1st time you watched your wife with a well-endowed man.

[CandT33 24]

The very 1st time...

Was it exciting, nerve racking, defeating?

 

What was the conversation after the fact, did it effect you two negatively?

Also did you discuss it before it happened?

 

We are new and I am just unsure how it will effect me and/or her.

She has been with 3 other guys since we started about 3/4 months ago.

I have not had to deal with the above question yet, so looking for some insight from others.

[njbm 2,901]

We found our early experiences exciting and neither of us felt jealous. You have to do it to find out how you feel. Give it a try. You don’t have to continue. It’s a life experience!

[Guest]

She had probably done 8 or so guys, MFM with he and me as well as a few swaps before we ran into a guy what was significantly larger than all the rest of us. It was interesting because we had seen him nude before and he just didn’t look any larger than the rest of us. But, when it got to the point that she started stroking and then sucking him, the thing grew like Pinochio’s nose and she just went crazy over it, first orally, during which it seemed to enter her mind that she had to show herself that she could get it all down her throat, and after a few gurgles and gags she did. During this whole process, she was so interested in it’s length that she wanted to see and watch it so at one point, she have both of his testicles in her mouth, stroking it, looking out towards the tend and then up at me. That’s not something she normally does, especially not with strangers. Then, once she got it down her throat, she said, I want to fuck it, and did. It took him a while to get it in, and she kept cautioning him about how large it was and what a small girl she is. Once in, he was very gentle, short, slow strokes, not really thrusts, lots of gasping and then deep breathing one her part. Once he got it going with some normal level of motion and speed, she was getting off almost instantly, raise her hips up to his and began fucking him hard and fast from below.

 

Now, regarding your question, the intersting thing about this was that this was the only time that, on the next day and again the next weekend, she wanted to go back in hopes that he would be there again. Now, perhaps I should have a bit of jealousy or insecurity about all of this but, truly it was a turn on to see how she handled it and how turned on it made. Moreover, at our house, I never ever hear her say, size doesn’t matter anymore.

[PSULioness 859]

Our play is mostly at parties and we many times split up and just have fun. Most of the guys are just normal guys. I think in any group there are big boobs and small(I’m small there ) The same can be said about the men, dicks not boobs. I may not sound shy even though I am. I am not aggressive at these parties. There is one guy everyone of my friends know is unusually large. Girls talk. I had shied away from him. After a few parties my friends urged me to approach him.

 

I built up my nerve at one party. He is such a nice guy and we had fun.

 

Later my husband said he saw me and asked me about it. I didn’t know he watched.

 

He said he watched and was worried at first. He wanted to make sure I wasn’t going to be hurt, I wasn’t. He watched me laughing. I said it was a nervous laugh. He said I looked like I was having a good time, and he was happy the guy was treating me well.

 

One of my girlfriends saw him watching and dragged him away but it was after my new friend and I were at it.

 

We are now all friends and laugh about our first time.

[TricianMike 788]

Our play is mostly at parties and we many times split up and just have fun. Most of the guys are just normal guys. I think in any group there are big boobs and small(I’m small there ) The same can be said about the men, dicks not boobs. I may not sound shy even though I am. I am not aggressive at these parties. There is one guy everyone of my friends know is unusually large. Girls talk. I had shied away from him. After a few parties my friends urged me to approach him.

I built up my nerve at one party. He is such a nice guy and we had fun.

Later my husband said he saw me and asked me about it. I didn’t know he watched.

 

We are now all friends and laugh about our first time.

 

Would you be happier if he came closer and watched up close? Would you want him to join in?

Happy you sound like you enjoyed.

[adamgunn 1,461]

MIke, I know we're getting off topic here, but . . .

 

My wife and I are into swinging and hotwifing. When we have MFMs, usually at our home, I love to watch.

 

But when we go to parties, like PSU we split up. When I see my wife having fun I might observe for a little while, but before too long one of the other females will approach me (or vice versa) and I'll start having fun with her, leaving my wife to her own devices.

 

It's a situational thing. . .

