Swinging while pregnant

[LuvCtCpl 15]

Out of curiousity, do other swingers, male or female, mind if one of the women is pregnant?

 

The Mrs. is 4 months pregnant and quickly approaching her "constantly horny" phase of pregnancy. We haven't considered ourselves swingers but have had a few mmf threesomes and same room sex with a couple different couples in the past. All of them kickstarted with a few drinks, but never regretted by anyone afterwards. Anyways, we were interested mostly from the couples' point of view how they felt about one of the women being pregnant. Aside from the obvious fetish side of it.

[Jane1902 476]

I would suggest she get tested to see if she is CMV positive or not. Many people are positive and no big deal, but if she is negative and is exposed while pregnant it can significantly affect the child.

[Billygoat 443]

We have experienced a fair amount of this over the years in the lifestyle. Each couple and a few single ladies each had their own way to handle their personal situation. In hind sight it really depended on how close and who they were close to within the group they were part of. Most avoided playing, except for soft or just oral/manual play while they were trying to become pregnant. After most, except for certain specific playmates would play but with protection for penetration (even if before they did not)and in many cases even later in their term would come to hang out and socialize. I can say none in our experience ever used this as a fetish or offered themselves at any level to new or stranger play. Always with their more intimate friends. A few in our extended group of friends did use the known group of friends to become pregnant. Due to trouble conceiving, being single or being a f/f couple. In most of those situations it was a selection of three or more participants for the evening....and after to conceive but not ever really knowing which individual male was successful. This wasn’t often. In total for all circumstances maybe 8 or ten times over many years with an ever changing close knit group. One F/F couple used our close circle of friends two times in a very private and intimate setting. All the women to my memory were mid 30’s to very early 40’s. The few in our group in their 20’s and early 30’s had a husband or SO that impregnated them but would still attend gatherings through most of their term. All were concerned with safety, health and post birth the ability to properly care for and for most breast feed their child properly. Not a fetish thing at all in any of our circle of friends and lovers. Just life in our LS community.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

I would not be adverse to it on an aesthetic basis but I would not do it owing the my fear that I might transmit some kind of STI to an unborn human who had not choice about risking herself or himself to an STI.

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

Actually, for us it depends on who the other couple is. If we connect with them and have played before, being pregnant is kind of beside the point (like having a cold, it's a temporary condition). Don't have to worry about birth control either. Add the fetish part in and I would say that we would consider playing together.

[couplers 4,640]

In our poly family, I didn't know which of the two men were the father of my first child. Clair had become unintentionally pregnant, so I decided to have a child with her and went "pot luck" with our men. Half the sex thereafter was "Swinging While Pregnant," although at the time I didn't know which half.

 

The concept of shared paternity would be nice, if it were true: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2984172/

[Billygoat 443]

I believe in the case of fraternal twins being two separate eggs fertilized at about the same time it could be possible for each to have a separate father. Difficult to make happen. But could happen by chance. Approximately a six day window for most a single egg. Occasionally a woman will release two both within the same six day window. If she has two different men during this time she can have twins each from a different father. Estimated to happen 1 in every 400 fraternity twin births. Healthy semen survives for up to 5 - 7 days in a healthy woman. Soooo......

[adamgunn 1,460]

Once at a club we met a couple and had a great time talking to them. I thought she was a little heavy for her body type, but still very attractive. At some point it became obvious that we all wanted to head for a room.

 

Before we went, she took me aside and told me she was pregnant and asked me if I was bothered by that. We had a little talk, she didn't have any concerns, told me that if she was having any problems with what I was doing to her she'd let me know. When I got her undressed she had a bit of a belly, I'd say she was in the middle of her second trimester.

 

We had a great time, of course we used a condom (my wife and I always did,) and I wouldn't have any problems doing it again!

[Kade oj 63]

That's awesome

[Guest]

We personally don't see any issues with that, outside of the basic concerns of comfort based on how far along she is. My wife has been pregnant a lot over the last decade (long story), and although we weren't in the LS at that time, one of the happy side benefits is that she is still producing milk- which is always a happy discovery for men and women partners alike (I, of course, LOVE sucking my wife's milky titties, so it's welcome for me as well). We had tons of sex ourselves while she was pregnant- and I have no problem admitting that I find pregnant women especially sexy. As someone else said here, it's just a temporary phase of life- no reason it should slow a couple down if they still want to be active in the LS.

[JessicaJamison 861]

Wouldn't bother me or my husband, I still fucked around while I was pregnant.  Some guys are really into it.  Although they will probably not give you the rough stuff if that is your thing.  

[couplers 4,640]

As a pregnancy goes on it's less missionary and more doggy.

[Playman64 205]

4 minutes ago, couplers said:

As a pregnancy goes on it's less missionary and more doggy.

I’d be fine with that.  Besides I also enjoy the full milky tits.  Milk is good for the body. 

[couplers 4,640]

Just now, Playman64 said:

I also enjoy the full milky tits.

Among Clair, Lora and me, our tits were not only full during pregnancy they were anywhere from leaking to gushing milk postpartum while being manipulated.  Loved it and hated it.

[Playman64 205]

5 minutes ago, couplers said:

Among Clair, Lora and me, our tits were not only full during pregnancy they were anywhere from leaking to gushing milk postpartum while being manipulated.  Loved it and hated it.

yyyuuummm. 
Just let them hang and let me drink, as you are slowly riding me. 

[couplers 4,640]

1 minute ago, Playman64 said:

Just let them hang and let me drink,

That's for the baby!

[couplers 4,640]

6 minutes ago, couplers said:

That's for the baby!

OK, just a taste.

[Funmom 45]

We played during all my pregnancies