mexicolovers 24 Posted September 22, 2019 Can’t seem to find anyone to talk to let alone play with! Quote Share this post Link to post
SW_PA_Couple 4,026 Posted September 24, 2019 OK, I'll bite. What strategies have you employed in your search and/or at what venues? Swingers' clubs? Swinger hook-up Web sites? Bars? Pubs? Street corners? Laundromats? Maybe we can lend some advice. Quote Share this post Link to post
enhancer 1,586 Posted September 24, 2019 We live in Saskatoon! Love to be able to tell you it is easy to find people here, but it is not. This whole province is a swinger dead zone. No clubs anywhere near, no set bars where people meet and no real open community to speak of. This leaves online as the only option for finding people and even that is no walk in the park here. The only reason we have had any luck over the years is, because we really put ourselves out there with pics and info on our online profiles. If you don’t you will not get anywhere. The most common sites used here are AFF which is getting worse by the day with an abundance of clueless cock pic losers, Swing Heaven and Swingtowns. If you don’t pay to be a member at these sites they are all but useless. Good luck too you and remember you get what you are willing to put in! Quote Share this post Link to post
mexicolovers 24 Posted September 24, 2019 Thanks - my left hand and my wife’s filthy imagination is our only consistent luck. My wife talked to a couple of bicurious lady by e-mail and phone (yes we’re sure they were actually women) but they inevitably chickened out. We talked to a woman in the know (bisexual and out there) and there is a scene here in Saskatoon sk of some sort but we haven’t connected up to it yet. Tried multiple swinger/lifestyle websites - between fake profiles and zero people near us has made that a lousy option. The only couple we known who are swingers are related to someone we know and not particularly interesting to us. Craig’s list is to intimidating (did try it but never worked out). We had an escort (not a great experience) and had a few close calls (meet at last night at resort - for them or us). Strippers are always fun to chat with but that’s not a “real experience” even if you take her to the back room. We aren’t going to advertise our lifestyle- adult kids to consider and some family would drop us. I guess swinging will just have to stay a dream for now. Quote Share this post Link to post