First few experiences...would love to hear your comments...

[seattlecple 34]

We are a M38/F37 couple married and know each other for 20 years. We've been our only partners - from kissing to sex. Few years ago, I helped bring out the hidden sexiness and exhibitionist nature of my wife. Ever since, she's been ROCKING it with clothes, looks that are super seductive, inviting, teasing - even to normal outings like to a mall or grocery store. Not over the top for common places but sporting short shorts, mini skirts, definitely cleavage showing tops. She has very attractive DD racks and an athletic body. We've been having so much fun just doing that and I just simply love and get hard when other guys look at her. When we are having sex, we have dirty talk with me mentioning names of guys that constantly flirt with her... she tells me that she loves others playing with her tits, nipples, etc. I know it started because she knew I like to hear that, but deep down I think she loves it too! However, she maintains a strong position on nobody else fucking her or me.. and we are both ok with that...

 

Recently, few months ago, took the plunge and went to a LS club. Very nice experience. She felt at home exposing her ass, boobs, nipples, getting frisky overall. After some dancing (just us) that put on a nice show to others watching, we went to a private room. Though the room had curtains, we kept it open. She isn't a huge fan of bright light during sex... however, managed it ok and I just LOVED it when guys were standing out to watch her...I would ram her from behind and with her on her knees and hands, the view that someone got of her boobs shaking and dancing while I fucked her made me SO hard. And then, she'd ride me giving those watching an amazing view of her ass. I'd constantly lick her boobs/nipples - both in the private room and in the public space..

 

In another visit, the private room was occupied and we ended up going to a room with other folks playing.. It was amazing to even enter... we did our thing, I ate her, she gave me a BJ and it was fun to hear others make sounds... i'd do it again..

 

after being in the play rooms, we'd walk around and she'd be close to naked and seeing other guys watch her made me so fucking hard....

 

she's very shy and doesn't flirt or make eye contact with many... very rare...some day, I hope to see her flirt and have some fun... I want it for her first. I wouldn't mind it either

[bbarnsworth 2,640]

You never know what may happen. She's definitely had the seed planted in her mind. Perhaps someday you'll get to see her having sex with another man. But, if not, it sounds like you're having a blast already I've said here many times, but I'll repeat it here as it's apropos. In the years my wife and I were together before we got into swinging, I would have easily bet everything I have that she would never swing. She was absolutely 10000000% against it. Yet, here we are. You never know what may happen.

 

We soft-swapped with a couple that sounds a fair bit like you two. Neither of them had ever dated anyone else, much less had sex with anyone else. We played with them a couple of times, and had a very good time both times. The husband was very accepting of the idea of her having sex with other men, but it isn't what she wanted for herself or for him to have sex with other women. He respected that of course, and respected their wishes. It was in very sexy to be with her, knowing she'd never had sex with anyone but her husband. Kind of like forbidden fruit. Watching her have sex with her husband was a treat as well.

 

I think it's awesome that you helped your wife bring out her sexiness. There's a sexual fulfillment, a sexual awakening that is awesome to behold in such situations.

[Numex 2,416]

... she tells me that she loves others playing with her tits, nipples, etc.

A great start, but has she gotten as far as letting others play with her breasts, or is that still talk?

[seattlecple 34]

A great start, but has she gotten as far as letting others play with her breasts, or is that still talk?

 

It is still talk... I sense it is waiting for the right time/situation/individual...

[seattlecple 34]

You never know what may happen. She's definitely had the seed planted in her mind. Perhaps someday you'll get to see her having sex with another man. But, if not, it sounds like you're having a blast already I've said here many times, but I'll repeat it here as it's apropos. In the years my wife and I were together before we got into swinging, I would have easily bet everything I have that she would never swing. She was absolutely 10000000% against it. Yet, here we are. You never know what may happen.

 

We soft-swapped with a couple that sounds a fair bit like you two. Neither of them had ever dated anyone else, much less had sex with anyone else. We played with them a couple of times, and had a very good time both times. The husband was very accepting of the idea of her having sex with other men, but it isn't what she wanted for herself or for him to have sex with other women. He respected that of course, and respected their wishes. It was in very sexy to be with her, knowing she'd never had sex with anyone but her husband. Kind of like forbidden fruit. Watching her have sex with her husband was a treat as well.

