New Experience

[gaga2018 27]

Hi! I hope everyone is ok! Well a new experience happened between me and my gf. We were in a bar with a couple (that are also in the swinger world) and a black guy that is our friend. My gf started to become attracted to a black guy and she was smilling and laughing so much. When the couple left the bar, I ask directly to her if she wanted do do something else with Richard. She said he was so nice and we talked about for a while... and well we were together all night long...

I have never seen my gf like that! We was better than me and it was totally fine for me. Watching her... I can tell you that she was enjoying so much...

In the end, we drank whine and then he left us. She enjoyed so much so do I.

Did you have experiences like this one?

[Billygoat 443]

Stepping outside of the cage of society’s monogamy beliefs and experiencing a open sexuality as an adult consensual playful activity has its roots dating back to the beginning of known human social living. Back in history when humans lived as tribes and clans, small bands and groups, yet to be organized into kingdoms and nations. As varied as each area of human existence.

 

Over the generations and centuries sexuality, sexual practices and acceptable activities expanded and broadened. Humans are adventurous, curious, imaginative and have the ability to seek and enjoy many pleasures....sex and sex play is just a small part.

 

As a single uncommitted individual you answer to your self first, then to others in your life. Your responsibilities. When in a committed relationship situations, activities, dreams, goals desires....life together....becomes a shared experience....discussed, decided, worked to achieve and experience together. Trust and commitment.

 

Each adult has their own choices to make. To share and discuss openly, to decide together. Desires, goals, willingness....change as time goes on but stays grounded within the committed couple.

 

So in the end the two of you decide. Regardless if it is situational, planned or as a lifestyle for you both. The freedom is making it your shared experience.....not designed around others influences.

 

And yes.....many have some level of this type of experience.