Giving oral sex to a man or a woman, which do you prefer?

[TheBiggerMan 83]

Talking about giving oral sex to women and men. I know it is like comparing oranges and apples, but try and give us some insight.

[shy_couple 459]

Seems more like comparing bananas and peaches....

[JandKinBoise 858]

I guess the way I describe it is women are easier to read and physically easier to please. Men can be stoic and hard to read. In my experience, men have many more sexual issues than women. Some can't get hard, but can come. Some get rock hard but can't come from oral. Some guys come when they first expose their dick. Some guys require a commitment to completing the job.

 

The time afterward between men and women is 180 degrees different. Women will hang, relax, cuddle, chat. Men will look at the floor as they get dressed as if the house is on fire and bolt the fuck out.

 

Other then that, they are exactly alike!

 

Preference? hmm, women can come and come and come. They can be played like an instrument and respond nicely. Something about making a man come is more rewarding and it's a much more intense experience. It's close but women just provide a more complete experience and are nicer to be around.

[PSULioness 856]

I am guessing you posed the question to women. I have been having oral sex with guys all my sexual life. I admit the first times I gagged, choked and vomited. With practice all that went away and it became fun and yes I didn’t mind swallowing. It wasn’t until years later, after college that I ever saw a vagina other than mine, that close up. After the first time doing oral to a girlfriend, something I can’t believe I did, I couldn’t wait to do it again. I never lost the enjoyment of guys and now still look forward to being with other girlfriends. My then found sexuality opened up more enjoyment knowing I don’t need to choose.

[couplers 4,645]

... After the first time doing oral to a girlfriend, something I can’t believe I did, I couldn’t wait to do it again...

My first time was with a girl that my husband and I were having a threesome with. It wasn't my first FMF, but it was the first where the girl was clear she had a Lesbian side. After my husband had just ejaculated into her I felt compelled to go down on her and loved it. After that I sometimes played with her alone and she was the first girl to do oral on me. I loved that too.

 

... I never lost the enjoyment of guys and now still look forward to being with other girlfriends. My then found sexuality opened up more enjoyment knowing I don’t need to choose.

The difference for me is that oral sex on a guy is usually either foreplay or postplay - although I do like a guy cumming in my mouth and like to swallow, I prefer he finish in my pussy. With another woman, the goal of me eating her pussy is always an orgasm. (Except I guess in those circumstances when I'm exciting her for a guy.)

[Bluespruce1 706]

I love both. I love feeling a guys cock get hard in my hands while I work on him and love the way the head of a penis feels in my mouth. I also love the way a nice clean pussy tastes and feels as I explore her with my tongue.

[couplers 4,645]

I love both. I love feeling a guys cock get hard in my hands ...

I like to take a limp penis in my mouth and fell it get hard and grow so much I can't keep it all in. Usually this is after his first orgasm since guys get hard too quick before the first one.

 

... I also love the way a nice clean pussy tastes and feels as I explore her with my tongue.

I like to eat pussy that is clean, but not fresh, if you know what I mean. Same above with cock after it's been inside my or another vagina.

[ViSexual 1,008]

I guess I first did oral on a guy out of curiosity. That first time was pretty cool. Now I've done more but never enjoyed it again like the first. I've loved doing oral on just about every female I've had the pleasure of being with.

[PSULioness 856]

I have been doing oral on guys for my whole sexual life. It feels so natural to me. There is something about the first time with a new guy. I have been told I am pretty good at it.

 

Oral sex on a girlfriend is relatively new to me. I know I am now experienced doing it but I do overthink what I’m doing. I try to do things I know I like being done to me. I also worry what my partner is thinking.

 

When having oral with a gf I feel I have to make her orgasm, with a guy oral is not always the end. A blowjob is foreplay, oral sex on a gf is an ongoing act.

[PeterJ 948]

Oral sex on a girlfriend is relatively new to me. I know I am now experienced doing it but I do overthink what I’m doing. I try to do things I know I like being done to me.

 

I have no doubt at all your GFs appreciate your attentions, Lioness. But when I once told a bi playmate/friend that I assumed women were better at giving other women head than men were, she demurred. She said that in her experience women just assumed that women they were playing with would respond to the same oral techniques they did. Which might not be the case. Men, on the other hand, were less likely to arrive between a woman’s thighs with a preconceived notion of what their new partner wanted.

[padoc 1,703]

Me?? Im just happy to be there and I try to react to HER reactions to what Im doing.

[Shore2Please 612]

I am very uneasy doing oral to a woman. I have only had sex with a woman a few times and never know if she enjoys it. I have much more experience with a penis. I know exactly what I am doing and can read all the signs of a pleased man.

[Lee714 81]

Have you tried 3 way 69?

[couplers 4,645]

I am very uneasy doing oral to a woman. I have only had sex with a woman a few times and never know if she enjoys it..

 

I had trepidation the first time I went down on a woman, but my husband had just finished fucking her, she made it clear during foreplay that she liked girls, and I just had to do it. I don't know how I compared to other female lovers she had, but as I've learned to appreciate, there are very few bad pussy lickings.

[Yourfunfriends 45]

I really enjoy both, but if I had to pick I'd say giving oral to a man is more enjoyable.