Is There A Market

[soonerforever 17]

for just a husband to watch a private couple?

Been to a couple of clubs with wife, but between the music being so loud and so dimly lit, I was unable to really see what was going on in the play rooms.

Right now slowly reintroducing wife to the idea....looking now for watch/soft....Thanks

[cplnuswing 4,713]

I think so, but it will be at a club. People don't like being watched like animals in a zoo, but if they are playing in an open playroom, there's some expectation there that others will be watching. It all comes down to how you do it and the vibe you are giving off.

 

Is she interested in just having sex together but in a room where others are having sex too? That's a good way to ease into things. If you do that, I'd hit the playroom early when there are just a few people in there. The less crowded it is, the less of a group play vibe and so fewer worries about things moving too fast and getting asked for something she's not ready for. Is that what you mean by "private couple"? More one on one vibe than a group thing? Either way, a polite "no thanks" should take care of any issues, but still, totally understand the concerns.

[cplnuswing 4,713]

Hotel takeovers are also a option. It's going to depend on whom is the sponsor and organizer.

 

Couples get much more leeway to what you are looking for in your question then single males or married men with hall passes. The best thing about hotel takeovers verses clubs is that you can go back to your room with your wife in the moment and effectively be taken out of the swinger situation and setting. There is that comfort zone and safe space for a newbie couple of closing your door disgusting and digesting what you have gotten yourselves into.

 

Good points. We've never been to a hotel takeover, just clubs, so that option slipped by me but I agree that may be something to seriously look into.

 

It is also true that couples won't be looked upon the same way a single/unaccompanied male would be for watching. Taking that thought further, I would try to pick an event/venue where single males are not allowed or if they are, their numbers are limited and some constraints are put on what they can and can't do. A bunch of single males being left up to their own devices is going to put everyone on their guard, so better to stick with couples only when people will likely be more relaxed.