Bluespruce1 706 Posted May 10, 2019 So in our group at the last few parties, I have been ending up with the same guy. We always playfully flirt and there is plenty of group play, but at some point I end up with him one on one. He is a damn near perfect specimen and the sex is amazing. My SO has recently commented that when we are together, the guy will make sure to have eye contact with him in a creepy way - kind of like look at me and how much she is loving my big cock. I have definitely been uncomfortable at times watching my husband with a very hot woman - I guess it's always normal to compare ourselves to others but it the end we usually shake it off and know that it's all about the pleasure. I can see where my husband could feel uneasy since this guy does have an amazing body and a great looking big penis. I don't want to stop getting what I need or to create tension in our group. We have been together for a while so I'm hoping a conversation with him will help. Advice? Quote Share this post Link to post
GoldCoCouple 4,066 Posted May 10, 2019 If one of you says no, then the answer for both of you is no. You are a team. Is he saying that you should stop with this guy? Talk with him and see how he is feeling and if he wants you to stop with this guy. If he does, there are plenty of other guys in the L/S but you only have one husband. Move along, nothing to see here... 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Fitlakecouple 451 Posted May 10, 2019 Why not tell the dominant guy to knock it off or you'll cut him off? 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
padoc 1,703 Posted May 10, 2019 If the guy is so cocky (literally and figuratively) that he's eyeballing and challenging your husband, he's also challenging your relationship. Apparently, he fails to recognize that YOUR relationship is giving him a gift (you)and he's being disrespectful of the guy who's doing the giving. If I told Mrs Doc something like that about a guy she was boinking, I can assure you that his perfect body and big dick would NEVER visit her pussy again. She would, to paraphrase Tammy Wynette, stand by her man. You should too. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Numex 2,419 Posted May 11, 2019 ... My SO has recently commented that when we are together, the guy will make sure to have eye contact with him in a creepy way - kind of like look at me and how much she is loving my big cock... Making eye contact (in possibly a creepy way)? That's it? Who knows what he's thinking, maybe he's thinking that your husband is a lucky man. If he's "He is a damn near perfect specimen and the sex is amazing," as you say, have your husband look the other way. That's what I would do for my wife if she always had a good time with some guy. Quote Share this post Link to post
intuition897 2,179 Posted May 11, 2019 I prefer to give people the benefit of the doubt, especially when they're suspected of behaviour so shitty that it would turn me right off playing with them. Mr. intuition and I prefer playing in separate rooms, so we wouldn't likely run into this exact scenario. But if it became apparent to me that Mr. Sexypants was going out of his way to make Mr. intuition feel like shit, or trying to compete with him in any way, you can bet he'd be set straight in a hurry. That's not cool. Not sexy. Definitely NOT okay with me. And Mr. intuition wouldn't have to say a word; I'd make sure the jackass understood in no uncertain terms exactly who was running the fucking show here. And it's not him. He's there by Mr. intuition's permission ONLY, and if he can't get on board with that, the door is thataway. And don't you worry about me, I have a magic wand. 6 Quote Share this post Link to post
Bluespruce1 706 Posted May 12, 2019 I had great chat with them and think we have a good resolution. My husband doesn’t have a jealous bone in his body and know that what we do is all about physical pleasure while also making some close friends. He know that I really enjoy being this guy and wants me to be happy. He also didn’t want to create any tension in our group. We decided that I will play with this guy in a separate room. My husband enjoys an occasional FFM and honestly i’d prefer he do that separately as well since I know that no matter how much i love him doing that i know that I distract him. It all worked out well. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Numex 2,419 Posted May 12, 2019 ... My husband doesn’t have a jealous bone in his body... We decided that I will play with this guy in a separate room. My husband enjoys an occasional FFM and honestly i’d prefer he do that separately as well since I know that no matter how much i love him doing that i know that I distract him... Congratulations to your husband and you both. Instead of creating drama you made pleasure for you both. Well done. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