 

I think it's awesome that you helped your wife bring out her sexiness. There's a sexual fulfillment, a sexual awakening that is awesome to behold in such situations.

 

Thanks! Definitely having a blast already and hoping for the right evolution - however slow/fast it may be. At times, she talks about how ridiculous it is for human beings to be thought of as monogamous. She quotes history and the working of the brain, etc. and that we are MADE to be curious and explore and that monogamy was a societal thing that got picked up along the way. Anyway

 

Appreciate your comments.. really helps!

[Bluespruce1 706]

Just have fun and don't push anything. There are many times that I'm not interested in having anyone join us. One of the things I like about our vlubsnis that I have a forum. We love fucking for an audience. I love watching the voyeurs with my legs spread and him inside me. Makes me cum every time.

[Numex 2,416]

.. she tells me that she loves others playing with her tits, nipples, etc... It is still talk... I sense it is waiting for the right time/situation/individual...

Although seeing a man or woman play partner place a hand or lips on my wife's breasts and nipples is ordinary, it still turns me on. Enjoy the experiences along the way of your journey!

[seattlecple 34]

Sharing a few updates here reflecting on some recent experiences

 

Few weeks ago, we were at a LS event and it was a good evening. Lots of exhibitionism from the Mrs that was much appreciated by the crowd that evening. In the last couple of visits, we had "progressed" from playing in a private room to a play room with others watching.. It was AMAZING!!!

 

Last visit, we were getting ready to leave. Honestly, not much action in terms of others seeing us, and I was itching for that.

So, we were intentionally sitting at a spot where folks can get a really good look at her topless view and with a pair of DDs, it's kind of hard to miss

 

I'm already excited at others checking her out and then one gentleman approaches her. Gives her some really nice compliments and sits next to her. All along, super respectful and asking for permission before doing anything or even saying anything. After asking for permission to give her compliments, he asked if he can get a hug. They had a nice, long hug with her tits tightly compressed against his chest. Some oohs and aaahs already. Few more compliments later, he asks if he can feel her breasts. I tell him it's up to her. She says yes. He takes his hands to her boobs, feels it nicely, cups it and enjoys thoroughly along the way. He whispers into her ear few more compliments and asks her if it's ok for him to suck her boobs. All along, she's honestly in a state of shock. No other guy has ever touched her boobs. She says yes to sucking her boobs. He goes on to suck her right boob. I'm all crazy horny at this time. I couldn't control and went on to suck her left boob. So here we are, in a very visible spot, with two guys taking on each side of her boobs and she's just closing her eyes and taking it all in... It was already everything I wanted... EVER... He then asks, what we like - see, be seen, etc. She said both. We proceed to one of the playrooms. I begin to take her from behind. she's completely naked of course. he is seeing her DD boobs bouncing and moving erotically as I take her on in doggy position. He immediately pulls his pant down, and begins to stroke at us having sex. I dont even know how to react at this. Overwhelmed is an understatement. He asks if he can take a look at her pussy. She shows him. No touching involved. He indicates to his dick and asks her if she wants to give him a BJ. She wasn't ready. Instead, she grabs his dick and strokes him. He is in another world, clearly! We then tell him this is the first time ever she has been sexually involved with another man.. He just couldn't believe it and passes a comment about being a forbidden fruit, etc.

 

We finish up and leave. She was stunned, shocked and definitely a feeling of guilt was seen in her. WE've been talking. all good and she kinda wants more now Still very clear guidelines on being "soft". But been thinking of creative moves/experiences... Let's see how things go

 

I can't even explain my joy and feelings on seeing my wife being enjoyed by another man... I know she was more shocked and in awe and so perhaps didn't "enjoy" as much.. hopefully second time around, that shock element will be absent and she can enjoy

 

Would love to hear your comments

[adamgunn 1,460]

Seattle, sounds like you had fun, the kind of fun you wanted to have. Obviously, nothing happened that she (and you,) didn't want to have happen. Sounds like you're on your way.

 

One question, why did she feel guilty?

