We got cougared and it was fantastic!!!!

[ornette 25]

Ok so after finally getting started in swinging proper we found or they found us I should say an amazing couple. We are both 27 but he is 52 and she is 48 though it was fantastic all the same. We met at a bar which we have never been to a bar so that was great. We sat next to eatch other and was rubbing thighs which was like damn. They had so many swinging stories it was amazing and they were pretty cool people. After that we met back at their place and chilled in their hot tub. (We have never been in a hot tub before either) After some chatting they started making out and at first I was like this guy is kissing my wife but then I gave my parter my undivided attention. We did separate rooms and I'll let you fill in the rest. We are on a fwb hall pass with them now and am loving it.

[Emt 91]

Ok so after finally getting started in swinging proper we found or they found us I should say an amazing couple. We are both 27 but he is 52 and she is 48 though it was fantastic all the same. We met at a bar which we have never been to a bar so that was great. We sat next to eatch other and was rubbing thighs which was like damn. They had so many swinging stories it was amazing and they were pretty cool people. After that we met back at their place and chilled in their hot tub. (We have never been in a hot tub before either) After some chatting they started making out and at first I was like this guy is kissing my wife but then I gave my parter my undivided attention. We did separate rooms and I'll let you fill in the rest. We are on a fwb hall pass with them now and am loving it.

 

I'm really glad you shared this and I want to share it with my wife. We're brand new to the LS as well and we've had a few couples significantly older than us but one in particular that reached out on SLS and has been trying to get together for drinks and see where things lead. It's good to see that such a large age gap still resulted in a great experience!

 

Not sure what hall pass means though. Could you please clarify?

 

Thanks for sharing!

[ornette 25]

Hall pass means we can do one on ones on different days and that kind of thing vs everyone being there at the same time.

[Emt 91]

Hall pass means we can do one on ones on different days and that kind of thing vs everyone being there at the same time.

 

Got it! Makes sense why I might not heard of it. We're looking for same room play only right now. We did see a couple do different room play at the club in side by side rooms and it was really hot. However, we want to watch each other with other people and join each other for different combinations/arrangements.

 

Thanks for clarifying!

[ornette 25]

Not at all ^_^

[njbm 2,901]

Hall pass is when a partner can date separately. We are not up for that, but we can see why people may find it exciting. Not a good idea for newbies, imho.

[njbm 2,901]

Old people have experience. When we were in our 50s, a couple that seemed around 70 asked us to play. We gave them guts points for asking and we agreed to play. It was a very nice session and they showed us a few things we hadn’t seen. Some people who are not an age or attraction match may have other things to offer.

[ornette 25]

True but if you are with a trustworthy couple and hall pass only within that couple then it seems to work. Still it's whatever works best for everyone I think is important.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,026]

Cougared? That is the boldest example of using a noun as a verb that I have seen on s long time. To this old man, a 48-years-of-age woman is just slightly beyond adolescence.

 

I am glad that you all had a good experience.

[NC_Seniors 519]

We’re 68 (M) and 63 (F). Ten days ago, we played with a couple who are 48 (M) and 45 (F). We guess they must have seen something in us when were talking, because it was actually the younger woman who proposed going to the playroom. And we guess we must have done something right once we got there, because they’ve sent us two emails saying they want to see us again. Imagine our surprise that we did the “cougaring”! (They were SUPER themselves, by the way!)