call her a slut, but she enjoys being able to call herself my slut.

[couplers 4,655]

"How many of you consider your swinging wives to be "sluts"?"

... in strict terms I don't consider her a slut because for a woman in her mid-thirties, she hasn't had as many sex partners as many normal women her age... She keeps fucking the same guys over again.

For being a little over 30, I too have had few (male) sex partners, five, although I am currently fucking three of them regularly and often. So what makes a woman a slut? Is it the number of different partners? How often she has sex, even with one guy? The kinky things she does?

 

To me it all depends on the tone and the circumstances. Call me a dumb slut and I'm insulted; call me a smart, tough cunt (as I was told someone said about me once at work) and I am flattered.

[hotwife70 593]

I love my wife for acting slut in our bed.

[padoc 1,703]

One of our favorite bumper stickers reads….They NEVER sacrificed the sluts! I think that over the decade and a half that we've been swinging the term slut has lost a lot of its pejorative impact for us. While I would object to a guy saying to my wife, "take your skirt off slut", I have said occasionally after a party, "OMG baby, you were quite the little slut tonight". It got me a blush and a sexy little smile.

[EastInWest 1,524]

I kind of touched on this in another thread, but I think the key issue is that "slut" isn't really a thing, so much as "slutty" is an adjective, and a feeling it's completely normal to have. Monogamous or not, if you're suppressing it all the time, you've never going to really feel decompressed and relaxed in your sex life.

 

Mrs. E has a high libido but has historically been pretty repressed about it, and experimenting with so-called "slut wife" play has been really good for her, not to mention fun for me. Finding new things to test her boundaries with has been a blast.

[M1F2KTJ 473]

I do mine and this is what makes my sex with her so intense as i can "fuck" her without any inhibitions. In my opinion it is one of the main appeal of the "lifestyle" and it is because of this that your sex life with your wife also improves a lot.

 

However I should also add that this is only limited to the bedroom, outside in the real world she she is my princess and the mother of my two beautiful children. However in the bedroom she is my very little slut.

 

Sorry if i came across a bit rude. i just typed what I felt like. Sorry if someone is offended by it especially the ladies.

 

I LOVE sluts! To me slut is a compliment. I want a woman that considers herself a slut. A woman with that attitude have been my best experiences. I respect sluts.

[Bluespruce1 706]

I had four men along with my husband cum inside or on me last night. Make no mistake - I am a slut!

[njbm 2,880]

We are both sluts, but in a nice and happy way.

[couplers 4,655]

I had four men along with my husband cum inside or on me last night. Make no mistake - I am a slut!

It only counts towards being a slut if they come in you, and if it's in your mouth that you swallow.

[njbm 2,880]

We recently met a couple who met while the woman was servicing three men at an event. That’s a party girl! She was spunky and likeable.

[padoc 1,703]

I wonder….was "spunky" a description of her appearance when they met or is it just her personality??

[njbm 2,880]

I wonder….was "spunky" a description of her appearance when they met or is it just her personality??

 

If I looked more carefully, I may have found some spunk!

[udsarge 119]

well njbm...she might have been spunky...especially after successfully servicing three men!!! ( a little play on words there )

[Aaron911 45]

Oh my wife is definitely a slut but she was that way before i met her. I dont love her any differently and she is a nympho.

[Ozzie+Harriet 84]

The notion of "slut" being a good thing, is nice, but I think that it still has a negative connotation. I wouldn't call Harriet a slut nor would I tolerate someone else doing so because despite protestation to the contrary, women may, in the backs of their minds, feel put down by it and some guys will be using it as a put down, maybe even unconsciously. I think the word conveys more than just having been around the block a few times, liked it and anxious to make another lap. It sort of conveys the idea of not being very discriminating. The fact that this question was asked at all means that it the word "slut" is not in the same category as "brunette" or "tall," for example. How about "erotically erudite?"

[njbm 2,880]

There is a book entitled The Ethical Slut. The premise is that sex is positive and it should be enjoyed. Nothing new for those of us with this hobby.

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

They NEVER sacrificed the sluts!

 

[bbarnsworth 2,640]

She once decided to try out a long-time fantasy, being a whore. Thinking prostitution was legal in Las Vegas, she chatted up a gentleman in the bar and had gotten a generous proposition. She chose to discard the idea, partly because he told her in conversation that prostitution was NOT legal in Vegas and he looked far too much like a cop. She turned down the offer and came to our room.

 

My wife and I have discussed something of a variant of this, but without the prostitution part. The idea is she goes to an upscale lounge at a very nice hotel dressed like she's just been to a show, dressed to the nines, etc. I'd be there, but wouldn't arrive with her. The idea being that some traveling fellow would take an interest and she'd take him back to our room.

 

She refused to shop at a convenience store named, "Kum and Go."

 

I never could understand how in hell this name for a store was ever allowed as a company name.

[Alura 2,774]

My wife and I have discussed something of a variant of this, but without the prostitution part. The idea is she goes to an upscale lounge at a very nice hotel dressed like she's just been to a show, dressed to the nines, etc. I'd be there, but wouldn't arrive with her. The idea being that some traveling fellow would take an interest and she'd take him back to our room.

 

That would be legal; consequently not as exciting. Nevertheless, she decided if she abandoned the idea she would make our flight next day.

 

 

 

I never could understand how in hell this name for a store was ever allowed as a company name.

 

Laura was convinced that "Kum and Go" convenience stores used the sexual connotation when deciding on the name. She was convinced it was not done in ignorance. If they did, their kids shouldn't enter spelling bees.

[SexySixties 25]

I'd never use "slut" to describe my wife. She (like me) enjoys sex--a lot--and with different men. That just makes her a sensual provocative woman and it turns me on thoroughly.