[padoc 1,704]

We do the same thing at parties with our snowbird group. We either know everyone there or those we don't have been vetted and invited by the host so I'm quite comfortable with Mrs Doc going off to a room with one or more of the guys. One or two of them are quite well hung and thick. I've watched her with one or more of them and am always amazed at how incredibly sexy she looks in that kind of setting. Once Im sure she's having fun, I wander off for some of my own. Occasionally, I bring a woman back to the room with Mrs Doc and her partner/s and join in and sometimes we'll just watch.

 

The first time she did that with a well hung guy I watched till she rode him to her first very wet orgasm of the night. It was simply erotic, like my own personal porn. Yes, the guy was larger than I but I was neither jealous or intimidated, she cums like that when she rides me or pretty much anybody else who can hit the spot. Yes we did talk about it afterwards and even the conversation was arousing for us. There was nothing negative about it. In fact, the snowbirds start to arrive in mid October and we're already excited about our friends being back and the opportunity for enjoying the variety they represent.

[Bluespruce1 707]

Our first time with a much bigger guy was at Hedo. Previous to that all of our full swaps with couples or single play involved average guys. This guy looked pretty average at the pool but when we got back to the room he ballooned up to about 8”. I could tell that my husband was concerned but we played and had a great time.

 

The next day we really didn’t debrief and just rolled into our routine of morning cocktails, hitting the nude beach and pool and then dinner and night club. At the club and after a lot of drinks he finally asked me how he was. I told him that his big penis was surprise and that he felt good - he was a great partner and knew how to use it. He asked me if he thought that his wife was satisfied with his smaller cock. I told him that we didn’t talk but that it clearly looked like she had a couple of orgasms. We both have a lot of partners and talk a lot about our experiences good or bad.

 

I’ve shared my thoughts on big cocks here before so I won’t repeat. Bottom line - some guys can handle watching their wife get taken by a bigger guy and others can’t. It’s about communication.

[PSULioness 859]

TricianMike said:

Would you be happier if he came closer and watched up close? Would you want him to join in?

Happy you sound like you enjoyed.

 

At the time I didn’t know he was watching. My husband is always welcome to join. It wouldn’t have changed the degree of fun.

My husband now knows the guy better.

 

That first time my fear was the guy was a womanizer and didn’t care about me. He knows he his big and was funny about it. My husband even asked me later what was so funny. He was very complimentary. When he came time he told me to take my time.

[M1F2KTJ 473]

I was surprised to see how big his cock was. I was excited to know what she was about to experience. She is always nervous with a new playmate and she had her eyes closed as she waited for him. It was awesome to watch her reaction as he went into her.

 

She never had a cock that big. She was experiencing feelings she will never have with me. I was jealous and happy for her at the same time.

 

It was a good experience for her and we played with him many times. It never affected our feelings for each other or our marriage. It was just another fun thing to do together. It made our marriage stronger.

[nusofties 54]

So size does matter?

[Numex 2,459]

.. . Once he got it going with some normal level of motion and speed, she was getting off almost instantly, raise her hips up to his and began fucking him hard and fast from below.

 

... Now, perhaps I should have a bit of jealousy or insecurity about all of this but, truly it was a turn on to see how she handled it and how turned on it made..

Kind of the same for us - there's one guy in our group that really gets my wife off, he's her favorite sex partner. And like you, I'm not jealous, just happy she's has this to enjoy, whether I am there, his wife is there, or they're alone. BTW though, he's not especially endowed.

[Numex 2,459]

.. I think in any group there are big boobs and small(I’m small there )...

Size doesn't matter.

[jeff111 44]

So size does matter?

 

Only if you want it to. And mainly for the husbands.

[LaidBackFun 36]

We had been to a few clubs and a couple house parties. The guys were pretty much the same size wise. We then attended a private party and we knew about half the guests. One gal who recognized my wife pointed out a guy to her that she described as 'packing' and energizer bunny stamina. Later in the evening, I went looking for her and found her with the guy and another couple in an upstairs bedroom. He was between her legs performing oral on her. By the look on her face she was really enjoying his attention. He then moved up and positioned himself above her and I could see he had a huge cock. I thought OMG … the head was the size of a fist. I had immediate concerns/anxiety and jealousy. He was very careful as he entered her going slowly and in total control. I'll always remember that scene and the gasps my wife let out as he filled her completely. I watched as they began thrusting but turned around and left as I suddenly felt uneasy watching. We later talked about it and all she would say was that it was different and she was worried that he wouldn't be able to cum as he took so long.

