Condoms...awkward??

[Happy2BeUs 17]

So, we have been discussing and playing out in our heads before we move forward. Big fantasy for us is FFM threesome. So....condoms. I assume always used for penetration. How do you avoid the awkwardness?? Not to get too graphic but in changing positions, going from one woman to the other, from oral to penetration....I can't imagine that "put it on/take it off" is very sexy. Do you just make vaginal sex with the other person pretty much the last thing to do so that you put it on once? Sorry if its a dumb question....but we are total newbies!!!

[njbm 2,872]

You get it. You need a separate condom for each woman. The whole FFM is a little awkward. Condoms are just part of it But it’s fun.

[Funlatincouple 44]

Communication is key always. When discussed before hand everything becomes less awkward. That said, my advice is use the condom first on your friend, then finish off with your wife. It’s healthier for you both as the couple.

[adamgunn 1,460]

Everyone *should* understand the need for protection. Given that, the pause where a guy puts on a condom is understood and not that awkward, just a chance to anticipate what's about to happen. If a woman puts a rubber on a guy, that can be pretty sexy.

[Tabota 40]

Use the time needed to switch condoms for the girls to put on a show for you. Or have one of the girls do the putting on. Nothing says it has to be his job. Get creative!

[kittyswinger 260]

You need to bring a box of condom. I observed fmf is more tiresome for guys :-)

[couplers 4,646]

I've never used it, but wouldn't the female condom (two of them) solve the problem?

[kittyswinger 260]

I've never used it, but wouldn't the female condom (two of them) solve the problem?

Possibly it should work. I havent tried using it though :-)

[M1F2KTJ 473]

I can't imagine that "put it on/take it off" is very sexy. Do you just make vaginal sex with the other person pretty much the last thing to do so that you put it on once? Sorry if its a dumb question....but we are total newbies!!!

 

It's not a dumb question. It's an awesome question!

 

Put on/take off/put on etc. I agree it is not very sexy. It can be a mood killer. When the condom comes on, penetration is next. That can be sexy watching and waiting in anticipation of what is to cum. Oops! I mean come.

 

You are right that it should be the last thing to happen. There are very sexy things to do in between until the finale.

[Lionheart72 2,190]

It's really all about attitude. If you think about, that's true of a lot. Taking off your clothes can be a boring, everyday activity. It can be awkward. It can be silly... or it can be sexy as hell. It all depends on your attitude. So, if you approach the act of dealing with a condom as a sexy activity, then it can be sexy.

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

If your biggest 'problem' is worrying about changing condoms when you change women...you worry too much.

[PeterJ 948]

...if you approach the act of dealing with a condom as a sexy activity, then it can be sexy.

 

In the case of a couple I played with, the wife could put a condom on her husband (whose erect cock was on the long and slim side) with her mouth, which was kinda hot. Mine’s on the chubbier side and it was a two-handed challenge to get the condom on without tearing it. (Thank goodness for the development of wider sizes.)

[twohots4u2 188]

I always bring a fresh box of condoms to each swing session. My job is to always make sure my gal is safe. Make putting on the condom the final part of the foreplay. Guys love to have the woman put on their condoms. After a guy cums and withdraws, he should wash his cock and balls before moving to another woman. Then during the foreplay, he, or the new gal, can put a fresh condom on his cock.

 

Female (F2C) condoms are great, especially for use with guys who have large cocks or when a long sex session is probable. As part of the foreplay, the F2C condom is unwrapped, lube squirted into the condom, and the condom either tucked into the woman's vagina or put on the guy's hard cock. When the guy's cock is inserted deep in the woman, the ring at the bottom of the condom will help it stay in the woman's vagina. To a guy, the F2C condom feels like he is bareback. To a woman, it prevents the raw, vaginal sore spots that come from long sex sessions.

 

Whenever partners change, a fresh F2C condom should be used to ensure that the guy does not get infected by any SDCs that the previous guy may have.

[Naughtyvanessa 49]

Nothing strange and awkard About it. chenge the condom and have fun