First club experience in the books

[certero 28]

The wife and I went to our first club/resort this past weekend. The place has on site rooms/pool as well as a nightclub and playroom. I told my wife prior to going.. I'm not sure 100% what to expect but I feel like Ive been waiting my whole life for this weekend. Neither of us has ever done anything close to this but I knew deep down that we were going to have fun.When I arrived at the place I knew I was home.. LOL Spent the afternoon out by the pool/hot tub. Ive never been to a nude anything but I dove right in with that and adjusted rather quickly lol. My wife was a little more reserved and decided to stay in a bathing suit although I had her breast exposed pretty quick. LOL Later that night we did the nightclub for a bit then headed for the group playroom. Just like I imagined I picked a spot and fucked my wife's brains out in front of a bunch of strangers.Almost like it was second nature We both LOVED the experience. We didn't play with anyone else etc.. Just enjoyed the whole experience together.

 

A couple of things I was curious about in general.. Like I said before fucking in front of people came quite easy to me and my wife was was certainty able to relax enough to enjoy herself thoroughly. Did the first time for some of you in a setting like this seem oddly familiar as well? lol

 

Second question is.. After reflecting on the night and our time in the playroom area one thing both of us kind of took note of in hindsight was that there seemed to be more couples watching than fucking. In the group area you are not allowed to wear clothes(except lingerie etc) so everyone is generally walking around in towels. At first I assumed that everyone walking through the playroom was looking for a spot to fuck but later when I thought about it I didn't see as many bed spaces taken up as I did people. It was almost like alot of couples were just there to watch. I have absolutely no problem with that but was just wondering if any of you notice the same at the places where you go.

[GoldCoCouple 4,068]

Live porn...what could be better. Trust me, those other couples were fucking like crazy at some point. Some may have already been done, others just getting started, but they all got fucked.

[padoc 1,704]

Were you at Secrets??? Try Trapeze in FLL on Saturday night about midnight….. There's a whole lot of fucking going on! Of course there are couples who just make a circuit through both sides of the play area but a large percentage of the couples in the play area are there, well…to PLAY!! And yes, out first club experience seemed easy and natural for us as well, after we crossed the parking lot and entered the building. Somehow, our trepidation departed as we were paying the club fee.

[certero 28]

Were you at Secrets??? Try Trapeze in FLL on Saturday night about midnight….. There's a whole lot of fucking going on! Of course there are couples who just make a circuit through both sides of the play area but a large percentage of the couples in the play area are there, well…to PLAY!! And yes, out first club experience seemed easy and natural for us as well, after we crossed the parking lot and entered the building. Somehow, our trepidation departed as we were paying the club fee.

 

Yes we were at Secrets. We both loved it there. We really didn't get to chat with too many people but most everyone seemed pretty cool. We are already planning another trip. I heard of Trapeze but we are a little far from there but do plan on checking that out as well. How would you say it compares to secrets?

[padoc 1,704]

Trapeze is way more upscale than Secrets. You will be amazed. From your part of Florida, it's a long drive so we'd suggest you plan a weekend. There is a Holiday Inn Express that's very clean and nice and reasonably priced about 6 blocks from the club. It's much nicer and way quieter than the hotels close by.Saturday nights are couples only and are generally very busy but there is a lot to see and plenty of opportunity to dance or chat with other couples. Friday, single guys are welcome but there are a lot of couples there as well and the guys are limited to one side of the play area and are generally quite respectful. Sundays are often well attended but a little less frenetic than Saturday. We have been involved in this hobby for 15 years and Trapeze is the club by which we judge all others. Give it a shot, you really WILL be amazed.

[certero 28]

Trapeze is way more upscale than Secrets. You will be amazed. From your part of Florida, it's a long drive so we'd suggest you plan a weekend. There is a Holiday Inn Express that's very clean and nice and reasonably priced about 6 blocks from the club. It's much nicer and way quieter than the hotels close by.Saturday nights are couples only and are generally very busy but there is a lot to see and plenty of opportunity to dance or chat with other couples. Friday, single guys are welcome but there are a lot of couples there as well and the guys are limited to one side of the play area and are generally quite respectful. Sundays are often well attended but a little less frenetic than Saturday. We have been involved in this hobby for 15 years and Trapeze is the club by which we judge all others. Give it a shot, you really WILL be amazed.

 

Thanks for the tip Padoc. Its much appreciated. We live over in the Tampa Bay area. Its a little haul down there but still definitely do able. From the way you make it sound Trapeze will definitely be on our list and we will make the trip down there.

[TnA83 314]

We had fun at the Caliente resort close to Tampa. Stayed four nights, brought military costumes and everything. Turns out we came to one of the biggest bondage weekends of the year. We were pretty "deer-in-the-headlights." My poor wife was on overload.

 

We didn't go as far as getting it on in front of people, but my favorite part was groping my wife on the dance floor.

[certero 28]

We had fun at the Caliente resort close to Tampa. Stayed four nights, brought military costumes and everything. Turns out we came to one of the biggest bondage weekends of the year. We were pretty "deer-in-the-headlights." My poor wife was on overload.

 

We didn't go as far as getting it on in front of people, but my favorite part was groping my wife on the dance floor.

 

Hi TnA83. My wife and I were talking about Caliente the other day. What did you think of it. What was the general age range?

[TnA83 314]

We are both 59. Not boring though! The age range was all types, just as body types, etc., there were all kinds there. We did not indulge with others, but I did enjoy groping her on the dance floor. The bondage convention that Saturday was a little much for us, but I was informed that this was not a typical weekend. I would certainly return but there are quite a few that I would check out beforehand.

[njbm 2,901]

Caliente can be fun if you run into compatible people. Doesn’t always happen.

 

Trapeze is one of the best swing clubs. One of our first swinging experiences happened there.

[padoc 1,704]

You will have a seriously erotic weekend if you drive over to Trapeze. Caliente is much closer to you but as NJBM indicates, it's often "iffy" there. So much so that we have limited play time money and time to spend it and while Caliente and Trapeze are equal distance/time from SWFL, we've decided to spend to our time and money at Trapeze when we go somewhere for a weekend of debauchery. Trap is much more of a sure thing for swingers than is Caliente. That's not to say that Caliente is a bad experience, it isn't but if you're really looking for a swinger weekend, Trap is the way to go.

[Roliin75 53]

Another vote for Trapeze. It really sets the bar very high and we have never been to a club that holds a candle to it. It's worth the trip! Every night is slightly different, but they are all great nights. Their "slower" Sundays are still better than any other club.