[southdenvercpl 24]

The first time she was with someone bigger than me she was really enjoying, but it didn’t bother me until his wife said to me that he was going to ruin her for me. I thought that was a rude thing to say. I’m not in this lifestyle to compete with anyone and I can satisfy my wife thank you very much! Lol

 

Anyway she doesn’t get upset when I enjoy someone with bigger tits than hers, so why should I get upset if she likes someone with a bigger cock than mine? That’s kind of the fun of it being with someone that isn’t the same as your partner.

[couplers 4,717]

.. there's one guy in our group that really gets my wife off, he's her favorite sex partner..

Among the three guys I'm fucking, my favorite and who will get me off on any particular day changes. Depends on my mood, how I'm feeling. Their dicks are all about the same size, but not exactly the same, it's how they use them. Some days it's important for me to go to one then the other to be satisfied.

[bbarnsworth 2,652]

The very 1st time...

Was it exciting, nerve racking, defeating?

 

What was the conversation after the fact, did it effect you two negatively?

Also did you discuss it before it happened?

 

We are new and I am just unsure how it will effect me and/or her.

She has been with 3 other guys since we started about 3/4 months ago.

I have not had to deal with the above question yet, so looking for some insight from others.

 

I think there's a fear some people have that your wife getting to play with a far bigger man will result in her leaving you for the other man. Any woman that I cared to be in a relationship would not be as shallow as that. Sure, my wife enjoys a man with a large cock. But, let's say she found some incredibly well endowed man who could barely fit comfortably in her, who gave her unbelievable sex 10x better than anything I ever gave her, who was able to make her cum over and over again...should I be jealous? I don't think so. Personally, I'd be very happy for her that some guy sent her over the moon that much. She makes an active choice to be with me, to be married to me. It's not a choice she made just on the day we got married; it's a choice she continues to make all the time. She could leave me if she wanted to, but doesn't. We constantly work on our relationship to make sure it stays very close, and very stable...because we both like being in our relationship. We don't to lose that. Some gentleman with an enormous cock who gives her phenomenal sex isn't going to change that. Sex is not the bricks of our relationship; just some of the mortar.

 

If you're insecure about your own cock size (relative here; assuming significantly smaller than theoretical large-cock play partner), you shouldn't be. Your wife chooses to be with you. She's coming home with/to you. If you're worried that once your wife has an enormous cock she will never be satisfied with yours again, be at ease. It is highly unlikely this would ever be the case. Women's vaginas are quite capable of passing a baby and then very much enjoy a normal size cock, so it's not a question of your wife being irreparably stretch out or something. It's also not a question of a huge cock making it impossible for your wife to enjoy a normal size cock.

 

If you're worried about how you might react to seeing her with a man who had a huge cock, I wouldn't worry about it. If you're into swinging for the right reasons, you very likely enjoy your wife getting great pleasure from playing. This is no different; if your wife enjoys it, likely so will you.

 

Of all the men my wife has played with in swinging, just one had a truly enormous cock. A couple were large; 8 inches and reasonably thick, but just one was truly huge. This guy's cock was enormous. Quite long, and very thick. She only got to play with him once, but it was all of an afternoon and early evening, with multiple breaks, and multiple sex sessions. She spent a lot of time with his penis in her. An issue we ran into was that condoms were difficult for him, in that it was hard for him to maintain an erection with a condom. It wasn't a story; we saw this in action. This was one time where we agreed to relax our rule about the use of condoms for someone so new to us. He agreed with not using a condom, and things got better after that. The first time my wife took him inside her without the condom, the sounds she made we absolutely delightful. She was thoroughly, thoroughly enjoying his huge penis inside of her. It took some time for her to adjust to his size, and further still for her to adjust to taking his length, but that was part of the delight for her. He was very gentle with her. Later on he was able to thrust inside of her quite vigorously without worrying about hurting her. For my part, I found it incredible to watch that huge penis thrust in and out of her. I'd never seen such a huge penis, and it was fascinating to watch, even though I'm not bi (well, maybe a slight twinge, but 99% hetero). At the end of it all, my wife was thoroughly spent, and slightly sore. She had a very good time.