[seattlecple 34]

Guilty because it was her first time being sexually involved with another guy... I've been talking to her about it and that she has nothing to feel guilty about and that she needs to enjoy being admired and that guys LOVE to play with her.. told her this is what guys think when they see her in outfits where she's showing a lot of skin/cleavage. She LOVES to tease and that someone just acted on their thoughts that night... She's cool now.

[adamgunn 1,460]

Seattle, good. Seems like she cleared that hurdle easily.

 

So, where do you go from here? She's already into soft-swapping, the question is how much do you want to play? I could easily see this going towards MFM, either soft or hard, depending on both of your preferences. You're entering into a great stage of life. Best of luck.

[seattlecple 34]

thank you! I don't want to rush anything. I'm happy to continue with soft swapping, both get pleasure/excitement out of it, and then see where it goes!! Soft MFM was precisely what I was thinking. Me having sex with her while another guy plays with her tits, she giving a HJ, etc.

[Numex 2,416]

Continue to reassure her and let her lead the way without complaint or criticism. I hope that it works as well for you as it did for us.

[bbarnsworth 2,640]

Seattlecple, congrats on the progress! Sounds like you both had an amazing time! I had a feeling it wouldn't be too long before she would have someone playing with her in one form or another. It sounds like this guy was very respectful, and a delight for her to play with. I imagine it would be nice to do that again with him. Is your wife interesting in giving oral sex to another man? I ask because I know how incredibly horny my wife is when she's giving oral sex and having vaginal sex at the same time.

 

On the monogamy point; did you know that almost all bird species are lifetime monogamous? There are a few exceptions, but generally it's the case. Not so with mammals. Somewhere around 85% of mammals are not monogamous. Humans, of course, are mammals. It stands to reason there a very high chance that humans are non-monogamous as well. There is a very strong evidence that monogamy is a social construct.

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

Few years ago, I helped bring out the hidden sexiness and exhibitionist nature of my wife. Ever since, she's been ROCKING it with clothes, looks that are super seductive, inviting, teasing - even to normal outings like to a mall or grocery store.

 

If only there was a place where you could both post pictures...oh wait! There's a photo tab at the top of the page! The photo you have posted in your profile does ROCK! Feel free to post more...she's a beautiful woman!

[seattlecple 34]

Seattlecple, congrats on the progress! Sounds like you both had an amazing time! I had a feeling it wouldn't be too long before she would have someone playing with her in one form or another. It sounds like this guy was very respectful, and a delight for her to play with. I imagine it would be nice to do that again with him. Is your wife interesting in giving oral sex to another man? I ask because I know how incredibly horny my wife is when she's giving oral sex and having vaginal sex at the same time.

 

On the monogamy point; did you know that almost all bird species are lifetime monogamous? There are a few exceptions, but generally it's the case. Not so with mammals. Somewhere around 85% of mammals are not monogamous. Humans, of course, are mammals. It stands to reason there a very high chance that humans are non-monogamous as well. There is a very strong evidence that monogamy is a social construct.

 

Thank you! On oral, she's hesitant as she's concerned about health safety.Same with having sex too (despite use of condoms). I think she might be game for me having sex with her while she gives someone a HJ or blows me while someone fingers her... Also thx for the sharing facts about birds ,mammals, etc. Very interesting to note how the society has made us believe what's right vs wrong when compared to what our biology and psychology says!

[seattlecple 34]

If only there was a place where you could both post pictures...oh wait! There's a photo tab at the top of the page! The photo you have posted in your profile does ROCK! Feel free to post more...she's a beautiful woman!

 

added a pic BTW your profile pic... man!!!!!

[a300 18]

Seattlecple congratulations your progress sounds very much like the way we progressed when we first started.... Now we love every moment of it!!!

[cplnuswing 4,713]

It is still talk... I sense it is waiting for the right time/situation/individual...

 

And this is the key. Try to hurry things along (and it was a mistake that we made ourselves) just doesn't work out in the long run. There's always some trepidation involved in swinging, even for those who have been at it a while, but when it feels right, it's the right time.

 

Regardless, sounds like you two are having a great time together and that's what it's all about!

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

Great picture and a beautiful woman!

[Sexycomiclovers 15]

I was reading your story about up your first experiences. So hot.

 

My wife and I live in Seattle area and wondering if you were at Club Sapphire in Tukwila?

 

It is a great club. We love to go there.