TheBiggerMan 83 Posted August 20, 2019 How do you fantasize it unfolding? Do you start out watching? Are you in the middle? Do you give encouragement. Have you ever had it actually happen? Describe your scenario. Quote Share this post Link to post
couplers 4,638 Posted August 20, 2019 How do you fantasize it unfolding? Do you start out watching? Are you in the middle? Do you give encouragement. Have you ever had it actually happen? Describe your scenario. With all that has transpired since, the beginnings were tame. Short version: I broke up with my fiance Red but keep having sex with him, met the guy David who later became my husband and started fucking him while still fucking Red, hubby said it was fine with him. (That moment, when I admitted still screwing Red and David said that it was OK, was the most charged moment of my life.) They met a few times socially afterwards, a few weeks later David started watching me and Red have sex then take his turn. (Red always likes to be first, David likes going second.) Later we tried DPs and such. Since two other women have joined us and we have a poly family with children. Quote Share this post Link to post
TheBiggerMan 83 Posted August 21, 2019 That sounds like MFM. I was asking about MMF. Quote Share this post Link to post
shy_couple 459 Posted August 21, 2019 Some people see this difference. Others do not. The some people believe that it’s key where you place the “M.” MMF Male having sex with Male and second Male having sex with female. Others believe that MFM always has the “F” in the middle with no play or interaction between the men. Personally it’s all the same difference and individuals involved negotiate rules depending if guys are bi. Guess that would mean MFFM would be only bi women and no swapping? And MFMF would be straight people swapping. When it really is a foursome. Sometimes there is girl play, sometimes Possibility of male bi play. To me it’s all letters and up to parties involved to discuss rules of engagement. Quote Share this post Link to post
TheBiggerMan 83 Posted August 21, 2019 A big hint is I posted on the bisexual section. Quote Share this post Link to post
lcmim 1,082 Posted August 21, 2019 Alphabet soup it can indeed become. Especially after four people. With three there is the likelihood that one of the three will be the focus. It just seems to work out that way. I never make the assumption that MFM excludes MM interaction. That is why it always comes up in conversation. I do tend to make the assumption with MMF that MM interaction is expected. Gender-wise the same theory applies to FMF and FFM. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
padoc 1,703 Posted August 24, 2019 We always assume that someone looking for MMF is seeking more than incidental male to male contact. Im not sure if its exactly code for bi-sexual play but it seems likely. If we invite another male to play, we do so because Mrs Doc wants additional male attention, she wants to be the focus of the afternoon or evening. For us MFM works, MMF will not. Quote Share this post Link to post
Bluespruce1 706 Posted August 26, 2019 We are both bisexual so this is very much our thing. We play with a few other bi couples and singles so and in many cases prefer them. My personal favorite involves a very close friend that we have played with for a few years. My best orgasms with him occur when I am on top, reverse and my husband is attending to my pussy while his cock is in me. His penis is porn star material so we both enjoy it. My husband will guide him inside me and occasionally take him out and give him oral. I love watching and love the way his mouth feels on me while i’m taking one that’s a bit bigger than usual for me. After I’m done we both take care of my husband - they are amazing encounters. 3 1 Quote Share this post Link to post