 

Years on, I still fantasize about that memory, and even now find myself getting hard thinking about it. I asked my wife recently which play partner has been her favorite over the years. Interestingly, this fellow did not enter into the top three. Her number one was a fellow whom she got to play with for a couple of years who had a cock that was a bit smaller than I am. Sadly, he has a girlfriend now who isn't interested in swinging, or for him to have my wife as a girlfriend as well. He respects that, and so my wife doesn't get to play with him anymore.

 

So, the take away from this is that a huge cock shouldn't have a negative effect on you or your wife. If it does, I'd suggest having some very open conversations with her about it, to discuss your feelings and thoughts and work them out together. If a huge cock causes issues, there some heart to heart talk that needs to happen about swinging in general, and not just about swinging with me who have huge cocks.

[ToeDippers 83]

We are still new to swinging as we only have had a few experiences. To me every man has been enormous while I really know most were about as hung as I am. None were humongous up to one couple we met last month. A swing couple we know invited us to join another couple. My wife was told beforehand that the friend was pretty big and she told me before our meet.

 

She was afraid for a week and I kept encouraging her to enjoy. Also said she could also stop anytime she wanted. She made me promise to not leave her alone with him.

 

Night of our party he was pretty big. Again to me every man we have met looked big, this one was really bigger. She looked scared. I again encouraged her. The wife encouraged her too saying it is big but it doesn’t hurt. It was a funny conversation to listen to. The third wife and mine played with him and finally it came time to do the deed. As promised I strayed my wife squeezing my hand as he entered her. Deep gasps and moans as he slowly put it in. It almost sounded like her birthing class.

 

I wasn’t as intimidated as I thought I would be. Once they got going it was pretty much the same as I saw before with smaller men.

 

She later told me it was much bigger going in and then felt good. I was happy for her having a good time.

[Bluespruce1 707]

You are so right. Last weekend I played in the gloryhole room with another lady friend. We totally get off on the whole experience as the guys poke their hard cocks in for us to sample. It’s always fun to try to guess who belongs to which cock when we leave and see the guys out on the dance floor or around the club. One of the guys had a huge cock - honestly I could barely fit the head in my mouth. When we left the room, my husband introduced me to him and did he wanted to join us in one of the rooms. I agreed and we grabbed a room and sure enough i recognized the massive cock once we got undressed. My husband couldn’t wait to see me tackle that monster. After some fun foreplay I got in the missionary position and invited him to take me. My husband watched intently as he worked his penis around my opening. The guy really did nothing for me but to be honest i did want to feel what his big cock would be like inside me. Before I was really ready he steamrolled inside me. He was every bit of 10” and as thick as a beer bottle. My husband loves watching him stretch my pussy but it was nothing short of unpleasant for me. After a few minutes of thrusting he thankfully ejaculated and was finished. I never came close to an orgasm and my pussy was spent for the night. I have had some very big guys who know how to fuck and a big penis does feel very good - but so does a 5 or 6 inch cock that hits all the right places. I think got guys it is a thrill to see your wife take. big penis especially if they are on the smaller side but at least for me, I’m happy with any cock that’s attached to a great guy.

[padoc 1,704]

Mrs Doc had a similar experience at that club. If its the same guy (and it could be…that place has a lot of regulars)he IS huge. Her complaint was the same, he had no finesse and zero technique and she was left completely unsatisfied but he made sure HE got off. We saw him other nights and he never got a 2nd chance.

[cplnluv1 874]

The first couple we met had a man who was very well endowed, big enough that from their pics we just thought they were a scam. This was back when Craigslist was full of scammers. We were looking for a bi female and the pic was a cute female and an endowed male. That screamed scam. I was more excited to see the women play.

