GoldCoCouple 4,068 Posted August 12, 2019 How many time do I need to say it? Love, trust and communication. It sounds like the love and communication is going in the right way, but she still isn't sure of the trust part. Also, as long as you are up front with the other couple that all you are looking for right now is soft swap, there shouldn't be a problem. As long as they know what the boundaries are at the start, you should be able to make your (her) fantisy come true, especially since you are already going to clubs. Find another couple that goes there and set it up! Quote Share this post Link to post