Bluespruce1 706 Posted May 1, 2019 My new fetish is simply to be watched. At this point in our fun journey, Iam totally getting off on others watching me or us together. We have been frequenting the public room where I completely release myself to the voyeurs outside. I'm also finding myself in rooms with three or four guys and masturbating for them without letting them play with me. Am I alone or are other guys or ladies at the point where they just want to be watched? 3 Quote Share this post Link to post
luv2was 117 Posted May 1, 2019 Voyeurism & Exhibitionism (V&E) is by far my favorite "kink". I suspect it is more of a guy thing, but some gals do like it too. If you REALLY want to have an audience, then try: https://chaturbate.com/ There are several ways you can (mostly) remain discreet / anonymous there. Enjoy! Quote Share this post Link to post
midlifecrisis 25 Posted May 2, 2019 I am now separated, but my soon to be ex was into the idea of being watched. We never actually took the swinging plunge, but she often would do a striptease in front of our hotel room window, and we would talk about who was watching. She was always hesitant about inviting someone into our bedroom, but being watched was something that she really enjoyed. Of course, now that I'm a single guy, I'd be happy to watch you anytime Quote Share this post Link to post
Numex 2,420 Posted May 2, 2019 ... my soon to be ex was into the idea of being watched. We never actually took the swinging plunge, but she often would do a striptease in front of our hotel room window, .. You should have tried amateur night at a strip club. My wife is not an exhibitionist, but did it once with some girlfriends in college. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
GoldCoCouple 4,066 Posted May 2, 2019 I have a hard time keeping the Ms. clothes on...it's just about anything (not just tequila) and her clothes fall off...and I don't see the problem. Girls just wanna have fun...and if they think having fun involves being naked, who am I to complain? 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
couplers 4,647 Posted May 2, 2019 To me being naked isn't necessarily about sex, although sex does usually involve nakedness. I enjoy being naked in European spas, not to show off but to enjoy no clothes along with other people, especially when the weather is nice enough to be outside. Some (many?) of the guys (and some of the women) are probably checking out the bodies, but it is surreptitious so the atmosphere is nonsexual. If I show off sexually, it is a prelude to intercourse and doesn't last long. I don't mind if any of the others watch so long as they are sensitive to not breaking our rythm. (I had a thread on about where me and others in our poly family have a pretty much "watch each other have sex" soft swap, but no one seemed interested, so I stopped updating) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Bluespruce1 706 Posted May 3, 2019 I actually did that a few years back. Probably not the smartest move but man,what a rush. I had a little skirt on which was perfect. After losing my top and bra, the boys went wild when I slid my panties down. The other amateurs stopped with their top. When I opened my legs for the guys next to the stage, I thought my husband was going to go into cardiac arrest! We left shortly after and I rode him in the parking lot just to release myself - awesome.experience 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
luv2was 117 Posted May 3, 2019 .... (I had a thread on about where me and others in our poly family have a pretty much "watch each other have sex" soft swap, but no one seemed interested, so I stopped updating) I'd be curious to review that thread (on this BBS?)... If you wanted to provide a link to it here. Quote Share this post Link to post
couplers 4,647 Posted May 3, 2019 luv2was said: I'd be curious to review that thread (on this BBS?)... If you wanted to provide a link to it here. Yes, it was here on the Swingers' Board. https://www.swingersboard.com/forums/topic/61759-full-swap-swingers-playing-soft-swap-by-choice/ 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
GoldCoCouple 4,066 Posted May 3, 2019 Bluespruce: You just sound like a great time rolled up in a girl! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
T&Mtill70 147 Posted May 3, 2019 Our adventure starting with the wife wanting to put on a show for others. Wether it’s just her or the both of us, it’s a huge turn on!! Actually take advantage of the situation whenever we can. Quote Share this post Link to post
Out-N-About 52 Posted May 13, 2019 I've got to admit the idea of being watched IS a real turn on... Sometimes we'll deliberately leave the curtains wide open when traveling or on vacation, or just do things in the window Quote Share this post Link to post
adamgunn 1,460 Posted May 13, 2019 The problem with leaving the curtains open is what if a child should happen by . . . 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
GMOFLEISURE 221 Posted May 13, 2019 There are times I am in the mood, and enjoy being watched. If at a party when the mood strikes I particularly like to have sex with a partner. Giving or receiving head, fucking. A couple months ago I had a incredibly erotic fuck with GF early in a party. We used a couch in the center of the main room. Quote Share this post Link to post
PeterJ 949 Posted May 13, 2019 I've got to admit the idea of being watched IS a real turn on... Sometimes we'll deliberately leave the curtains wide open when traveling or on vacation, or just do things in the window I’m a bit of an exhibitionist. But as much as I enjoy it when people are turned on by watching me perform with a partner, I would feel terrible if I were seen by someone who was wasn’t looking to watch people having sex and was offended by it. That’s why I only perform for others at clubs or parties. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post
Out-N-About 52 Posted May 15, 2019 Funny, I know men are supposed to be the visually oriented ones, but watching drives me crazy, too. So does being watched. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
JessicaJamison 861 Posted November 24, 2020 I was an exotic dancer for 9 years so I like to be seen, I love to get naked for a crowd, I like masturbating for a crowd, but actual sex, I prefer alone. I can do it but I won't enjoy it cause I'll be worried about what the crowd sees, how the show looks. I'll be hyper focused on looking sexy and I will never cum. But I'll get naked and diddle my kitty for a crowd all night long, I'll fake a good orgasm but won't have one. Quote Share this post Link to post