 

When they showed up we were amazed.

 

To the question I was nervous for her, she assured me it would be fine. He was an asshole and I laughed when he lasted seconds. Yes she moaned and gasped at first.

 

Here was a man with the tool but couldn’t use it.

[venusshaw 123]

This is the husband answering, since the question is for the hubby. My wife was absolutely enamored by this guy. When they got together, and I was watching, he gave her probably one of the best orals, she has experienced. My wife has a small mouth and tight small pussy. Everything about her is small except her boobs and desire for sex. When she took him in her mouth she gasped, because until then she had not realized that he was about 7 inches (she is comfortable with 5 inches) and also was think. About 150% thicker than me. She stayed with licking him and sucking the tip of his cock. When it came to penetration, she was scared and told him, "you are too big for me. I will hurt. " The guy said, don't worry, let's do the cowgirl position and you insert as much as you can. She started with only having half of his cock inside her and grimacing. But, soon enough as she rode him faster and longer, the entire cock was buried in her and she was riding him with boobs swinging and arms flaying. When she came, it was the loudest shriek and moan of her orgasms. Now that she was used to his girth and length, he turned her around and shoved his entire shaft from behind. As she encouraged him to move, I could see six inches of his staff coming out and going in and her enjoying with moans,of "Your cock fits me great. Fuck me harder and make me cum again. Bang your balls against my pussy." He said, "you are so tight Venus, I can't hold it any longer," When he shot his stuff into the condom, she was clutching on to my cock and sucking the life out of me.

[twohots4u2 188]

The first timed my gal took on a very large (9X6") cock was an exciting time for me too. We were traveling on the West Coast and arranged to have him meet us at a hotel where we would be staying that night. We had reserved a room just down the hall from our room, where her mother was staying with us. After my gal got ready we said goodnight to her mom and went down the hall to his room. After some chat sitting on the bed, I invited him to kiss her to get the party started.

 

As they began French kissing, I started helping her get undressed. Soon she had his cock out and was stroking and sucking on it. I was amazed at how large it was. He and I alternated giving her oral until she came. By that time hie cock was soft so she started stroking and sucking it again. My head was close to hers and she pushed his cock over in front of my mouth and asked me to suck it while she sucked his balls. I did and she did.

 

When his cock was hard he put on a condom. I rubbed the head of his cock up and down in her pussy slit, and on her clit. He then said, "I have it," and started easing his cock into her pussy. He gently pushed it in and pulled it out, getting deeper and deeper each time. When he had about six inches of his cock in, she said, "Deep enough!" They fucked for about 45 minutes until he came.

 

After a break, he and I rimmed her until her ass was fairly relaxed and loose. After she and I got his cock hard again, he put on a condom and with me lubing his cock, he worked it slowly in her ass until he was balls deep. They fucked for about 50 minutes until he came again. She loved it and kept asking him to fuck her hard and deep in her ass.

 

Rather than be jealous of her enjoying his big cock, I was very happy that she felt so good while fucking it. That was the beginning of her becoming a size queen. Fortunately, her pussy returned to its regular very tight shape shortly after she fucked guys with large cocks. So, by the time we fucked after a session with a big cock, her was pussy tight, juicy, and hot, and always gave me a wonderful feeling during our after swing fuck.

 

We always viewed that session with her first very large cock as one of our most memorable swing sessions.

[venusshaw 123]

Well endowed are nice to watch, but I don't really like the thought of having them inside me - either too thick or too long. Normally, I ride them, so that I know how much I want. My husband loves to watch me fuck, he is more into watching my body and facial reactions and knows when I am thrilled. So two weeks back, we went to a party place. Three men were willfully molesting me in the hot tub. While those three were busy with various body parts of mine, a BBC came about, sat on the ledge of the pool and announced himself as the Bull. He was both thick and long. He entered the pool and lifted me on to the central stand and gave me wonderful orgasm with his tongue. We then headed to the playroom, I took three of them, as the fourth seemed too aggressive. I let the other two guys do there job, while I sucked the bull. But the Bull was a raging Bull. He made me come multiple times with his tongue, and fucked me in every position - slow and leisurely and hard and fast. It was the first time I enjoyed a BBC with gay abandon, without worrying about whether it will hurt me. As always happens, my husband takes me last, because he is the only bare back I allow, and I love flooding at the end. So the bull came on my boobs and my husband shot his load in me. I know from the way my man was excited, that he had enjoyed watching me with the bull.

