Guest 15 Posted July 14, 2019 An ethnic group or ethnicity is a category of people who identify with each other based on common ancestral, social, cultural, or national experiences. Unlike most other social groups, ethnicity is primarily an inherited status. Swinging with a ethnicity other then your own could be considered exotic to use a sexy-ur word then experimental. It could also be called a fetish in some circles. Thoughts and comments....... **Disclaimer...Yup it's another label question on a swinger website. It's also a thread title that people can have a intelligent civil conversation about. So I might I suggest if "labels " offend you , please skip over the thread , it really really wasn't meant for you. Apologies in advance that you had to endure reading the thread to this point. Quote Share this post Link to post
Guest 15 Posted July 15, 2019 We find New Englanders exotic mostly due to their accents. Bostonians Have a certain swagger that is a huge turn on. Quote Share this post Link to post
Numex 2,417 Posted July 16, 2019 Among our group there are two couples (all born outside the US) of ethnicities, which in the global view would be considered adversaries, to put it mildly. They swapped at the wive's insistence, in separate rooms at the husbands' insistence, often and hard at first. For all of us physical and cultural variety as expressed in sex is the allure of swinging. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
cplnuswing 4,713 Posted July 16, 2019 We find people of different ethnicity to be interesting, not in a "let's see how much better ours is than yours" sort of way, but in a sincere appreciation of all the variety that makes up the world we live in. But, to be honest about it, we hail from and currently live in very homogeneous sorts of places, so our exposure to anyone different than ourselves is sadly very limited. We did meet a German couple at a club one time and had a very interesting conversation with them about their lives, what brought them to our neck of the woods, and what swinging was like where they call home. There was some age difference there (us older, them younger), so I don't think anyone probably thought much about playing, but we did have more than just a passing conversation with them, which all seemed to enjoy. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
PSULioness 856 Posted July 17, 2019 As a New Yorker living in New Jersey all I can say is Fuhgetaboutit. Most of the people we have been with are from a foreign land...Pennsylvania. I mean who eats Scrapple? Cheesesteak, Yes! Whoopie Pies? Yes yes! But Scrapple? And my husband and I agree, playing with an Eagles fan is very difficult. And they think we talk funny. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
couplers 4,645 Posted July 17, 2019 ... Most of the people we have been with are from a foreign land...Pennsylvania... You need to travel more. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Alura 2,774 Posted July 17, 2019 I agree with Ten Bulls (aka "Mr. Ol' Tex), Foreman of the Promontory Ranch, who ascribed to the theory that the mixing of races produces beautiful children. That's been my observation, too. I think we'd all do well with more ethnic interaction. Maybe we wouldn't be so prejudiced. Quote Share this post Link to post
MrandMrsA 76 Posted July 17, 2019 Swinging with a ethnicity other then your own could be considered exotic to use a sexy-ur word then experimental. It could also be called a fetish in some circles. We don't consider being with other ethnicities exotic, experimental or a fetish. We will meet with anyone. If there's chemistry then nothing else matters. One caveat is that we both agree that it is hot seeing our partner with someone of contrasting skin color. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
EastInWest 1,524 Posted July 17, 2019 We don't consider being with other ethnicities exotic, experimental or a fetish. We will meet with anyone. If there's chemistry then nothing else matters. One caveat is that we both agree that it is hot seeing our partner with someone of contrasting skin color. One of our two regular play couples, the wife is a native-born Filipina. (I feel like I have to stipulate that this isn't a "mail-order bride" thing, she emigrated with her family when she was young.) She has that very lovely golden/olive color and thick cum on her skin is really hot. Beyond that, we've only played with other caucasians, but wouldn't hesitate if the right opportunity came up. Quote Share this post Link to post
NWAtlSwing 522 Posted July 22, 2019 Well, East coast girls are hip, and I really dig those styles they wear. And the Southern girls with the way they talk, they knock me out when I'm down here. The Mid-West farmer's daughters really make you feel alright (in fact I married one) And the Northern girls with the way they kiss, they keep you warm at night. Quote Share this post Link to post
Billygoat 443 Posted July 22, 2019 We’ve met hundreds....maybe thousands of people in the lifestyle over the years. Most by association....same event or party. Many chatting...texting...some we meet....some we didn’t. Some we’ve become long term friends with.....some FWB. and a smaller circle we’ve known, mixed with, socialized with and played with. We never had been asked let alone announced our ethnicity, political views, religion etc. There have been requests for HWP, smoker/non smoker, drinker/non drinker, soft/hard swap etc etc. We were never shopping for an experience.....and we’ve enjoyed many great times. We like the connection at the moment....circumstances of the meet. We greatly enjoy the Christmas gift experience....never knowing what you got....until you open the gift...... Attitude....personality....life experiences seem to define each person and couple we meet. Accents, skin tone are the spice of life. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post