[Puisnboots 30]

I had four men along with my husband cum inside or on me last night. Make no mistake - I am a slut!

 

While I have not had your full experience, I am a natural sub and enjoy the names when things get heated up.

 

My boyfriend enjoys showing me off. He bought me a spandex micro tube dress and asks me to wear it with nothing else to a bar and sit on a stool. One that we frequent is crowded and very close quarters -- not room to cross my legs. The act of sitting on a stool is enough to hike the dress enough to expose me. Scott looks on as men beside me get a feel and buy me drinks. I act as though I don't notice or object when they fondle me. When I am sufficiently worked up, I excuse myself and go to our apartment.

Scott calls me a slut and other terms reserved for this type behavior, and I enjoy hearing it while I take extra good care of him.

[Numex 2,420]

... Scott calls me a slut and other terms reserved for this type behavior, and I enjoy hearing it while I take extra good care of him.

When having sex, in the heat of the moment, such talk can be fun.

[EastInWest 1,524]

She once decided to try out a long-time fantasy, being a whore. Thinking prostitution was legal in Las Vegas, she chatted up a gentleman in the bar and had gotten a generous proposition. She chose to discard the idea, partly because he told her in conversation that prostitution was NOT legal in Vegas and he looked far too much like a cop. She turned down the offer and came to our room.

 

This kind of thing is definitely on the low end of our "exciting but probably better as an outrageous fantasy" list, her "paying for" something with sex. I had a very random and specific sex dream years ago about that we were out shopping and I ended up finding her in the back office titfucking the manager for a discount, woke up and had great sex at 3:00 am talking about it. The idea has kind of stuck around as a running joke since.

[padoc 1,703]

Mrs Doc offered to fuck my best friend for a new Audi convertible. She's still waiting, despite my assurance, Im not sure he thinks she's serious.

[njbm 2,880]

Does your best friend know that you are swingers? If she gives oral before intercourse, get the Premium Plus package.

[padoc 1,703]

Yeah, he knows! So does his wife who thinks Mrs Doc is a total slut (and not in a good way)

[njbm 2,880]

Well good for you two for living life and too bad for them. Doesn’t sound like your friend’s wife is giving her husband a hall pass.

[GMOFLEISURE 221]

Never felt comfortable with the term & probably never will. Sex Queen is a bit lengthly, but sounds a bit more respectful.

[padoc 1,703]

His wife opted out of sex 6 years ago and that the last time the guy had sex. We figure an Audi convertible is a fair trade.

[njbm 2,880]

I have an Audi A4 and it’s a great car. For an Audi convertible, your wife should do him in a few different positions to blow his mind (and his...). Is his wife disabled or disinterested? Maybe a night at Trapeze would stimulate them if it is the latter.

[couplers 4,655]

On the internet, there seems to be little concern whether I'm a slut, but I regularly need to confirm that "I am not a robot."

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

His wife opted out of sex 6 years ago and that the last time the guy had sex.

 

What did he get in trade for that? Should have asked for a hall pass...

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

Puisnboots: If there's no pictures then it never happened (actually we're just imaging seeing the scenario and want to see the dress...and the address of the bar)

[EastInWest 1,524]

Mrs Doc offered to fuck my best friend for a new Audi convertible. She's still waiting, despite my assurance, Im not sure he thinks she's serious.

 

Is there a maintenance plan?

 

Back in our vanilla days, Mrs. E blurted out after a couple of cocktails that she didn't understand why massage parlor and strip club handjobs are prostitution. "It's just touching." Come to find out, despite her generally conservative outlook and limited experience, she considered handjobs way below having her nipples licked on the sexual spectrum, close to zero-intimacy, and had always considered it a polite and meaningless part of making out since about age 16. It hadn't really occurred to her until much later that it was something people paid for or why that would be controversial.

 

On a lark, I told her this story last night, and it apparently hadn't occurred to her anybody would pay that much for intercourse, either.

[padoc 1,703]

I went to high school with the guy and later, he was my partner on the job. We were in our late 40's when Ms Doc and I discovered swinging and we shared our new found interest with them and offered to take them to the club we'd found. He was intrigued, she was outraged and offended so it never happened. Over the last 10 years, his wife's interest has completely disappeared and while they share a house, they don't sleep together and are barely civil. We've ceased socializing with them but he and I remain close friends. Hell, I like the guy better than my brothers and have joked that if he needed a kidney, I'd give him one, my brothers would be on their own. I think that if the situation presented itself, Mrs Doc would mercy fuck him with or without the Audi. We've talked about it and she's leaning toward making it happen over the summer. She thinks its terribly sad that he is living a life without any physical contact. I'll be OK with her decision either way.

[MrandMrsA 76]

His wife opted out of sex 6 years ago and that the last time the guy had sex.

 

Six years? I'm afraid that would make for a short test drive - of Mrs. Padoc not the Audi! ???

[njbm 2,880]

Six years? I'm afraid that would make for a short test drive - of Mrs. Padoc not the Audi!

 

True. Your friend may blow his load before he gets undressed.

[padoc 1,703]

We'll likely be out by the pool which is fabric free. If she starts to fondle him on the pool recliner, he'll pop in about 4 strokes the first time with Mrs Doc naked and her boobs touching his thighs. She thinks maybe next weekend he'll get an invitation to come out for a drink.

[njbm 2,880]

Do let us know if Mrs. Padoc does him. This guy needs a person to person release after 6 years!

[firebird09 37]

I refuse to use the 'slut' word towards my wife, or any other woman I'd care to be with. And yes, my wife has participated in gang-bangs. Slut is a negative word to me, there's nothing negative about my wife even if she does like sex with multiple men. For the same reason I reject the word 'cunt.'

 

You are one classy guy. Wish there were more just like you.