[Guest]

Oh this is a funny one for us. I had had all sizes inside me. Some big some small. The issue of size never came up in our conversations about our experiences. Until I had what would be called HUGE! OMG. We were at a party and I went to a bedroom with this guy and holy shit! I was 100% sure he wouldn't be able to stick it in me. My hand wouldn't fit around the thing. But, I opened my legs and he was very aware of his size. It took a few minutes for him to get it up in me. It was crazy and apparently everyone knew what was going on. They could hear me take it and my husband said that he had never heard the noises that came from me. He gave me a powerful fucking and when we were done I just laid there until my husband came to see if I was okay. I told him to go and get a wash rag or something. My pussy was still taking spasms and I had a huge mess between my legs and on the bed. Oooof. My husband was like holy crap and I was laughing that saying that I just got fucked by a horse! Remarkable. My husband was on a mission to see his thing! lolol. He followed the guy around to see if he could spy his erection. 

 

Anyway, the funny thing is we got to know him. He had a Master's Degree in animal husbandry! Go figure. And he was an expert in inseminating livestock! You can't make this stuff up! Well, I just had to have him over sometime to do it again. My husband was all for it and he wanted to see this guy's huge dick and see him stick it in me! No jealousy at all. We did have him over and made a video of it. Just listening to the video I can tell what he's doing to me. And he had a huge ejaculation in me. Wow. 

 

I'm not saying bigger is better, but he knows how to fuck into me and I love the sex mess he leaves inside me. I date him often now.

[Numex 2,459]

On 9/25/2019 at 2:31 PM, padoc said:

the guy was larger than I but I was neither jealous or intimidated, she cums like that when she rides me or pretty much anybody else who can hit the spot.

My wife is the same way.  She can get off on any dick.  She thinks that when a couple is fucking it is unfair to the guy for him to bear the responsibility to get her off and himself.  

[udsarge 119]

First time she was with a well endowed man...she was with ME!!! Ye haw you know what I'm talkin about!!!  (to be honest I am just an average guy but I had to put out the wise guy answer just because I know there are guys who said that very thing to themselves )

 

[mikeswing2890 4]

My girlfriend wanted to try a MFM threesome on her birthday. One of my friends just broke up with he girlfriend and also has a 8.5 inch plus dick. (She knew this because his ex girlfriend  told her before).  We got a hotel, played cards and drink, took our pants off and had casual sex with her for a  couple hours, trying different positions, taking breaks switching back and fourth. I was having sex with her doggy style while she was sucking his dick and he goes "Im about to cum" and she goes "no wait I want you to cum in my pussy."  I take my dick out and he comes around back, she props her ass up over the bed, and I watched him put it in. He pounded her hard for about 20 seconds and exploded inside her pussy. It was the hottest thing I have ever seen when he dick flopped out followed up a huge glob of jizz from her pussy and cum dripping off his dick still. She hoped back onto the bed  and  spread her legs to show us all the cum dripping out. We all kinda laughed. Not sure how I was going to feel about it but I was unexpectedly turned on by looking at his dick. I was sitting in the chair with a super hard dick, my friend sitting on couch with half limp dick and his cum everywhere and my gf came and hopped on me. Needless to say we did it a few more times after that night   She said she enjoys me watching another guy fill her pussy up. 

[mikeswing2890 4]

My girlfriend wanted to try a MFM threesome on her birthday. Tbh I wasn't sure about it but it was hot watching a big dick explode with cum insider her pussy and seeing the aftermath when I go to fuck her.  At first I  had to get comfortable, now we do it every so often and its fun.  

