A fivesome?

[adamgunn 1,460]

Let me pose a scenario here, find out what you’d think in such a situation.

 

You, Angela and Bob, are fairly new swingers, have had several full swaps with three couples. You become good friends with another couple, Christie and Don, have foursomes with them once a month or so. One night after the four of you have played, Christie says to the two of you, “So, I’ve got this friend of mine, Ed. We have MFM threesomes with him and every once in awhile I go over to his house. He’s absolutely fantastic between the sheets. We were thinking that the next time we get together, we might have him join the four of us. What do you think?”

 

How do you, Angela or Bob, reply?

[lovefest04 699]

My response would be: Love to meet him. Let's set up a dinner and get to know each other.

 

However, we've had many MFM encounters and you didn't say Angela and Bob had, just couples. Was that by design, or just the way you've moved? Is Angela up for being pleasured by two men? Does Bob have and bi interests? Is Ed open?

 

I'd be a bit flattered that Christine and Don and open to sharing Ed. that, to me shows a lot of trust and a fairly deep connection. Referring sex partners does have it's risks.

 

At some point, I'd want to set up or understand the ground rules. Ie- Can Angela and I play with Ed without Christine and Don?

 

In the big picture finding quality trustworthy and pre-vetted partners is, I think, rare, so in my mind what a gift.

[padoc 1,703]

We'd probably jump at it. If we were comfortable enough to get naked and swap more than once with Christie and Bob and they are comfortable enough with that guy for her to play alone with him, we'd take their word and meet for fun.

We had something similar happen to us in 2006, shortly after we moved to Florida. It was our 1st 5-some but it was so much fun that we repeated it several times with the three. We were comfortable with the couple, they were comfortable with the guy and the five of us just clicked well together. If this is a real opportunity for the OP, go for it!!!!!

[shy_couple 459]

We had almost but not exactly the Same situation. Connected with a couple online. Decided to meet at a club. Last minute they had a girlfriend want to join. She came along and a good time was had by all.

[EastInWest 1,524]

We'd be completely happy to be introduced to additional playmates by a trusted partner.

[vaitape 35]

Absolutely. Fun is fun.

[couplers 4,645]

Our poly family is a fivesome.

[kittyswinger 260]

My reply will probably like that I would love to meet Ed for dinner or a drink before our next play. Almost similar situation when we (mfm) tried a 4some/'mini gb' before and one of the guys recommended another m to join us for the play.

[Guest]

We had several MFM before we tried swaps or foursomes. For the first few, the idea of a 5th person would have scared us. But after a few, we would have been eager to add another male had someone offered.

[2quirky806 52]

That sounds fun. I would like to try that some time. Me and the wife as of now only do mfm’s we’ve talked about maybe trying a mfmm. We might do a full swap sometime. And adding a 5 th m to would be fun. I like to add a f but wife isn’t that bi. Lol

[adamgunn 1,460]

>>> I like to add a f but wife isn’t that bi.

 

Three boys and two girls? Everyone will have something pleasurable without bi-play, trust me.

[Fitlakecouple 451]

We invited our single guy to play with a couple we swap with regularly. An additional guy added a new dynamic to the group play mf + mfm and the men could easily switch between the women. No rules about who could play with whom during or after the session. If they want to invite him to their bedroom w/o us it's fine. We will do it again.

[cplnluv1 872]

As others mentioned meeting him first is a good idea.

Even when meeting a couple, I think others will agree, many combinations occur. An MFM or FMF all happen. At times one of us needs a break and the others continue play.

If you are a straight swap couple and only like one on one play tell your friends. Be honest if it doesn’t interest you.

[Numex 2,416]

... My splendid husband even let me meet the guy solo for a couple of play dates before we all got together as a group. The solo dates and the group play were fantastic.

We have found that, if you can get to that point, playing solo greatly enhance both the group sex and the regular married couple sex. Alone sex is different, and even for many veteran swinging couples, sort of taboo.