[mikeswing2890 4]

The second time I actually got hard seeing his big hard dick.  I also enjoy watching him stick it in her at first having to work it in and open her up because he is so big and she is so tight. My favorite part is seeing her pussy and his dick when he cums and takes it out. 

[sdexcalibur 27]

Only seen her with 2 men in person in a club setting. Have her on camera maybe 5 times and there are countless others. She plays mostly solo. My cock is on the smaller side and everyone comments on how tight she is. So seems like almost everyone is larger than me, but she has told me stories about 8,9,10+inches guys.
 

1 or 2  being to big to fully take

( 2nd person in the scenario) I can think of 2 people in particular. This is going back 6 years ago. One was from the local work out place. He was tall, skinny and packing around 7-8” she really enjoyed him right off the bat.  Another was a really tall heavier guy that use to plow our drive way ( not the only thing) that she said was just enormous. 
   They were together a half a dozen times at least and he slowly stretched her out to the point where she was able to accept him somewhat comfortably. 
 

  She has been with a lot of men ( we lost count) some one time only and a couple was a steady thing. I remember being insider her after her and the “plow guy “as we called him became more of a thing and thinking wow I can actually feel her stretched out.  

  It turned me on knowing she was getting fucked by a cock so large it literally made it feel like I just fell in and had room to move ( think hula hoop, lol) as that’s the turn on for me. For her to get pleasure and honestly get fucked like I can’t. It’s a mix of emotions and it’s addictive. 

[JessicaJamison 864]

Ok so female perspective... the first time I fucked a really big dick in front of my husband I was a pretty nervous because I was concerned how he would feel.  So initially I held back in showing how good I was feeling, it was hard to get out of my own head.  Now with me I always feel a little bit of guilt until I have my first orgasm, then its like a switch gets flicked in my brain and I go oh yeah this is fun, then I'm fine and I lose my jitters and dive in.  So when the first orgasm hit I said screw it and fucked him the way I wanted to be fucked.  In the end my husband was fine, he said at first he was surprised as he thought I'd go nuts on it, he was glad when I finally did.  

 

My advise is don't worry so much, if your nervous she will like it too much she is nervous you will be jealous or upset.  Sex is fun, so have fun.  Big dicks are a lot of fun, but connecting to a man and having sex is a lot of fun too.  Just because she enjoys one big dick doesn't mean she won't like your cock any more.  I have fucked plenty of medium to small dicks and I always found a way to have fun.  

[MidwestHoneys 359]

Before becoming Mrs we were set up with a couple as a show for someone who watched. We were athletic and the other couple was an athlete too. He had to be 6’5” at least and his partner was very fit and hot. We were stripped down and some just talking for the first time, we just met. I noticed the snake hanging half way down his thigh. I was gawking and leading Honey’s eyes to his long cock. I was thinking what his girl thought of mine and if she was going to feel me. The girl I was going to fuck was muscular with a gorgeous bubble butt and firm tits. Honey turned to me and said let’s have fun. And fun she had and I had fun. We weren’t married and I just thought how I could ever fill her again. 

[hunterdonNJcpl 1,422]

I thought the whole point was to find guys with big dicks

~the Mrs.

[tkntd 59]

That first time was THE very first time, with a couple we’ve been friends with for some time. I guess he was a couple of inches longer than me, but honestly it was a turn on. K loves the idea of a really big cock, but when it comes down to it she’s more about the overall visual appeal. It doesn’t really bother me, because my turn on is watching her go crazy and being driven crazy by what’s going on.

[Fitlakecouple 451]

He was not just large - he knew what he was doing. The visual was erotic (obviously) but her sounds we're unforgettable. His first entry was punctuated by an unmistakable "grunt" announcing her pleasure at being so filled up. He took his time allowing her to warm up to his length and girth. The sounds continued throughout the session leaving zero doubt that she was enjoying the ride of her life. She got louder and more vocal than normal, urging him on - harder, deeper, faster.  One of my fondest swinging memories was her being fucked so very well. Thanks again John!

[KatrinaandDriverX 121]

On 9/25/2019 at 12:29 PM, adamgunn said:

My wife and I are into swinging and hotwifing. When we have MFMs, usually at our home, I love to watch.

 

But when we go to parties, like PSU we split up. When I see my wife having fun I might observe for a little while, but before too long one of the other females will approach me (or vice versa) and I'll start having fun with her, leaving my wife to her own devices.

 

It's a situational thing. . .

Yes and hell yes

 

We do the same things at a house party, go separate ways, yet always ' together '.  More than once my husband had some play time with someone , only to find me later.  Typically, I'm getting fucked into next week by someone I've only just met. The good news is that he's thrilled for me. One time, he claims this was the best, he found me with two men and I was being 'spit roasted' . He said it wasn't the sexual act as much as that I was smiling and having fun..

 

Katrina

[Anon321 524]

I don't think the first time was a big deal actually.  But I can think of a few times when I've seen my GF with some really big cocks where I felt a little jealous or insecure.  It's not always easy to keep all emotions out of it but I find every situation to be different.  Some situations have made me jealous, some insecure, some angry, etc.  But at the end of the day I always get over them and am eager to get right back into it.

[NicNac77 0]

The first time I saw my wife with a well endowed man wasn’t my wife’s first time with this guy. It was one of her ex’s and he is BIG and THICK, 10” actually. We had been going to swinging parties for about a year and everything was great. We had fun together at first then we had fun separately. Then for whatever reason (she called him, it was a supreme coincidence, whatever) her ex was at one of the parties. She immediately went to him and within minutes she was on her knees for him. I watched for a bit a little uncomfortable with all the attention they were getting. A lot of people stopped and watched as my wife performed an incredible blowjob on his massive member. The doorway to the room was packed. Then he picked up my tiny wife and threw her on the bed and took her. For over an hour. She was someone I never knew existed. She was wild and didn’t care about anything or anyone around her. When he was ready he announced to the room he was gonna cum in this little married hotties pussy. And he did. Driving home that night she had a look of complete satisfaction on her face. On the drive she was playing with herself and kept saying how much he came. At home she left a small puddle on the seat. Inside she wanted me to fuck her “sloppy pussy”. I told her I was tired and took a shower. When I came out she was on her phone and rubbing herself. I asked her what she was doing and she said “telling N who I, we ran into tonight.”  
 

It did negatively affect our relationship. 

[Anon321 524]

On 3/23/2021 at 9:58 PM, NicNac77 said:

It did negatively affect our relationship. 

It doesn't seem like you're upset because you saw your wife getting fucked by a huge cock but because you think she secretly reached out to her ex to play with.  Is that correct?

[MidwestHoneys 359]

Maybe I have the smallest dick on here or is this only for the hung guys. Yeah there are big cocks out there and they all fucked my wife. We found that 1 in a 1000 that is bigger than 9 inches. It was much easier to find the 7 in 1000 that are exactly 9 inches. I know it’s much easier to find those 3 in 100 that are 7.25-8 inches. 
The easiest way is to just look on the swinger boards, there are so many big dicks there. 

[LaidBackFun 36]

The first time my wife had a huge cock she said it was terrible. The guy just jackhammered away hitting her cervix. I was in another room and didn't watch them but later saw his erect cock which was indeed huge (9-10 inches). She said she just wanted it to be over and fortunately her came pretty quickly. 

[herpob 573]

The very 1st time...

Was it exciting, nerve racking, defeating?

 

It took a VERY long time.  I cannot take large penises easily, it takes hours of prep and play. I knew this from toy play (thank goodness), the first real deal was a long slow process but once I was able to handle it. it was fun. The visual was of course the best part. We had mirrors, great lighting, pillows, camera's for live feeds to watch on the big screen. We made stills out of some great shots of how amazingly full I was with him in me.

 

What was the conversation after the fact, did it effect you two negatively? No

Also did you discuss it before it happened? Yes

 

My husband loved it as did I but it was quite the challenge. Also I did mention this in another post, I can more easily handle the guy anally than I can vaginally. I stretch better.  And my husband loves the guy in me anally way more than vaginally.  I do as well. Talk about feeling FULL!  It is quite amazing now that we have done it with him dp, craziest scene thus far for me.